Well I am 13, but I am not your typical 13 year old. I have been through alot, so you can ask me anything. I love to be on here, so I can see what problems people have, so I can try to relate to them. I am a punk, I am no where close to a girly girl. I wear what I want to wear and if anyone doesnt like it then thats their problem. I dont care what others think of me. I wear black nail polish, punk hair style, and I skateboard ALOT! I think there is no problem with bisexuals or gays, even though I am straight. I have a best friend who is gay and I think he is so awesome. I love to help people, and I am really funny once you get to know me. I love my friends to death, and I hope I can help you in anyways that I can.
Gender: Female
Location: South Carolina
Age: 13
Member Since: July 9, 2007
Answers: 51
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lol okay im 16/f and i like my friend whom i known since i was 4. and i talked to him in 7th grade. and then yesterday on myspace. and i like him a lot.and we might hangout at the mall. and im not sure if i should tel him yet that i like him.because im afraid he'll get scared. because i notice guys do get scared when u tell them you like them or something. what should i do? (link)
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Like everyone has said, dont just blurt it out. If you pressure him into liking you then he will get scared. Just bring it up, and if he doesn't feel the same way, then tell him you understand. He might need some time to think, since you and him have been friends for so long. But do think about this though, if you and him start going out, then it is a possibility that if you and him do go out then if you and him break up yall might not be friends anymore. But since you and him have been friends so long, I am sure yours and his friendship could survive through anything.
Hope I helped
Good Luck!! :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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My friend called me yesterady and told me that she just got done having sex while on her period. The boy cummed inside her and she wanted to know if she pregnant.
Can you get pregnant if you have sex on your period and the boy cummed inside of you? (link)
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Yes she could get pregnant. Anytime someone has sex without protection, you could get pregnant. (on your period or not) But the chances of getting pregnant while on your period is very slim)
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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Hey, can you guys listen to my song and tell me what you think.. And some adive also, if you have any
I'm kinda shy, so i'm not ready to share this with people I already know.
http://www.purevolume.com/songsfortheweek
thanks (link)
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First of all the music was great. The only thing is put more effort into them. Also it sounds like your to close to the microphone. Back away from the microphone a bit, and put more heart and soul into the song, and it would be awesome.
Hope I helped :)
- MCRxoLoVeR
P.S GREAT SINGING VOICE!!!
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I am startign to Jog a mile each day, i can do it, but i have had some lower back provleams and my back tends to get sore well doing it and i just have a hard time unless i can get my mind off it. so any tips to make it go by quicker or stretches to make it easier. (link)
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Well first of all go with your friend. That will definetley pass the time away. And if you have a music player, take that, that way you dont think about your back. Also this is a stretch you can do.
Sit on your butt and stick your legs out in front of you. Try to touch your toes. Hold it for a few seconds.
That stretches your lower back as well as your legs. Also dont jog alot of a time. Jog maybe 20 minutes one day, 25 minutes the other day, and then go back to 20 so you can give yourself as well as your back a break.
Good Luck
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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When I was little, my parents never spent time with me, never talked to me unless it was about something i did wrong, and really brought me down.
Now I'm 16, and I'm used to living without my parents basically. They're there, but not there for me.
I think my childhood led up to the reason why I don't have any esteem at all.
I'm trying to make up for those years by hanging out with my friends- and they're calling me "clingy".
I need to try and make up for those little positive moments i never had as a kid, I need to get my esteem past the level of zero.
Any advice on how I can do this? (link)
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My dad was the exact same way. He picked favorites and as you probably guessed, I wasn't it. What you have to do in order to get your self esteem up is go out with someone. (boyfriend wise) And as for your friends, they're not true friends if they say your to clingy. When it comes to friends, there is no such thing as clingy. I am 13/f and my whole life, I didn't have anyone I could talk to, until about a year ago when I met my BEST friend Mikey. He is there to talk to me about anything, and even my personal stuff, I go to him to talk about it. So what you need to do is find you a special friend, who you could just go to with anything. I mean you could be open with him, tell him anything, cry on his shoulder, or just laugh with. That will get your self esteem up for sure.
Hope I helped :)
Good Luck
-MCRxoLoVeR
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My parents will not let me go one day without them getting on my case about anything. When I've done my chores, they're getting me on my case about my driving. When thats done, they resort to just saying I need to shape up.
I've got a busy schedule, and I just want one day to relax when I dont have anything planned. I tell them I want a day off to myself, but they get angry.
How can I get them to just give me some space when I need it?
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Well my dad is the same way about me. Although I think it might be for a different reason. Anyways, just tell your parents that you really need a break. And I think the person below me put this, if your old enough just stand up for yourself. But no matter how old you are, you can't have them push you around like this. Just tell them "look I really need a break, yall are pushing me to hard, and I just need to have some time to myself" and if they don't understand then just explain to them why you need your space. I am sure everything will be fine.
Good Luck :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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hi, im really upset and i've cried for ages over this im turning 14 in exactly 2 weeks, this is long right basically i havent started my period my boobs are growing and are a fair size, i've got lots of pubic hair on my vagina and armpits thats normal. I'm worried about the period thing will it ever start? I masturbated with proper dirty sticks and unclean pens will this affect my period and also i don't do much sports apart from athletics once a week in school as part of PE but i'm quite energetic and lively. I'm so scared i really don't know what to do, my sister who is now 17 started hers at the age of 13 and 3 months i don't know about my mum and i can't talk to them or any doctors what should i do? I want to say thank you for everyone who helps me out with advice and please even if i have 50 answers please still write in thanks a lot. (link)
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First of all yes it will start. I am 13/f and my mom started her's at 12, and I was always wondering would it ever start, and yes by the way I have had mine for about a few months. Your period starting date is not always going to be the same as your mom's or anyone else's. But about the dirty pen thing, if you masturbate with dirty stuff then you could get infected so I wouldn't encourage that. But I don't know if the dirty thing would have something to do with your period, unless you broke something up there, which is not a very good chance that you did. (if you did you would feel it) So yes it will start, you just have to wait for it.
Hope I helped :)
-MCRxoLoVeR
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Hey you answered my question earlier about skateboarding. Since you love it so much do you think you could give me some pointers? I don't care what they are about just anything will work. I wanna know everything you know. THank you. (link)
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Ok well first of all, I am going to warn you that it is very frusterating at first. Just whatever you do dont just give up. Learning tricks is hard at first but you will love the feeling when you accomplish a trick. But you have to make sure you are not afraid of falling. So I cant promise you that you want get hurt, because of course you're going to wreck sometime but just make sure you wear pads, and a helmet, and it will turn out fine. Also here is a website that you can go to and hopefully this will help you.
http://www.how2skate.com/
(this website helped me out alot)
Good Luck, and remember, dont give up on it. It will be so much fun when you learn tricks.
Good Luck
-MCRxoLoVeR
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i'm taking up skateboarding just to keep me busy and i was wondering what foot goes first on the board. i'm left handed and left footed so which one goes front? (link)
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Normally, your left foot would go first, but if your right foot goes first its referred to as goofy. Just try both ways and which ever one you like best then just skate that way. But I hope you get really into it. I'm 13/f and I LOVE skateboarding. It's so awesome. Once you learn to skateboard pretty good then you should get you like one of the big company skateboards like element or birdhouse, or something like them.
Good Luck
MCRxoLoVeR
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No one understands me. At all.. I cannot talk to my Mom okay?? It's just not that easy. Through school I try so hard to be someone, loved by teachers, known by friends.. I mean I have friends and most teacher love that I get awsome grades but my Mom doesn't. It seems like she couldn't careless if I dropped dead. I came home early from camping because I had my periode and my Mother tweeked saying schools not everything (love story**summer reading stuff like that**) Well it is to me. Im a staright A student and my mom could careless. I mean if my brother Scott actually got a D she'd be SOO proud! I know people might say she expects more out've me but everytime I do my best she ssays I could do better, or to try harder and she acts like im not her daughter. (link)
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Well I am sorry your having such a rough time but the only solution is to talk to her. My dad used to be the same way. All your mom is doing is trying to make it stay that your a straight A student. Like she knows you want to impress her so she always says you can do better. And deep down she knows you are trying your hardest, but you should talk to her. Just go up to her and be like "mom I know you expect a lot more out of me but I am doing th best I can, and it really hurts me because sometimes I feel that you couldn't care less about me" and just tell her how you feel.
Hope everything works out ok!!!
-MCRxoLoVeR
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okay well basically every question i ever posted was about him. I know i need to get over him but ive liked him since september and he just doesnt talk to me anymore but when he sees me he always somehow makes sure i know that hes there. I know he doesnt like me anymore and before we went out his best friend warned me he was a player but i already liked him for 8 months so i didnt wanna believe it. Before we went out i tried to get over him but i couldnt. then we went out but only for like a week and he broke up with me. It made me really upset because i liked him sooo long and then i had him...just to lose him. We broke up beginning of june and hes still all i think about/ I think i started to love him. I still talk to his best friend and just the other day his friend IM'd me and said "I told you so when i said he was a player" As i said before i try to pretend hes not there when i see him but he makes sure that i know and hes always with other girls. I know i need to cry it out i can feel it but for some reason i just cant cry. i start to tear up but then i stop . I dont know what to do. PLease help me =/ (link)
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First of all I am very sorry to hear that your having a complicated time. But sounds to me as if he's rubbing it in your face that you and him are no longer going out. And I think his best friend was right, he is a player. I have had a guy do the exact thing to me. He went out with me (knowing that I liked him for so long) and then when he broke up with me he always (somehow) was with all these girls in the hallway and he was rubbing it in my face. My opinion that shouldn't be the guy you like anyways but for how you would get over him, just try going out with other people. (I know it might not work at first but in time it will) Like go out with one of your guy friends, some one you trust with your heart, and I'm sure it will all turn out great.
Good Luck!!!
-MCRxoLoVeR
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