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help me i gotta GET OVER HIMMM
okay well basically every question i ever posted was about him. I know i need to get over him but ive liked him since september and he just doesnt talk to me anymore but when he sees me he always somehow makes sure i know that hes there. I know he doesnt like me anymore and before we went out his best friend warned me he was a player but i already liked him for 8 months so i didnt wanna believe it. Before we went out i tried to get over him but i couldnt. then we went out but only for like a week and he broke up with me. It made me really upset because i liked him sooo long and then i had him...just to lose him. We broke up beginning of june and hes still all i think about/ I think i started to love him. I still talk to his best friend and just the other day his friend IM'd me and said "I told you so when i said he was a player" As i said before i try to pretend hes not there when i see him but he makes sure that i know and hes always with other girls. I know i need to cry it out i can feel it but for some reason i just cant cry. i start to tear up but then i stop . I dont know what to do. PLease help me =/
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First of all I am very sorry to hear that your having a complicated time. But sounds to me as if he's rubbing it in your face that you and him are no longer going out. And I think his best friend was right, he is a player. I have had a guy do the exact thing to me. He went out with me (knowing that I liked him for so long) and then when he broke up with me he always (somehow) was with all these girls in the hallway and he was rubbing it in my face. My opinion that shouldn't be the guy you like anyways but for how you would get over him, just try going out with other people. (I know it might not work at first but in time it will) Like go out with one of your guy friends, some one you trust with your heart, and I'm sure it will all turn out great.
Good Luck!!!
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I'm sorry to hear that you are having to go through this hard time. All I can really say is that you HAVE to try get over him. It does take time even when the person was a jerk. As for what he is doing, I'd have to strongly agree with the other person, he's doing it just to get attention. He's trying to make you jealous which is why he makes sure you know he's there and shows off the girl/s he's there with.
I won't say to change how you feel about him because you can't - that's something that will take time. But you do need to push forward and move on and live your life without having this guy's shadow hanging over you at every turn. Even if it does make you feel really down when you see him don't show that it does. Just carry on with what your doing and have fun. Show him that you don't care. If you have to turn his game around and show him what HE'S missing instead of the other way around, which is what he seems to be doing but no matter what don't be tempted to go out with him again if he does come crawling back. I think everyone reading this will agree with me when I say you deserve a hell of a lot better than this guy and you CAN do a lot better than this guy. It's a big world and there's a lot of guys out there, just trust me when I say you will always find someone better. :]
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Seems like this guy wants only ATTENTION. He just wants you to give attention to him. Which is what your doing. You're giving him your power. Take it away and find another guy, MORE worth your time honey. I'm sure that this guy just wants to mess with your head. And not much more good can come from it.
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