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No one understands me. At all.. I cannot talk to my Mom okay?? It's just not that easy. Through school I try so hard to be someone, loved by teachers, known by friends.. I mean I have friends and most teacher love that I get awsome grades but my Mom doesn't. It seems like she couldn't careless if I dropped dead. I came home early from camping because I had my periode and my Mother tweeked saying schools not everything (love story**summer reading stuff like that**) Well it is to me. Im a staright A student and my mom could careless. I mean if my brother Scott actually got a D she'd be SOO proud! I know people might say she expects more out've me but everytime I do my best she ssays I could do better, or to try harder and she acts like im not her daughter.
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Well I am sorry your having such a rough time but the only solution is to talk to her. My dad used to be the same way. All your mom is doing is trying to make it stay that your a straight A student. Like she knows you want to impress her so she always says you can do better. And deep down she knows you are trying your hardest, but you should talk to her. Just go up to her and be like "mom I know you expect a lot more out of me but I am doing th best I can, and it really hurts me because sometimes I feel that you couldn't care less about me" and just tell her how you feel.
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well you have to talk to her,i know its not easy but trust me thats the only solution,you need to get it over with before you explode of how angry you are at her.She doesnt really care about you being an A student,OFCOURSE SHE DOES,but the thing is that shes USED to you being the smart kid that gets the high marks,she already is proud,shes just taking it for granted,thats what my mom does,i get the highest marks and i tell her and she goes....yeah,uh huh lol i know she cares but shes just used to it.And your brother,mabey not that smart and always fails,when he gets a D or just passes,shes proud cuz she sees improvment!and school is almost everything,its what you build your future from.TALK to her and tell her how you feel about the other things,you say noone understands you,well how are they gonna understand you if you never speak up?!?!
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I have 3 brothers. I'm the only girl. My mom always would tend to care more about what they would do or what grades they could get. I got almost straight A's and she pointed out the B- I had in Math. The point is, now that I'm older, I now realize why she seemed so cold- hearted to me...
She knew I was her only girl, and she wanted me to be strong. By giving me attention she was afraid I'd get lazy, and become lazier. By pushing me she made me work harder though. Helped me become the lady I am today. She just wanted me to do my best. And knew that if she pushed hard enough she would.
Your mom loves you so much, you're her child. She just wants you to suceed. And if it really hurts your feelings (because it did mine) then talk to her about it. seriously hon.
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