Hey, My name is Laura! I'm a sophmore in high school. I blow out my 16 candles on December 22. I don't really know what to say on here, but I love to help anyone!
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Age: 15
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what is trojan-enz. like what is the enz? (link)
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these are my favorite condoms!
their like any other condom but they include sperimiside (i think i spelt that wrong) ..
but its a good condom and its pretty strong - i suggest them =)
i also suggest the "shared pleasure" one!
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I recently got the iPod Touch 2nd Gen.
For those who have an iPod Touch or know someone who has it, is the screen a really good screen?
What I mean is will it still be able to sense when you touch it as the years go by? At least two years, will the iPod Touch last 2 years without the screen failing if well-treated? Does it depend how much you use it? Anything will help! (link)
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The ipod touch is amazing. sometimes safari crashes.. but thats not a big deal if your not going to use it that much. ive had mine for about a year and a month now - if its still in one piece and working for me, then its deffinitly a keeper :)
oh btw. the ipod scratches realllly easily so i suggest you get a good case for it.
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ive never had sex with music before and i kinda want to. The thing is i cant find enough songs that would be good to put on a cd. me and my bf both like rock and rough sex so i'm looking for music that wouldl be good for that. I like songs like closer by nine inch nails and crazy bitch by buckcherry so maybe some other ones like that. The also dont have to be like explicitly sexual songs as long as they have a good beat for rough sex. Thanks :) oh and btw he's 23 if that makes a difference (link)
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this is a realy good one.
down with the sickness by disturbed.
really, anything by that band is good to fuck too =)
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Im thirteen and i wanna go tanning i live right down the block from hollywood tans and i wanna go but i never had the chance i have areas on my stomache that are darker then others and my neck and face are pale . From natuaral tanning i was wondering is that going to affect how even i get on my tan? Or how dark i get? Do i need to sign papers with a parent or guardian to go tanning? Is there an age limit? What do i need to wear or bring? If i dont wear makeup will my face become tan? And is there a chance of me getting burnt ?
how much does it usually cost to go tanning ? And is there big tan lines? Hope you can help me with all these questions .
-torii babiiee* (link)
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1. it depends in what state you currently live in. i live in NY, and you have to be 18 to go in yourself, if you are under you have to have a parent sign a paper for you.
2. that could affect your tanning. but its very unlikely.
3. do not wear makeup, most foundations and things like that have SPF in them.
4. theres a bunch of lotions in the tanning place, you choose for what you want and how your skin reacts to sun.
5. you have to buy lotion, it might be 30 dollars at the most if you want to go in the booth for 20 mins.
6. well, usually people go in naked or with a bathingsuite on. i go in naked because i dont want any tan lines.
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F/17 Okay so when my boyfriend started fingering me it felt really good the first few times but now its like i dont feel anything when he does and i dont want to tell him to stop because thats about as much fun ill let him do right now. Like why dont i feel anything when he does it anymore? thanks! (link)
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Well, how many fingers does he use? 1? 2? 3?
maybe he could use another finger.
your most likely used to how he does it now.
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okay so The Haunted Graveyard is an attraction at Lake Compounce (bristol,connecticut). it's like a FrightNight attraction where the staff dresses up as scary things and roleplays that you are in a haunted place or whatever.
so my question is,has anyone been there?
and if so..
1) did you like it?
2) was it scary?
3) how scary was it on a scale of 1-10
4) what were some of the things that are scary?
I'm asking all this because I kind of get scared easily,and I want to know what to expect,but I also still want to go there cause everyone is! (link)
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i was there! hahaha, i went last year. i live like an hour and a half from lake compounce
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umm well i touched my bfs penis today, it was through his boxers today, and i umm like think it was a handjob but im not sure.
clarifications?
like what would i have to do to make it be one.. (link)
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you would actually have to move your hand up and down, touching the skin, not the boxers. till they cum.
to do that, you LIGHTLY grip the penis. mainly using your index finger and thumb, go up and down, concentrating on the head of the penis [sensitive spot]
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the eyeliner i have now is maybelline new york define a line (soft black) ...its good and all but it like wears off in 2 hours...is there any eyeliner that i can get at CVS that will last me like a whole day without fading? thankss (link)
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Alamay eyeliner (sp?) is amazing!
it comes in all different colors.
it doesn't smudge or anything :)
and its like 7 bucks and it lasts a long time because it actually comes out
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It was finally over with me and my ex boyfriend just over a month ago. See, up to the point that I met him, no one ever really cared about me. No one. And slowly I lost more and more people that I could talk to. For the first time in my life, I actually met someone that cared about me, that loved me, that adored me and would do anything for me.
The relationship was on and off for about a year, but he always loved me and he was always there for me.
Then suddenly, he was acting as if I didn't exist. I have never been through anything so hard in my entire life. I had no one. After this went away, and I started feeling better about myself, I realised that I was in love with him.
He has a girlfriend now. I'm happy for him, but it doesn't stop the hurt. When he started dating her, I realised that I had to let him go and move on with my life. Though I still hope we end up together.
I've liked other guys since then, but nothing to compared to what I feel for him. We've known each other for like a year and a half, and we're in the same friendship group, so we're being "friends".
Thing is, I don't know how to be friends with him. We've never been "just friends".
We get on well and even flirt sometimes, but if his girlfriend's there he completely ignores me, and she always seems to be there now.
I try not to think about him, and I don't really speak to him anymore. I love and care about him more than anyone, and I want to be there for him, but it hurts too much to see him. I can't cope with it.
So what should I do? How do I be friends with him? Should I carry on not speaking to him or will I lose him? Should I try to get him back, or will I just be wasting my time when really I should move on?
I want to move on, but when I like other guys, I feel as if I'm just in denial, and I know that deep down, I'm still in love with my ex and I don't want it to always be like that.
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FINALLY! someone who is going through the same thing i am.
I text my ex every now and then. but in december itll be a year that him and his girlfriend have been going out. Honestly, i was the bad person and tried to break them up.. it almost worked but then he thought i was just trying to get him single because i said some pretty mean shit about him after he broke up with me because "his friends told him to".
And really, guys are such assholes but yet i find myself in a relationship right now. It's helping alot. Since Alex[the ex] i have been with about 3 or 4 guys in the past 2 years. And the boyfriend i currently have is 2 years older then me so he is going to college next year.. which will hurt me a lot.
Boyfriends hate hearing about your past. but it got to the point where i had to tell my boyfriend about alex [ryan wasnt my boyfriend at the time, but he basically was and thats a totally different story] He said that there is going to be one person that we can't shake off.. he also has someone he can't shake off. I read on a TRUE LIFE survey that a girl falls in love with a guy once in middle school, once or twice in high school (could be including the guy you cant shake off) and in college you just throw it out. When you are older you fall in love 3 or 4 times. I don't believe it, but it can be leading to something because in middle school i fell in love about twice. high school once so far [im a sophmore]. So i guess it can be true... but also it can not be. I was stupid and i put his name in my closet in hugee letters with permanat marker and it wont cover up.. i dont want to paint my closet because i have so many memories written all over it. Every time i go in there i see Alex 1/3/07
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Kayla will NOT leave me alone...
This girl has been driving me insane. It all started with when I was going out with my ex boyfriend. When him and I started going out we would say that she would be out to "ruin our relationship" because she was jealous. Well ding, they both got drunk one night and hooked up. It was ridiculous, but I forgave him and just moved on. She was all nice to me after that, so whatever. Now that boy and I broke up recently, and she is still out to get me... not even kidding.
I met this kid at a concert I went to, who is friends with my other friend. Him and I have been talking a lot and have been doing pretty well, but of course here comes Kayla. She calls him all the time asking him to hang out, and talking bad about me and whatnot. I HAVE NO IDEA WHY SHE DOES THIS. They were friends before him and I started talking, so I can't stop their friendship, but I have no idea how this kid and I are going to work if she continues to do this.
She graduated, I am a junior. Her little sister is a freshman and I have no idea who she is, and yet Kayla leaves me a facebook message asking why I've been threatening to beat up her little sister. What? I never said that, and yet she doesn't believe me.
Please don't say "just ignore it." I have ignored it for half a year and she still won't stop. I tried asking her why she hates me, but that didn't work either. I honestly just don't know what to do anymore, I am about to go insane. (link)
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Okay, well.. maybe she likes your type of guys.
I think you should get her a guy thats like one of yours so that shell have a guy to focus on and not steal your guys. i agree with the person below me, sit her down and say you have no idea who her sister is and you have no idea why kayla is acting like this. she honestly isnt a great friend if she keeps taking your boyfriends/"crushes".
maybe you should show her a taste of her attitude and do it to her too. go hit on her "crushes".
and you cant change the way she is with guys, but what shes doing has to stop shes just being a backstabber.
let me know how it goes :)
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I love the clique books, don't get me wrong. But I feel like there trying to tell everyone to stay away from boys. They act like it's so difficult to talk to them. ALso, it seems like there comming off as the type who can do anything and thats not how life works. I've only read everything through bratfest at tiffany's DON"T SPILL ANYTHING FROM THE SUMMER NOVELS!
THanks a ton! (link)
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Okay, well i love the clique books and im not a huge reader at all. Im usually the girl that goes on sparknotes for everything in school but for books like these i actually read them.
some of the book takes place in westchester ny, where i actually live! its pretty awesome to see what a writer says about the town you live in :)
im not going to tell you much about the books considering you havent read them all :))
but their awesome and you should read the whole novel!
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sooo im thinking about purchasing BareMinerals makeup. anybody with experience with this product what do you think? do you like the makeup? does it cover well? does it look natural and nice? does it stay on long? does it get melty/oily after a few hours or does it keep staying fresh? thankyou =]] please only if you've used!! (link)
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i LOVEEEEE bare minerals! I've been using bare for about 2 years. im turning 16 in december. i will never use any other makeup. it basically makes you look flawless. and im deffinitly not the flawless girl when i dont have makeup on. It hides ANYTHING on your face, a pimple, a scar, dark undereyes, a cut and even freckles! bare minerals takes a short amount of time to put on in the morning. it only takes me about 10 mins with my eyeliner and my eye shadow and everything. so i get more sleep! Before using bare minerals, i had acne. not really bad though. when i started using bare, my acne started going away! the oil in other makeup made my face break out. bare minerals is 100% powder so it doesnt sink into your pores. basically, it covers amazing. you can basically sleep with it and nothing will change on your face. It doesnt "melt" off your face and it doesnt get oily! The only thing is that it costs alot, but i only have to replace the tiny little bare minerals [the ones that come in the starters kit] once a year! it lasts FOREVER im not even kidding.
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I made a mistake and started smoking just before I turned 14...but I gave up after about 7 months of smoking. Stupid I know, but I gave up :]
Now I'm constantly thinking about it and I tend to miss it.
What are some things or whatever I could do to stop thinking about it.
I'm not going to start again, I don't want to...but I need to stop thinking about it and I don't want to miss it.
15/f
Please no lecturing on how bad it is for you. I know, I made a mistake. Also thinking ''It's bad for you'' doesn't stop me from missing it.
So yeah.
Sorry if this is confusing.
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okay, well, try to get into some activity that will take up most of your day, taking your mind off of smoking. like.. try a sport, club, hanging with friends that DONT smoke, running [but dont over run].
every time you want a ciggerette, go for a fruit. if you go for sugar / fatty foods youll just get addicted to those and that wont be good :]
good luck & this helped my mom stop smoking!
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okay. long story. okay. so yesterday "thursday" some kids dared me and this girl to kiss. so we did. and so someone convinced me to tell my b/f. and so did. and he got really pissed. but he "said" he got over it and he wasn't pissed anymore [[yesterday]] so today, i went to this thing after school. and so i got these 3 guys to call him and say "dude, your girlfriend is a really good kisser" and hang up. but i NEVER made out with any of them. and he got really mad. and he left a comment on my profile. it says. "I will never trust you again.You broke my heart.I trusted you with everything now that is shattered.you meant everything to me now you mean nothing i will remember you but hope i will forget.you were my life,but thats now over. I HATE YOU" i don't know if he means it. and i don't feel bad for getting them to call him. but i do feel a little guilty because i hurt him. but i don't really care about him. or i don't want to. because everyone i've ever dared to love has gone. and. i just need to know if i should care. i mean. we've been through alot. and i do think i love him. but i don't want to. i mean. i care. but. what should i do. i don't wanna loose him. i really don't. i can't afford to. i mean. he's been there for me through all my bullshit. and i think i hurt him really badly. and. i really just need to know what to do.
i don't know what to do without him. and i guess i do care. but i dont want to [[sorry for the repitition]] please help. everytime me and him have gotten in a huge fight i started cutting again or i've attempted suicide. i really need him in my life. i can't lose him. (link)
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I have been in a similar situation. Many many MANY girls have called my cellphone and said "your [well, now my ex boyfriend] is so hot, hes an amazing kisser, i've seen him cheating on you, etc". and you know what? that hurt so much, i cried for days. i was depressed for weeks, even months. i broke up with him because of what everyone was saying. your boyfriend had every right to break up with you and say all that stuff, he ment it. because i said the same thing (not word for word, but very close and to the same point). i HATE him, so much. he WAS my life. he did mean EVERYTHING to me. he broke MY HEART. we were together for six months. It killed me on the inside.
I wanted everything with him, a family and a house... he ment so much to me. he did that, it stabbed me in the heart and now i can barely trust guys. I only trust two--my two best friends because also girls, are backstabbers sluts whores and take your boyfriend but thats a totallly different subject and i wont go there--but the truth and lies hurt... they really do. basicallly.. what i want to say is what goes around comes around, you should know that. im sick of girls being fucking sluts, bitches, and straight up backstabbers.
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i'd like to hear everyone and anyone's opinion, but i'd love for the older columnists to help me on this one... question being, do you think there is a certain age in which you can REALLY fall IN love with someone? Or do you think you can fall in love at any age, whether you're 16 or 50? So many people say at 8 you cannot fall in love, yet at 16 you can.. what is the difference? of course, the difference with any age is experiance, but do you guys really believe these theories? i want opinions!!! thanks =]
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i'm 15. turning 16 in december.
I actually fell in love at the age of 14 with this boy alex. First TRUE kiss, First true boyfriend, and first true guy to treat me right. So, i don't stop every thinking about him, hes the only thing on my mind. Since we broke up abuot a year ago, he got a girlfriend and when anyone mentions "sam and alex" i get depressed. i tried to break them up, stupid and bitchy and self centered.. i know. but, ahh, we all make mistakes.. it didnt work, alex and i will never be together, and i'll always be in love with him.
Laura, 16
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my verizon phone broke the other day, it turns on but i cant see the screen! is there any way i can see my text messages i got on my phone? (link)
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Nope, but what you can do is take it to the verizon store. and if you keep your phone off and you get a new one, youll get all your texts on that phone.
ahha, take it from the pro who breaks her phone so many times to the point that it is countless :)
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http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=acc%5Fgiftitem&product%5Fid=1031724206&Page=1
r these long lasting? (link)
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i depends on how much you use it and how much you apply. but i used mine alot and it lasted me a while :)
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Okay, so recently i was at a party and got really drunk. I remember certain parts of the night but a lot of it i have no recollection of. I know i remember hooking up with some guy but I'm scared that we might have had sex, without me knowing/being able to remember. I also remember leaving the party, but barely. I guess I was between an unconscious/conscious state throughout the time.
My question is, do you think I would know if I had sex? and What are some signs or clues that could help me know?
Thank you
-paige w. (link)
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So you have bleeding in your discharage?
if you were/are a virgin, and you had sex and he poped you, then that would be an obvious sign.
also, you could just ask him (if you know who it is), or anyone there.
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http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=acc%5Fgiftitem&product%5Fid=1031724206&Page=1
who likes this lipgloss? (link)
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i loveeeee it !
it comes out in that tint a little, so it looks really good :)
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Is there a way to ignore certain text messages (like spam) that you receive on your cell phone? I have a verizon Samsung Glyde if that helps. I like wanna stop this as soon as possible because my mom is getting pretty annoyed with the bill =/ (link)
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well, that number thats spaming your phone. text the word "STOP". it should stop :]
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