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did i have sex?
Okay, so recently i was at a party and got really drunk. I remember certain parts of the night but a lot of it i have no recollection of. I know i remember hooking up with some guy but I'm scared that we might have had sex, without me knowing/being able to remember. I also remember leaving the party, but barely. I guess I was between an unconscious/conscious state throughout the time.
My question is, do you think I would know if I had sex? and What are some signs or clues that could help me know?
Thank you
-paige w.
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If you could get ridiculously drunk and in a state where you didn't have a clue what you were doing, you can be mature enough and ask what happened.
There isn't really a way to tell, either.
If it was your first time, you may experience a bit of bleeding/pain afterwards. but still, it's not a sure sign, because some people don;t even have those after effects from their first time.
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Unfortunately, this is an increasingly common situation among teenagers. I know plenty of people, including myself, who this has happened to. Although it is unlikely that you would completely forget having sex with him, you shouldn't totally rule it out.
The first thing to do would be to ask him what happened. If this isn't an option or he can't remember either, then more obvious symptoms include soreness and bleeding - although I suspect you would have mentioned this if you had them.
If you have strong suspicions that you did have sex, then you might like to get an STD test - and a pregnancy test if you skip a period.
Personally, after one too many drunken nights where I did too much that I regret, I decided to go totally straight edge. I know I can't tell you not to drink because it's unlikely that you never will again but please learn from this and be more careful in future.
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So you have bleeding in your discharage?
if you were/are a virgin, and you had sex and he poped you, then that would be an obvious sign.
also, you could just ask him (if you know who it is), or anyone there.
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