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when will i ever be happy?? nothings right and everything's a mess. and I really don't know what to do. i'm only 14 but this stuff still hurts. I feel like guys don't like me because i am me. i guess. I don't wanna be alone forever. someone please help. before i do the unthinkable. (link)
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pretty much everyone goes through this while they are a teen, i ave been there.. hell i still have those feelings.. but believe me you arenot alone, and things willget better... you are young, live your life, dont do something stupid... thinking guys do not like you because you are you is just stupid, of course they like you, but you are stll at a young age guys are shy about liking girls, it will get better,being you is the only thing you can do, and no matter what you think, people (guys) will love you for it. you are you and thats all you can be, and being you is the best you can be... you wont be alone forever, trust me... iused to think that too, and now i have a great boyfriend.. im almost 19... it took a while buti finally found someone for me.. and trust me you will to, just ive ittime, you are still young, justlive your life andave fun, when you least expect it... everything in your lifewill be so perfect ... the way i see it.. you need to go throught the bad to get to the good...
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you'll get the good soon enough, dont worry
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I read somewhere that your period stops when you are in the water? I have a very light period, so will this be true? I HATE using tampons because theyy hurt((hence my other question)) so I am just wondering if this is true or not. (link)
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in my experience, yes it stopps when in the water... i also dont like tampons, and dont use them, when i go swimming i just go, and dont use anything... every time i go swimming, or even take a shower my period stops, and stars again after im out, it can bea few minutes or sometimes a hour if i am having a light period.. and sence you say you have a verylght period... i think you will be save... butif you go swimming while on yourperiouid just take something just in case... like where a pad until you get in(go to the bathroom and take it off before you getin)and once your done swimming just oto the bathroom and put a new one on.. and maybe take a tampon or 2 just incase
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I'm not sure if this is the right category. but yeah. I am 16 and i got my work permit and i already have a job for the summer, but i wanna keep the job till winter, but i want another job too. Because i only work every 2 weeks and its only for 3 days and its only till 2-7 & 12-5. so my question is, can i get another job and have 2 and i am in CA? (link)
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yea you can have 2 jobs, but you would need to find a secondjob that would allow you to have time for you first job, so the 2 jobs dont interfear with eachother...
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15/f
If you're a guy, and you have a (guy) friend who is a year younger than you... and he has a sister who is a year younger than him and she likes you, would ever consider going out with her?
If not, why wouldn't you?
If you would, how would you act towards her? Would it be different if her brother was there?
(I'm the sister in this case) (link)
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i would say yes it would be ok to go out together, and as for acting differently, i think it kind ofdepends on how the brother is.. if he is the protective type, the laid back cool type, think its gross that someone likes his sister.. stuff like that...and how he feels about his friend..like if he thinks he is good enough for his sister or not, thinks he will treat her right or not, stuff like that... but all in all it really will involve all 3 people the brother the sister and the friend/boyfriend... but yea i say its ok if the people like eachother =)
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How can i make a layout for Buddy4u? (link)
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here is a good website that has layouts for buddy4u.. you just copy and paste the layout you like and then save it and then its done =)
http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?u=fallingforyoulayoutsxx
or you can google for a website that has layouts >.<
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any site online where i can watch alpha dog for free? and please please make sure the link you give me actually works thanks (link)
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i believe these sites you can watch movies and sows or free
http://www.mydigitalshare.com/modules/contact/
http://movies.freemoviemall.com/
http://www.43things.com/things/view/753803
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okay well i have these freinds...
and their always hanging out together. And they never invite me anywhere. except when theres no one else to hang out with.
they make me feel like crap, it just seems like they arent realy my friends anymore.
p.s. sorry for asking so many questions..
.Rachel
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you can talk to them, and tell them how you feel about this, and that they are bein rude by leaving you out... and if they still continue to do it, then i would suggest making some new friends... i have had frineds like that before, and i got tired of it, and imade new friends, and then they were the ones being left out, and they came running back to me..
just talk to them, ask them whats up, why they do that, and if it has to come down to it, et new friends
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okay so me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex soon. but he told me he doesnt wanna rush it and have his dad or someone walk up. cause he wants to make it perfect.
so how could i get me and him alone for awhile?
and where? (link)
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i know this isnt a very romantic and perfect place, but camping is always a nice place, and you would be alone...
you could get a hotel room, order room service all tha stuff, nice and romantic, but a bit pricey...
if his parents or your parents are planning a weekend away fo something, that would be an ok time to do it, the house would be alone for a night..
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In the morning, I run 1/2 a mile on my treadmill, then do 25 sit-ups. I repeat it like that until I've run 2 miles & done 100 sit-ups. I do the same thing at night. So all together I run 4 miles & do 200 sit-ups. I'm trying to lose as close to 20lbs. by August 29, when I start school. Besides running & sit-ups, what other exercises can I do? The weight I need to lose is on my legs (majorly my thighs), my arms, & most importantly, around my stomach & hips.
I just need some help on what other exercise I can do to help reach my goal.
Thanks :) (link)
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jump roping is agood way for your arms and legg muscles to get in to shape.. swimming is really ood for you leggs/thighs.. if you do squats (sorry if i spelt that wrong) they work for your thighs and butt.. lifting weights works well for you arms.. even while your running on the treadmill while holding weights can work and maybe be faster
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Okaii.
So i want to have a picture as my display picture but it is 19KB 324 x 244 but how do you reduce the KB to 15KB? or what ever it is.
Any suggestions are welcome.
Thanks in advance =] (link)
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you can use an online photo rezier and sesize it a litte, orif you havea program on your computer, you can rexise it there
here is a web pae that can do online photo resizing
http://www.resize2mail.com/
make it like 25% more smaller
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In guy lingo, what do the following words mean?
Blue balls
Chill (like when they say, i like how yur such a chill girl)
Juicy (as related to breasts or other body parts?)
Renob (link)
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lol that is a good question =P
Blue balls is when a man becomes sexually excited, the blood goes to his penis, and it is normally said when the guy is like this.. and doesnt have sex..mostly when a girl is a tease haha .... that is what guys say.. but blue balls is an actualthing, a medical term, that has more meaning to it.. but in guy lingo is basically means im horny, i want sex..but you dont want... i got blue balls
Chill mean you are cool girl
Juicy is like nice, squeezable, yummy lol
renob, of my nowing it means boner.... its boner spelled backwards... RENOB BONER
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well.. i aint really done one of these before.. but here i go..
i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now.. but i have only known him for at least 4 months.. before i started talking to him.. i never knew him or spoke to im before. but neway.
for some reason. when im with him. i aint myself around him. im not shy like in the bedroom or anything. but normally im a happy person and full of energy. but when im with him. i just sit there looking sad a and borin.. he says he thinks im normal. but im different wen im with my friends. i dont no how to be myself aorund him. i keep gettin scared that he is gonna end it. i dont no y but i do. and i dont no weva thats y i cant b myself around him. coz im scared of loosin him. i need advice on how to b myself. and be more fun to be with?? (link)
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i am the same way when i first used to be with my boyfriend... its kind of like your nerves and if your anything like me.. maybeyou think that if you are yourself maybe he wont like you.. so you just kinda sit there.. and think a lot.. how i over came that was, i would tell him lets go do something fun.. go to something you really enjoy doing, something that relaxes you and makes you happy.. you will start to loosen up and get more confortable... dont be afraid to be yourself, because there is a reason he is with you, because he likes you, so be you and have fun.. everyone gets like this at someone point with someone theylike... even the boys.. they just dont admit it lol... but i would say go to something you like to do, loosen up and once you see you and he are having a good time and you are being yourself, you will then slowly start to loose that feeling of "shyness" and the fear of him leaving you....
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so my ex boyfriend's mom recently died && i called him. i hadn't talked to him for awhile. but he said that he wanted to make sure that everything was cool with us because she really liked me. but i still don't feel like everything's right. i'm wondering if i should just talk to him in person the next time i see him, or if i should call him. i can't see him for awhile.but yeah.so i need HELP!!! (link)
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well you should continue to talk with him on the phone, and if you aren't sure if you and him still have a friendship, just start remaking one... talk on the phone, internet, when ever you can, and when it is possible, get together and see eachother... start forming a new friendship, and since his mother has died, it would be really nice to be there for him, that could be a very tragic thing, and im sure he would need someone to talk to that he can trust
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i went into hollister today looking for a dress i really wanted. they had it in there less than 2 weeks ago. they have it different colors, one being blue, and it has a white pattern on it. well, today they had absolutely NO dresses in there, and on their website, they got rid of the dresses page!! i really want a couple of their dresses.. is there anywhere where i can fnid them? and why would they just all of a sudden get rid of all the dresses AND the page on their site? (link)
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you could try ebay to see if they have the dress, or if you know the name of the dress, the style, the designer you could try to google it...
they may have taken it off the web pages and store either because they have sold them all, stopped making that certain dress, or no one was buying them and just took them off the market to make room for something different...
you could also send am email to the store from the webpage asking about the dress... they would deffinately tell you what happend to the dresses or why...
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ok so im 14 and im in complete love with my boyfriend and i know u here that all of the time but we hang out everyday and when im not with him its the worste feeling in the world and we've been together 5 months and we've been inseperable ever since so we were down in my basement the one day and me and him r kind of kinky haha and we like to fool around but we've never had sex and we arent going to b/c wer'e too young and there is too many risks so anyway, i went to put on a skirt [so he didnt have to pull my pants down b/c my mom was upstairs] and then i told my mom i was going to "model" the skirt for him so i wnet downstairs and out it on then he was laying on the floor and i went to step over him so he could look up my skirt and as soon as i did that my mom came down and saw that! i told her i tripped and she came down at the worste time ever it was soo bad and now she thinks im like a whore or something and i told her im not but im not going to tell her that ive done everything but sex esp. if she thinks ill ive done was make out yanno? and now my bf thinks my mom hates him but she doesnt so i dont know what to do! please help me! what do i do? :/ (link)
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well if your sure your mom doesnt hate him the try to convince him over to your house for dinner or something that involves your mom too, so he can see that she doesnt hate him...
if your mom really thinks your a whore, just sit her down and talk to her, in a serious talk.. (of course you can lie a little)... tell her you know all aboutthe "birds and the bees" and you arehaving sex or anything like that, tell her to trust you.. that you areway smarter than that, that you know you are to young, and you know about all the risks, just tell her all those things so she wont think bad about you, and the one thing that will really make her feel good.. tellher "mom you raised me right, dont worry" i said that to my mom before... and she cried (of joy) and completly just ignored the stuff that was going on and now she thinks im a little angel.. lol...
so just talk to her in seriousness...like you and her go out to eat or something and talk... and invite your boyfriend over to prove she doesnt hate him
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I was just searching around for reasons why we should drink a lot of water,and I suppose I show signs of not getting enough(always drowsy,can't concentrate,darker urine,less bowel movements,can hardly exercise).The thing is...I don't really like water.What can I do to make myself drink more,and what exactly does getting enough water intake do for you? (link)
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you can get a flavored water, they have many different kinds.. thats what we make my father do,he also doesnt like water... so flavored water is always good if you dont like normal water, ice water is a lot better than just water, its colder and i think taste different haha
water if really god for you, it helps you loose weight, it flushes out all bad acidsin your body, it basicaly cleans your insides... which is really good because other wise you may get some problems later on because of the bad acids
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i'm a cutter. at least i used to be. i stopped once i started going out with my boyfriend. he's helped. he's also my first boyfriend. we've been going out for three and a half months. i really care about him, but i think that the only reason i stopped cutting was because of him, and that i might start again. i don't know what to do. i don't want to cut now, but a few times in the past few weeks i've wanted to. i don't know if i've honestly gotten any better or if it's just a temporary thing. it's just the only thing that has ever helped. therapy and pills never did anything. (link)
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ok i understand completely!!! i also used to cut, i did for about 7 years, i have 1 year clean... and i also stopped for a guy.. and once i went a while without it.. i always felt like i needed to, i understand ow you much feel, and maybe the way i got over it will help you too...
i just would think about how awful i felt when my boyfriend would look at them and say things about them, or the look on his face when he looked at them, i hated it.. and all time i felt like doing it..i would think about that.. and te feelings i have for him are so much more stronger than the feelings of doing that...
so when you feel down and feel lik cutting, think about something happy, think about how much you care about this person, think about all the people that love you and care about you and would hate that you do that to yourself, im sure your a wonderful person and beautiful in every way body soul and personality, and prove to the world that you love back the people who love you!
cutting is a serious thig, and i know that it is a hard habbit to quit expecialy if you have been doing if for a while, but trust me, you have the will power to over come the urge to do it...
there are a few things that help to make it so you dont cute
-tell someone to hide the thin you cut with, you dont need to tell them what the thing is for, or what you do with it.. but have them hide it.. so when you feel the urge to do it.. you would need to look for it.. and while your looking or by thetime you find it... you will be more calm and wont feel theneed to do it
-write, just get out a pen and some paper and write everything you feel down, just write until you cantwrite anymore.. get it all out.. just me you will feel better
-talk to something.. a stuffed animal, the wall, the air... just talk... get it out of you.. talking about it works too... scream it out, act it out, jump and shout, let it all out... and once you get it all out... once again.. you will feel better
-when you feel down talk to your boyfriend, bestfriend, someone you trust really well... someone you love.. they will help you
-take a shower or a bath to relax
i really hope this is helping you, and if you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to talk to me... i understand what your going throught, andi know how important it is to gethelp with this, so i will be here if you need help
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i'm turning 16 in september and i need some good party ideas.
my house is boring and we don't have a pool so my house wouldn't be a good idea.
what else can i do? (link)
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-you can rent a place and have a party
-if you rent a place, you can havea themed party
-you and your closest friends can all go on a weekend birthday road trip or to some amusment park
-if you like camping, go have a camping party with your friends
-if you have a friend with like a pool at thier house, ask if you can have a small birthday pool party there
not much ideas, but i hope i helped a little =)
i will think of more and post them =)
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Hey. I'm 13, female. I was wondering, becuase I don't have any gym access, or really a place to run most times, how could i lose alot of weight, say 10, 15 pounds, by the first day of school?
Today is July 30. I need to lose this weight by September 4th.
How can I do it?! (link)
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cut down on eating junk food, and greasy foods, dont drink soda, drink a lot of water, water is really good for loosing weight without having to do anything.... you can do sit ups, push ups, joing in place at your house... if you have a jump rump.. jump rope for about 10 minutes every day, that also a real ood why to et in shape, works alot o musscles... go for walks, joggs too if you want... keep active... dont be lazt and sit infront of the tv or computer all the day, if you remain active threw out the day, you will loose weight without even trying...
all those things i do because i dont like the gym, and i keep in shape... just stay away from the sugar foods and drinks, drink a lot of water, and do small excersices about 10 or 15 minutes of each a day, or a few days a week, and you will loose weight
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I want to get mine done during the fall or winter so it can heal by next summer but I heard that it's bad to get one when you're young because you're still growing and it gets saggy. I'm 15 years old and I know a lot of people who get them at 10-12 but a lot of people advised me to wait or else it will get saggy, gross, and ugly and your body will outgrow it. Is that true? If it is, what age should I be when I get it done? (link)
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no that is not true, i got mine when i was 14 and mine is still there and looking great... and you can get it anytime, it only takes about 1 weeks to heal maybe 2 weeks if you mess with it a lot... dont listen to them, it will be fine and look great =)
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