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getting him alone
okay so me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex soon. but he told me he doesnt wanna rush it and have his dad or someone walk up. cause he wants to make it perfect.
so how could i get me and him alone for awhile?
and where?
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Before you decide that where you want to have sex, you need to make sure that you are ready for it.Sex can be a big responsibility. You should be sure you really care about the person and want to be will them before you give them your virginity.
Now to your question: There are many ways. You could say you were going somewhere and stop and do it in the car. This is not very romantic but it is effective. You could make sure your parents will be away from home for a while and go to your own house. This would be more romantic for you both. Or you could find a friend that has their own apartment or cabin of some sort. Then maybe they will lend it to you for a night, this way you will not get interrupted.
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Do either of you have a close friend with a cottage? If so you ought to talk with them and see if you can use their guesthouse for a few days while they are up there as their guests. That could work if you and your friend arrange for a group of pals to all go up for a weekend.
Another person mentioned renting a hotel room. In most parts of the U.S. and Canada they will only rent to people 18+ with a credit card incase the room is trashed and because you are minors. Even a cheap hotel won't rent to you unless you are 18+
The camping trip idea someone else suggested is a good idea. What might work even better is to get a chain lock or buy a new door knob for your or his room with a lock from the inside.
That way people can knock and you have time to get decent. You can also buy a knob that requires a key to get in. You need your privacy.
Now as much as you might hate this next idea you should try talking to your mom. Explain that you want to be safe and are sexually active and want proper birthcontrol and not to be sneaking around. I think she'll be angry at first but in the end thankful that you were upfront and then you could have privacy at his house or yours.
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ok so first my suggestion would be to get a hotel room but you wont spend the night
check in at a NICE hotel at like 2pm or whenever you would like
i know that nice hotels are expensive but this is your first time as a couple splurg on the place
just get it for one night and u dont even have to spend the night just tell your parents that your going to the movies check into the hotel pay with cash go up to your room and have sex!
its perfect
a nice bed
that you dont have to wash afterwards... and you get him totally alone
everything WILL be perfect. as long as your both good (laugh out loud)
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i know this isnt a very romantic and perfect place, but camping is always a nice place, and you would be alone...
you could get a hotel room, order room service all tha stuff, nice and romantic, but a bit pricey...
if his parents or your parents are planning a weekend away fo something, that would be an ok time to do it, the house would be alone for a night..
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