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Hey my name is Kay....
I'm a senior in high school so I'm finally graduating this year! i love school and meeting new people. my hobbies are crocheting, math, and decorating! i someday hope to become a home decorator. I'm from Pittsburgh. i don't drink. i have a lot of experience with drugs and drinking...hence the reason i don't anymore... i may only be 17 years young but i have been through a lot in the past 4 years and i just keep getting stronger. i have a boyfriend whom i have been dating for 3 years and we are still working on some things but our relationship keeps building everyday. i love with my mom and my teenage sister..ya 3 girls in one house.. just think how that is when all of us are on our periods at the same time.. its a trip all on its own. ha ha. recently my moms new boyfriend moved in and he sucks! me and my sister both hate him but life goes on. i don't have many friends but i do have a lot of important people in my life whom i love and would do anything for.. if you want to hear a little more about me you can reach me on my IM. other than that i would love to answer any questions you have about love, sex, families, or anything else you wanna throw at me!

C ya!

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PLease help me fast. Today is my mommy's brithday and we don't know where to take her for dinner please could someone give me suggestion
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if you have a BRAVO around , go there i reccomend a chocolate cake for dessert. happy birthday to your mommy

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ok i am going out with this boy we have been going out for about a year. and we have been talking about sex latly and i was just wondering do you think 15 is to young to have sex? and is it a good idea?

i really want to...

sex is your choice no one else can make that decision for you. just make sure you are safe and that it is the right person. think of how much you rly know about that person before you rly do it.

hope it helps.

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Okay ive been having really weird dreams lately.

The one is im hanging out with a guy who i know but im not close to him or anything. Were in his car and we start kissing and his tounge falls apart in my mouth. And im pulling pieces of his tounge out of my mouth and hes pulling pieces out of his mouth. what could this mean??

Another one is that im at this guys house and ive kissed him before and we almost went out like over a year ago and he told me he likes me still but i have a boyfriend and i do not like him like that. But while im at his house i walk into another room after walking past him and his dad comes in and says something like "I know youve got a lot going on right now but yous should go back out" sounds dumb but it really bothered me.

ANother one is my parents ( but it wasnt really my parents) are getting married and they have an assistant or something. And she keeps chaseing me like trying to hurt me and when i look at her she doesnt have a face its just blurry and i cant get away from her i try escapeing through my window and she always finds me. It felt so real i woke up sweaty and scared.


Can someone tell me why my mind is going so crazy lately?

look up your dreams in a dream dictionary online. i hope that helps you.th dream about kissing means -much affliction
the dream about the boy means - must keephouse in better order
of the girl trying to murder you - an enemyis attempting to injur you.

i looked those up in a dream dictionary tosaveyou the trouble.


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theres this guy thats a year older than me (he=8th grade).. he likes me a lot. I get nervous around guys... but he got really nervous aruond me. Were going to skate nite tonight and I have to teach him how to skate (mind you this guy is amazing). He gets so nervous and I'm just wondering some good tecniques to break the ice. If we do, than he's gonna actually ask me out tonight. (he already told all of his friends that know he likes me a lot that we were going out and i really don't have a problem with that) lol

So please help me..
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hold his hand and go rly fast and swing him around the rink. then when both of you fall just burst out laughing and say that was so much fun. then help him up.

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ok i am going out with this kid, i really like him alot. He likes me to but i also think he like my best friend. The first week we were going out my best friend kissed him but i forgave him because that is how much i like him. But do you think that i should ask him to stop flirting with her or dump me?

please help me :'(

confussed luv

sweetie..... i think you should confront your friend before you tell him n e thing. because then your friend will know how you feel about the situation. i think it is bullshit that you have to go through that and you need to tell your friend how you feel anout the kissing thing. good luck.

lots of love.... Kays

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ok, i'm in need of some advice on this one. . .my old gf (let's call her M) from about a year and a half ago has recently been acting very very nice to me. i think she has started to like me again, but i don't like her. and plus, i have a new girlfriend (let's call her C). C and M are both friends, but i don't know what to do about this situation. . .

see how this all plays out with in a week or two. if she starts getting flirty with you i think you should pull your gf to the side and tell her that she needs to ask the other girlie to quit flirting. or maybe she is just being nice to you b/c her friend is your new gf and doesnt want to seem jelouse.

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you get 100 terms we've learned so far in science class. i have that! then you're supposed to arrange it into some "creative way" my friend gave me some ideas like writing all the words into a valentine theme like... a heart with an arrow or a smiley face!!! can i get more ideas please

You could type the words. then take a poasterboard and do the thing that MOTHERJUNE said but instead of clip art, use things from magizines.

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ok well heres the thing, i like this one guy {lawrence} alot alot, and sometimes i even think more then just alot alot. so i thought i knew him pretty well. then one day his cousin and him were in a fight and his cousin told me that he was lieing to me about his virginity, and how he never lost it, he was just trying to impress me. and stuff like that. and i told his cousin that i didnt really care if he was a virgin or no, what bothers me is that he lied and stuff. so after that i just went home, and i didnt really care like i honestly didnt. so usually lawrence calls me like everyday just to talk or w/e or someitmes i call him. well for the past few days he hasnt called once. and then his cousin told me that he had told him that he told me about that whole lieing thing. and so now lawrence knew that he told me, so i was like okay maybe he thinks im mad at him. because lawrence knows that i cant stand people who lie.and so now he hasnt called or anything. and i just like want to call him. because i know if like i was in that situation i would have wanted him to call me to tell me he wasnt mad at me and stuff. but at the same time, i dont know...i just dont know why every part of me is telling myslef not to call him. hmm but yea help please =/

Call him and tell him that you are not mad at him. and ask if you can start over.

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alright so ive had the flu before and everything but what i have right now i have no idea what it is. so for the past 4 or 5 days ive woken up with a horrible headache and a really bad pain if i like moved my eyes the wrong way. weird i know. then it will like get better but around 5 the headache will come back. asprin isnt helping at all. Then about 2 days again i woke up and i was incredably pale and dizzy and nausious. i didnt throw up or anything but it came and went the same as the headache. now since this morning whenever i try and breath deeply i start coughing horribly and i cant stop (its a weak cough though). someone please help tell me what's wrong i just want to know what medicine to take and what things might help me feel better. thanks i rate 5s.

Sweetie... maybe you do have the flu but if you lay on the coutch with a cold pace on your head and a heatpad on your stomach and also drink a lot of water and eat some saltines or just regular crackers. you should feel better soon. if you dont feel better in about 3 days. i reccomend seeing a doctor. hope that helps. good luck!!

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what should I get my boyfriend for valentines day? i'll rate 5's for any answer!

see what kind of calogne* he likes (and you like) or you can see if he collects something.... wants a new movie......or if he maybe just wants to spend it with you.
whatever it is make sure it comes from your heart

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i've been single for more than a year now because i still love this guy. i can't seem to get over him no matter what. sometimes i even cry myself to sleep at night or when some people ask me if i have a boyfriend i always have an urge to cry but i dont want to in front of them. i got in a bad situation with him so my parents arent that fondd of him even thought it wasnt his fault but they dont know that. he says he still likes me but he knows that i wont go out with him again (which im pretty sure isnt true) so he has been going out with other girls. im just confused and cant figure out what to do. thanks for any help!
-haley

ask him how he feels about you. if he says he likes you tell him you still like him and that you wish he would give you a second chance. forget about the bad situation and talk to him about how it hurts you that he is seeing other people.

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Help! Help! Help!

I used to have this boyfriend my parents hated to death. He moved all the way across the United States (I live in California) and emailed me his new phone number. While my parents were at a meeting, I called him and talked only like a minute since he had to go to a school event. Will his number show up on the phone bill? If so, my parents will see it and become suspicious, because we almost never call people out of state. I have a Panasonic phone with caller ID if it helps.
Can anyone give me any good excuses for when my parents round on me?

well i dont know if this helps but... you could tell her you are doing an extra credit thing and you have to call a pen pal and ask them what their school is like. and if she asks where you got the number tell her you got it from the speech or english teacher for an essay. i hope that helped you.


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I know that 13-year-olds shouldn't be wearing a lot of makeup. Is colored lip gloss ok? (mine is dark purple)

sweetie..... you should wear a lighter shade. or find a darker shade that matches your complection* if you have lighter skin try a calm pink lip gloss. ( not lip stick ) or maybe even a clear gloss.

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i have big issues with my weight and would like to know from experienced poeple what the best way is to start dieting and what is the best diet to do?

If you are young yet you shouldnt go on a diet. just a semi diet. you will most likely grow into your weight. dont eat so much junk food and drink a lot of water. if you dont like water squeeze a little lemon juice and a spoon full of sugar in it to make lemonade.dont go all out and diet. its not that good for you.


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