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new bf
theres this guy thats a year older than me (he=8th grade).. he likes me a lot. I get nervous around guys... but he got really nervous aruond me. Were going to skate nite tonight and I have to teach him how to skate (mind you this guy is amazing). He gets so nervous and I'm just wondering some good tecniques to break the ice. If we do, than he's gonna actually ask me out tonight. (he already told all of his friends that know he likes me a lot that we were going out and i really don't have a problem with that) lol
So please help me..
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hold his hand and go rly fast and swing him around the rink. then when both of you fall just burst out laughing and say that was so much fun. then help him up.
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Just be yourself and be outgoing. He obviously likes you a lot so there's nothing to be nervous about because you don't have to prove yourself to him or anything, he already likes you. Don't be afraid to start up a conversation or make a joke. Once you are less nervous, he then will become more open.
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Well, if you want to talk to him than talk about skating or maybe even him. If you want to brake the ice than your going to have to try to put yourself in his position.
Think about it, I mean your a guy and youre with a girl that you like. You have no clue what to talk about and if you did you think that you would probably say something stupid and she would not like you anymore.
what would you do in that situation..?
If I was you I would try to make him feel more comfertable around you. Dont force the convo. but yet let it come by itself. If you force it than you might end up talking about something that neither one of you know anything about and you might think that the other is really weird or something.
Also, you could try to imagine him as one of you friends that you hang out with at school or on the weekends. That always helps me anyways.
Lotz-o-Luv~Kay
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lucky you! i think that you need to calm down and know that things like conversation just come naturally(mostly), talk about eachothers interests, aspirations and hobbies, jus play it cool. here are some handy tips: try not to talk about yourself too much, if you're holding hands while skating dont start to panic if you know your hands are getting sweaty most likely it is a majority of his sweat, and finally just be honest and sincere, guys like to know their girl isnt a liar or well trashy lol! let me know how it goes good luck!
lotts of love,
kiki
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