me and my boyfriend went out for 9 months and it was great until the last 2 months.. all we did was fight and we spent more time fighting than being happy so we broke up, and it was kinda both of us. anyways he's with someone else and it's so hard because i know we'll never go out again and i cant seem to get over him. i just need to know how to get over him because i know it'll work out again? needing advice on how to get over him.
Think about how you'll used to fight and how unhappy you both had been. Think about how much of a weight it took off the both of you, not have to fuss and fight anymore.
It also helps to do things that you enjoy. Do things to take your mind off of the break up. Go to the movies, skating rink, mall, shopping, listen to music, watch tv, etc.
GirlOfEmotions answered Friday February 3 2006, 8:20 pm: it's best to stay friends with him. because think about it.. if you spend your time hating him after the break up, that's just going to make it worse and the pain would be harder on you and things would go much smoother if you still have that communication with him. and if things actually work out; he might be reminded about how a great girl you were and are. and if you guys DON'T get back together, that's ohkay too because reality is all a part of life. that's what makes you stronger. (; [ GirlOfEmotions's advice column | Ask GirlOfEmotions A Question ]
bittersweet12 answered Friday February 3 2006, 7:02 pm: hey, ive experienced the same thing, if your like me its going to take some time. at first i was really sad and it was all i thought about then i was ok with it and told myself it was time to move on and even though that sounds impossible you can do it, finally i started to get chrushes on other guys and now im ok. you will be fine in all good time jus enjoy some big bowls of ice cream or what ever your junk of choice is and try to vent your emotions by doing something productive and kinda fun like poetry or music. good luck
lotts of love,
kiki [ bittersweet12's advice column | Ask bittersweet12 A Question ]
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