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Heyy I'm HurleyGurley and i'm here to help you with your problems and questions! If you ever ask me a question i'll be sure to answer you back right away! Much love :) xoxo

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Alright, my ex boyfriend "Jim" and I haven't talked since he's broken up with me about 2 months ago. We've dated a couple of times before, but he was always the one to break up with me, even though we loved eachother very much. Well, after 2 months of me not talking to him, he's started calling me again, and wanting to see me. I know his intentions are good, and I know that he loves me, because he actually cries over me, and writes songs about me and such. But I'm just not sure if I should try it with him again, because I don't want him to break my heart again, but I do want to be with him. So much, I would take a bullet for this guy. Also, my best friend hates him, because he's broken up with me so many times before. And she doesn't hate a lot of people. I know it would be wrong to date him if my best friend hated him, but you have no idea how much I want to be with this guy. I don't want to fuck up mine and my best friend's relationship, but I'm also terribly in love with this guy, and vise versa. Can you help me please?

well since you seem to really love this guy i really think you should go back out wiht him, you know you love him! if you best friends really seems to hate him than ask her why shes hates him and tell her that you really do still love him, if she's a real friend she would understand, and as for him talk to him about how he needs to stop hurting you in the way of breaking up and that he needs to think things over before he ever makes any desicions like for example breaking up with you! hope i helped :) xoxo

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my aunts best friend had a son and they ALL told me i would like her son and we emindently hit it off!! hes got BABY BLUE eyes and hes gergous!! the prob is ...hes really short im 5'2 and hes a head shorter then me!! we went to an amusement park and it was kinda embarassing to be seen with him!! but then again i wanted to b near him n stuff and im having mixed feelings!! hes the sweetest guy ever and we wentt o my other aunts house for dinner and we wer playin like tackle football hes just soo nice im not afraid to b myself around him i really like him but idk...shuld i juss not kare wat ppl think? i really like him but its kinda embarassing....idk..it sounds mean but ya i need help

i think a lot of girls have had boyfriends that were shorter than them including me and you shouldn't care what people think, cause you know you like him and you guys seem to be falling for each other and he sounds really nice and dont be afraid to be yourself around him! :) xoxo

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Over the years I have had friends not many as the years go by i'm not sure if i'm not opening up enough but I have no idea what to do I have had like 30 friends to like 5 and some i think use me in a lot of more ways than one and I have been depressed over the last few months about this whole ordeal...how can I make more friends in my last 2 years of high school and have great memories or maybe would it be better if I killed myself.

you just need to open up to people, tell them how you feel, killing yourself is definitly Not the answer to your problem, if anything it just makes the situation worse, just work on making new friends and high school should be a breeze not including school work ;) xoxo

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Okay,me and my bf had been going out for like a month now..I love him somuch and i think he feels the same..well he definetely said he did.And like today i was just like "do you think maybe we should just be friends since school is starting in like 2 weeks?" cuz he lives like 25-30 min. away so i only see him like twice a week :( and he was like "i don't know :( what do you think?" and i was just like "idk either cuz i think ur gonna like other girls at ur school" and like i just wanted to see if he would wanna do that and I dont know...we did break up and now i feel horrible..everyone that talks to him about it says that he is really heartbroken and he loves me a lot...but i dont know!We live far away and I think just maybe hes hiding his feelings :/ but I just dont know..help plz.. I MISS HIM!

you definitnly need to ask him out again! distance really shouldn't matter when 2 people love each other! :) xoxo

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xangsta?? is that it?? or iz it sumthing else?? i keep goin to www.xangsta.com... n sumthing else cumz ^ wutz going on??

i think your thinking of Xanga which is an online journal thing you write in that people can look at if you tell them about it :) xoxo

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what's a hicky?

a hicky is when your like making out with a guy and he kisses you almost always somewhere near the neck bacially sucking that part, i know that sounds weird but its just liek this circular red mark on your neck :) xoxo

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ok im like really addicted to smoking adn im only 13! and i need to quit cuz i play sports and i dont need to be all huffy puffy on the court please help me

well you should use those nicatine patches or nicatine gums those are surposed to help but i dnno! hope i helped :) xoxo

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hey tomorrow nite im goin to the movies wit my bf what should i c???any suggetions???

aww see a romantic love movie..that should set the mood! :) xoxo

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okay last week i posted a question about this guy "Brad"!! I went to his house and my friend and i slept over and so we talked a lot i made him laugh an awful lot!! i even brought up the "prom" next year, he said he might not go, i was about 2 say 2 him that i love 2 go with him ...but i was to afraid 2!1 Is flirtin with me?? And should i ask him 2 the prom??


of course you should ask him to prom! he's soo flirting with you, you should definitly go for it! :) xoxo

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i had went out with my boyfriend "Andrew" for 6 months, almost 7. For the first couple of months, he was so sweet. he would always talk to me online and go out with me. Then he changed. he started not talking to me. Now, I'm not exactly popular in school, but still. It was like I didn't exist. He let his asshole of a friend make fun of me. There were rumors he was going out with another girl, which turned out not to be true. I broke up with him, because I knew i deserved better than what he was treating me. But i can't stop thinking about him. How am I supposed to get over him and stop thinking about him?

you just nedd to forget about him and forget he exists..go out with someone else, show him your over him completely! :) xoxo

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How exactly do you french kiss? I know you lock lips and open ur mouth and then like stick ur tongue in eachothers mouths but what do u do with ur tongue and can you french kiss someone the wrong way? Like cuz I don't want guys thinking I suck at it, so how exactly do you? and when is the right time...how will you know?
Thankz I will rate you! L8er!

well the first thing is that kissing comes naturally and no one really "sucks" officially at it, the second thing is that when you french kiss someone you just move your tongue around in the guys mouth.. i know that sounds vivid but you'll just figure it out when you do it with your boyfriend and the last thing you'll know the right time to do it, usually the guy comes out and does it first..good luck! :) xoxo

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Ok..well i have a desk in my room and i keep all my deoderant,purfume,and stuff 4 my hair in a little basket type thingy. But i dont wanna put it in there anymore..so does anyone have any ideas..or like wat do yall put all that in? Be creative..if possible=)

well i put all my deodorant perfume and stuff like that in my bathroom..im sorry im not being that creative but you could put all those things in a basket in you bathroom or in a container type thing, not much help but good luck! :) xoxo

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I'm writing a book and the set is in Ireland, I don't know if I should write them speaking with Irish accents (it might be hard for some people to understand) or should I just stick to the basic english spellings?
Thanx,
clueless

well since your writing a book set in ireland i definitly think you should write them speaking with irish accents, im pretty sure eveybody would understand and the book would be good since it's like in ireland and people are speaking irish, you know? well i hope so! :) xoxo

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im working on getting a better stomache i want a six pack.im 13 female. does anyone no any good site showing excercises for that which actually work. and wats better for it crunches or full sit ups?

i want the exact same thing and i know what you should do, crunches make miracles! just do a lot every single day for like a month and you should definitly have a good stomache, and also eat less and healthier foods not just junk! :) xoxo

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I'm in 1/2 of a band, and i have 2 questions here i guess..


1. We have only guitarist (myself) and a bassist (my friend.)...how can i find out if anyone is a drummer?

2. I'm kind of nervous to play guitar in front of people...and possibly sing if anyone thinks i'm any good....how do i get over my stage fright?

1. if you want to find out if anyone is interested in being a drummer put up signs in your school and ask around
2. if your nervous about being in front of people, dont be, trust me everybody in the world is nervous like that, you cant think that your the only one and you need to be more confident in yourself..and say to yourself that you CAN sing and that you CAN play guitar so you know your good! :) xoxo

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i'm 14 right now...but my dad keeps bringing up college. i don't think i want to go...i want to be in a band. My dad's gonna make me, i think. i know i've got about 4 years...but what do i do?

i thought about running away with my friends after graduation...is that wrong?

well since your only 14 i wouldnt be thinking too much into your future except maybe what your dad's saying - college,that's cool if you wanna be in band but teen years can end sooner than you think and you probably wount want to be in a band anymore later, and i defintily dont think you should run away with your friends after graduation cause you really dont want to put stress on your dad about worrying where you are all teh time..just agree with everything he saying for you to do liek goign to college you'll probabloy agree with him .. sooner or later :) xoxo

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My stomach is feeling extremely, uh.. acidy? acid-like? Is there something I can do to solve this?

when you say acid-liek or acid-y do you mean gasy? lol well if you mean gasy then don't drink as much sodas or fizzy things liek that to upset or bloat yoru stomache! :) xoxo

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i need help...fast!my ex bf is coming to my soccer tournament on sunday.i still really like him. i wanna tell him but i dont know how. i wanna ask if he wants to give us another chance. but i dont know how. please help me. i need to tell him and i reaaaaly wanna get back w/ him.
***I RATE***

just tell him how you feel and what you think! if you dont tell him anything than how is he surposed to know that you want him again? so just go with your instinct on this one! :) xoxo

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OK*
I just met this guy about 2 days ago and we have been talkin together and hangin out with each other alot. I lyk him and I know alot about him. But, he asked me out today and I told him I would think about it. Should I try and get to know him better... or should I say yes?

Thanks,
.:*MagIclyDeLish88*:.

well if it were me and i didnt really know the guy i'd say lets get to know each other first then go out so it wouldnt be so awquard or anythign around him, its much easier to be friends then go out first! :) xoxo

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how can u tell someone u love then and atleast try to have them understand how much u feel and u need to be with them...i mean i kno u cant make someone fall inlove with you..but i really love him and i want to be with him...

just simply tell him you love him and how you feel about him! :) xoxo

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