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Over the years I have had friends not many as the years go by i'm not sure if i'm not opening up enough but I have no idea what to do I have had like 30 friends to like 5 and some i think use me in a lot of more ways than one and I have been depressed over the last few months about this whole ordeal...how can I make more friends in my last 2 years of high school and have great memories or maybe would it be better if I killed myself.
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you just need to open up to people, tell them how you feel, killing yourself is definitly Not the answer to your problem, if anything it just makes the situation worse, just work on making new friends and high school should be a breeze not including school work ;) xoxo
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You can't judge your value as a person by how many friends you have - it's better to have a small group of people (even one person!) that you really relate to than a whole clique of people you can hang out with but none of whom you really relate to.
Making friends is tough sometimes, especially if people at school are already settled into cliques that are intimidating to break in to - but just be yourself, smile and try and be confident and hopefully you'll find it easier to get to know people.
If you are concerned you are depressed, it's worth talking to your doctor. Everyone feels down sometimes, but talking about suicide maybe shows that your feelings run deeper, and if this is the case, a doctor will be able to talk to you about maybe seeing a counsellor or being medicated, depending on a number of factors. There are many organisations that can help you if you feel depressed - if things get on top of you, please talk to somebody - a doctor, teacher or family member, because they can honestly help. Good luck.
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hey..you can just open up to people.but really the best advice i could eva give u is just be yourself.if people dont like who you are then fuck them..and im sure people will come up too u and hang out wit you..just have fun its your last 2years of highschool dont worry abot it girl..drop it in my inbox if you need anything else at all..xoxojay
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