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I'm GrinningCheshire
I'm gay btw
Anyways I will try to help u with all my might but not with sports,not my fortè.
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Let's say I believe in many things, God, third eye (mines open, I can see spirits and see futures sometimes), empathic (I've been told I'm one),and witchcraft, etc.. I've never told anyone I can do these things, unless they told me They could do it too. But my teacher knows I believe in God and once she found out she started treating me extremely rudely. Why do atheists hate so much? And why do they care of others belief? And when anyone mentions religions, she attacks. She starts saying,“let's not be rude." “shhh." “Quiet. No talking of it." How do I deal with this stupid, closeminded bitch? (link)
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Try to just understand her views since we are all entitled to our own opinions and beliefs.Maybe she doesn't believe in anything anymore because of something.
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I am from Nepal a 20 years girl.My bf says me that I am characterless.He fought with me and we broke up.I haven't done anything like characterless.He used vulgur words and bit me hardly.I still love him.I can't live without him.I wanna die Days are very difficult to live.Nights are diffucult to dream..What should I do?I am completely broken. (link)
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Don't let his words affect you because they are just words they can be empty.Get over him he isn't worthy for a girl like you.
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I was on Instagram and came across a comment. It read:
"If you stop reading this your going to die. I am teresa fidalgo if you don't repost this on 20 photos I will sleep with you forever. This girl ignored an her mom died 29 days later and its true. You can search me on google". I posted that on 20 photos because I was so scared. I still am. I'm so scared and I don't know why. I searched the girl's name and saw a picture and immediently clicked out. I didn't read the story because I was so frightened... What should I do?? Is this normal? Please oh please help me. (link)
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I got this chain letter(I was looking at my email)from my classmate and it said to pass it immideiately but I didn't pass it since for 10 monhs no FB so I didn't die as it said.
Don't believe in it just made by some good jokester
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I’m 23 yrs. He’s 33 yrs.
A few days ago, I suddenly get a call in my mom’s phone from some online gambling game company. They wanted to know why my account has been inactive. I don’t gamble and have no idea what they are talking about. I asked them to verify my information. They have my first and last name, my mom’s phone number, and my brother’s email address. My mom barely knows how to work the computer. I think it was my brother who did this but I want to give him the benefit of the doubt. My brother called me one day with an attitude b/c he wanted to talk to my other brother who isn’t home. He gave me one of his lectures about how naïve I am, which always leaves me upset. I asked him about the online gambling company and the fact that I know it was him. He admitted to using my name and started defending himself. He’s reasons: it was a time ago and is it hurting your financials? When I told him I am hurt by his stealing my identity, he went off on me. He tried to flip it around. He’s saying he’s hurt by me being angry over something this little. We hang up the phone. He called me back a few minutes later and apologized to me. I don’t think he wants to be in bad terms with me since he is currently in prison. Before that, he had a falling out with most of our siblings. Very few of us still talk to him on the phone, visit him, and send him books.
In the past, he had stolen my debt card and went shopping with it, spending over $300. Now, I have my card with me at all times. I knew it was strange when he suddenly gave me $200 out of the blue. When I got my bank statements it showed someone had purchased clothing and had massages. I was the one picking him up from a massage parlor twice a week. I thought it was strange how he would tell me to pick him up down the street, preventing me from seeing the parlor’s sign. I finally drove pass it one day and saw the name. It matched the one on my bank statement. I was so angry. My mom reminded me that he paid me back and I should let it go. I did but I asked him about it once but he denied everything and claimed it was someone else. I would give him money if he asked me. I hate that he would steal from me. Now, he is doing it again. I don’t know what to say to him. He is very manipulative and uses his authority as the oldest to control everyone or gain their sympathy. It seems that I constantly have to turn a blind eye to his bad behavior and let him walk all over me. I’m scared that one day I won’t be able to take him anymore and snap at him. What should I do?
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Well you should at least try to fight back even though you are family because you are already being stepped on so he'll at least know you are not something he can push around.
Tell him that even though you are siblings he can not use you like a walking atm machine.
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i use to date this guy named alex a month ago. he's a freshman in college and im a senior in high school.i can say that I was really in love with him enough to lose my virginity to him and he's one those guys that doesn't show his feelings and he hasn't been in many real relationships and I know what we had was real. we broke up because he never made time for me when he came into town for the weekend and we never really had the typical relationship regular people had. all we did was txt and occasionally oovoo. I wanted him to do the simplest things to show he cared and he never did. I cant really explain all the wrong things because no one gets it but me. and I just really got fed up with it all and ended it. and right after I started talking to this guy named allah. he's perfect and he does everything that alex never did and I really like him. the problem is that its hard to let him in because of past things with alex. I told alex everything , our connection was different than ive had with anyone. I cant open up or let myself love anyone else. im even scared to have sex with him because I don't feel right having sex with someone else. if im being honest I still have feelings for alex and I haven't let go of him hurting me so much. I literally just found the guy I want but still stuck on feelings for alex. he was really something special to me and idk how to move on. allah understands it all but why cant I just let go of alex (link)
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Just remember that love has some scars that can be healed only by either love itself or time
Try to not see him often but talk at least once in a while and tell your friends to try not to bring upp your past relationship with Alex
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A few days ago I realized I like a guy from college. Who happens to be one of my best friends. Today we had an awkward situation where I nearly toppled over him. I was extremely embarrased and I realized I am like that because I like him. I don't get embarrased easily unless it's a crush. The thing is,I had a bad break up recently and I don't want a rejection to make it any worse. Any ideas to get my mind off of him? I wanna stay his friend,I just don't wanna like him anymore. (link)
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You know this guy might be the one for you,give it and maybe you might have your happily ever after
But...
If you really don't like him and just wanna be friends with him,then let it be it will pass.
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So I really like this guy and I've liked him before in 6th grade which he found out about and then when i got over him, we were like friends. But then drifted and now i like him AGAIN and I'm now in 9th grade. and he found out somehow in april and confronted my best friend about it too.. so yeah.. he basically acted like nothing happened until the end of april, he told one of my best friends "I will never ever date (My Name) ever"... and like after that i tried to get over him and he didn't even talk to me.. and 2 days after he decided to say hi to me and act like he didn't do shit. then literally after he said that and i found out, he's been staring at me often... like whenever i'm around him, he would look and stare at me, even my friends would tell me he was too. now, he hasn't talked to me since the beginning of may which was a simple "hi" and he still stares at me and makes it really obvious.. and today i had a talk with my friends and they told me that lately he's been getting close to me whenever i'm around... but he (he's friends with one of my best friends) even told my best friend that he couldnt do anything about not liking me, last week. also, yesterday we had a field trip to a nearby lake and when i was in the pool he would be there and he would be with these people in line to dive and before he'd dive each time, he'd look directly at me (my friend said) so when i finally got the courage to look at him in the eye when he's about to dive, he's already looking at me and it's just so awkward and he doesn't even break the eye contact until he dives... and when he swims up he would look at me and being my stupid self i would state back & when my friend and i were tanning, (i had a shirt covering my face) he threw some water at her... and me. but why? he doesn't talk to me. we arent even really friends and he doesnt talk to my friends whenever im around but he does when im not around... but anyways so my friend told him that i didnT like him anymore (ha i still do) today and he responded with "oh... okay?" so i'm confused.. i mean he didnT sound like he cared but i mean he wouldnt sound like he cared to my best friend bc then she'd be all like blah blah. so basically the times whenever he would stare at me is in the hallways, lunch, choir and probably on the bus. (hes at my busstop but i now get a ride to school)... so yeah he's single and all but i also have noticed that he has been around me and whenever i'm at this one place he would move near to it/me...and my friends have said that to me today and i've been indenial to it until now... so i'm completely confused ... he says he doesn't like me yet he's always somewhere around me / looking & staring at me. (he and i used to talk somewhat, not a lot this year and last year but it's not like i could call him a friend.. but yeah that was before he found out i liked him which was in march) (link)
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Well I think you should confront him.Because really when he is looking at you like that it's either he is experimenting with his feelings,he likes you too or he is just playing with you.
(But don't get your hopes up,so (in case) you won't get hurt that much (=)
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