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I am 12 . There is this boy I like but I don't know if he like me 2! Please give me some advice. (link)
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If he likes you, he will eventually come and tell you. Sit back and observe. You will know eventually.
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BACKGROUND:I met this guy on tinder(wow ik so romantic) in November and we hit it off, similar interests, taste in music, quirky sense of humor. Went on our first date in January. He goes to a military college so we can only hang on the weekends but we text through the week(both of us sending 20txts at a time), snapchat, etc. Our relationship has never been defined, neither have felt the need to but it's been going great. To a degree casual as both of us still get on tinder but both of us have said we like the other and neither of us have gone out with anyone else from the app. On our dates We always end up laughing and talking about our ambitions, lives, everything. We always seem to make many plans for future dates based on random conversations we have or things we see.
This weekend we were supposed to go walk around art museums, stay in a hotel, just have a nice weekend together. It was getting close to Saturday and I hadn’t heard from him since Thursday so I texted him asking when he wanted to go. 1am I got a response telling me he recently found out his dad has cancer and that he needs time to process the news. No details and it was very stiff and polite considering the very lighthearted guy he is. I responded that I understood, that I was here if he needed me to be, and that I was sorry for the emotions and pain he was facing. I don’t know how much space to give, if he doesn’t contact me whether or not I should try to reach out. Honestly I’m wondering whether or not to expect him to end things. I really don't want this to happen as he is a really special and important person to me. Honestly everything about the situation is depressing me because there are so many things we talked about doing and it was starting to get more serious. Basically I'm looking for any ssort of perspective. If age matters he's 20, I'm 18
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The occasional text every so often saying "Im here" and "Hope You are Doing Better" will suffice. If he asks for space, give him space. It will be difficult, but your relationship is new. So naturally he will talk with and open up to the people he has been around longer. So give him time. Pray for him every now and then. Be patient. He will give you a sign when he is ready to talk. Good luck!
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Why does guys flirt (link)
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1. Because the find someone cute
2. Because they want to look like "the man" in front of their friends.
3. Because they are bored.
More than likely, it will be number 1.
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im 15 girl and this guy had sex w me but it barely anything like 2min cuz it hurt bad and the dick was keep coming out but he was wearing a condom and it didnt break,do u think i am fine?like not pregnant? (link)
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Yes. You are probably fine. Stop having sex. It is worth the wait to find someone you are truly in love with. Good luck!
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Can someone help me to stop being treated and thought of as one of the guys by my guy friends and by the guy I'm crushing on and I've already tried changing my appearance many of times. (link)
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Being thought of as "one of the guys" isn't about your appearance. It is more about the way that you interact with the guys and talk like them. It is very hard to get out of this category because your vibe is like one of the guys, so dating you would initially seems like dating another guy. So, I would just go for it and talk to this guy you like. Tell him how you feel straight up. Tell him what things you did/said just to fit in more with the group. See what he says. If it doesn't go your way, just sit back and observe. Sometimes things might not go our way initially. But let things work out organically after the intial talk. Good luck!
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my 21 year old daughter is in prison for 10 years for killing her friend when she crashed while she was drunk driving. Her friend was in the passenger front seat. She was drinking too so if she had driven it could have been the other way around
We received an visit from her friends parents who are still angry at us and say that a ten year sentence is too light and it should be longer
Obviously, I have no defense for what she did. She did a terrible thing and ruined her life and is paying for it but ten years seems like a lengthy sentence (link)
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If you are talking about lengthy in terms of what the law deems "lengthy," then no. 10 years is actually quite a light sentence. Im assuming that she did not have any prior driving while drunk incidents. Typically vehicular manslaughter under the influence can easily land someone a life sentence. But im sure because your daughter is young and the law understands that to a certain degree, they did not give her such a harsh sentence.
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i know being an india girl i must follow some rules and regulation to be a "good girl".but comeon its 21st century and i am an educated urban dudette..still my conscience and family background root my mind into a deeper cocoon of ethics and morality..i think i am balanced in both ways..problem is with my boyfriend. he is in a foreign country,pursuing PhD, where "free mixing" is cool. but he still behaves like a typical indian old school guy..to him talking about sex is also illegitimate, or should i put it like this, he is too shy even if i use the word "kiss".. i like to fantacize him but he is too far both physically n mentally from this idea..though we are going to get married next year..ours is a long distance relationship,commenced only half a year, i admit its too early to talk of sex n all, n when its like we haven't met yet face to face..relationship is digital but the bond we two share is not virtual..i am a human being and sometimes its my body needs to feel the warmth of another human being, if not by physical touch but at least with the notion of it..so i start talking and he feels shy and assures me of his urges n stamina n he changes the topic of discussion.. n i feel so embarassed.i wonder if he is not normal or too generous for me.or is he impotent!! what should i do to unveil the mistry of his parahumane behaviour?provided he won't give it a chance before the nupital knot takes place. (link)
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The real question is if the relationship is what you want for a long term committed marriage. IF you can see yourself in a passionate, beautiful, soulful relationship with this person for the rest of life, then totally wait and be patient with him. If you do not feel that deep connection yet, I can guarantee you that marriage wont suddenly switch anybody's attitude or personality. So, it really isn't about sex because the sex will be amazing if you hold out for the person you can see a deep connection with forever. I promise if this person is the one you can see yourself with forever and you can see yall being madly in love, then you can definitely wait a year and it will be everything you need and more. If not, take this as a sign that he might not be the right fit. So maybe that's why the conversation hasn't gotten to sex or just a deep intimate talk. Good luck!
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Hi, how do you know if your good friend likes you or interested in you but also he's flirty and teasing frequently however can be moody as well. I reckon he likes me but then he does this harmless jokes with others too so it's hard to know whether he's flirting or joking. All answers are appreciated. Thank you all. (link)
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Men are pretty straight forward. A man who isnt interested in you will not flirt with you in a way that makes you feel like he could like you. Now, he could also like these other people he flirts with too. You have good intuition. It rarely lies. Good luck!
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so im girl ,3rd in high school and i really like one guy from my school .he´s in 4th year..so he´s a year older than me.we dont know each other.i only see him during breaks in hallways sometimes.i dont know how to get his attention bc he´s always surronded by his friends..2 days before V-day i wrote him valentine message, saying that i like him but he probably doesnt know it was me who wrote it.i also send him friend request on fb and texted him but he hasnt accepted it nor responded to my text on fb..maybe he doesnt go on facebook anymore or accept friend reuest from people he doesnt know :/.i dont know what to do ? :/.how should i get him know that i like him ?? i cant talk to him in person bc he is from higher grade so we pass each other only during breaks at school,he probably doesnt go on facebook.i go on denominational school so we have small chaple at school, we also have some chairs and tables before chaple and during break i sit with friends there and i see him in chaple, sometimes i see him there alone but i dont think it would be appropriate to go there and say hi to him but its only time when he´s alone and not with his friends but problem is that my friends also go to chaple, so i cant go just to sit next to him bc my friends would stare at me..please help me what to do ?? should i go to chaple and just give him note and than leave?.i just dont know how to say something to him when he probably doesnt go on fb, he´s always with his friends..i really like him and he´ll be at school this year and the next one and the he will graduate and leave school :/ (link)
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The best thing you can do is sit back and observe this boy. Sorry to say, but the chances of him not responding on purpose are high. With that being said, he could be in a relationship or have someone he is already interested in. But someone who is meant to be in your life will find their way into it at the right time. So in the meantime, focus on finishing school. If it is meant to be, you will be surprised how things just work out! Good luck!
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So basically im 17 years old and never had a boyfriend, ive had a few crushes here and there but ive never tried to make my crushes more than crushes because of my low self-esteem and social anxiety. Anyways i was the type of person where if someone asked me who i liked i would say no one because based on my school experience whenever you tell someone you like a guy they always tell the guy and i didnt like that. So i would say no one so that they wouldnt know and they wouldnt tell the guy. Now grade 12 and all my friends except me have prom dates because of my social anxiety i dont really have any guy friends i was reallu socially awkward and people would always judge my voice and call me monotone so i wouldnt talk. Anyways its prom season and now my friend keeps on making these jokes for example lets call my friend kenzie and the one making jokes Raychel. So kenzie said hi to raychel and then said hi to me and then when i waved back raychel was like "oooo someones got a girlfriend" i told her that wasnt funny and since shes loud and rumours spread fast people might believe her and thought i was gay not that theres anything wrong with being gay. Then today raychel was like "liar liar pants on fire kissing girls on a telephone wire" and then i asked her to repeat what she said and she repeated everything except the kissing girls part. Just because i havent had a boyfriend before and havent told her who i like doesnf automatically mean im a lesbian what should i do about her and this situation? I believe thay in order to get into a relationship with someone else you have to love yourself first and i dont thats one of the reason why i dont bother with relationships apart from the anxiety and not looking physically attractive in my opinion. I dont know if my friend watched a buzzfeed video to make her assume that im gay because basically the video is about these 3 girls all of them started talking about their crushes and then the bisexual girl told them she didnt know who she liked because she secretly liked this girl, thats not me at all i just dont wanna tell who or anyone who i like (right now i dont like anyone because ive been so focused on just getting into post secondary school that i dont even look at a guys way plus im always home now so i dont go out to see any guys and the guys at my school ive known majority of them since kindergarten so its like growing up with my non-related brothers) please help on some advice on how to deal with this (i know i should just brush it off but me having social anxiety one bad embarrasing thing sticks with me for a very long time) sorry if this seems more of a rant and thank you in advance if you read up to this point (link)
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Hey! I know the hardest thing is to feel like an outcast at school, especially in high school! The best thing to do is to just keep your head up and find a friend who doesn't care about the rumors. You will find a guy who is just as awkward as you, and it will be great! You are almost out of there! Just finish school and have a good time, whether you go to prom or not. Good luck!
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