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Having crush on guy from higher grade?


Question Posted Wednesday April 6 2016, 4:02 pm

so im girl ,3rd in high school and i really like one guy from my school .he´s in 4th year..so he´s a year older than me.we dont know each other.i only see him during breaks in hallways sometimes.i dont know how to get his attention bc he´s always surronded by his friends..2 days before V-day i wrote him valentine message, saying that i like him but he probably doesnt know it was me who wrote it.i also send him friend request on fb and texted him but he hasnt accepted it nor responded to my text on fb..maybe he doesnt go on facebook anymore or accept friend reuest from people he doesnt know :/.i dont know what to do ? :/.how should i get him know that i like him ?? i cant talk to him in person bc he is from higher grade so we pass each other only during breaks at school,he probably doesnt go on facebook.i go on denominational school so we have small chaple at school, we also have some chairs and tables before chaple and during break i sit with friends there and i see him in chaple, sometimes i see him there alone but i dont think it would be appropriate to go there and say hi to him but its only time when he´s alone and not with his friends but problem is that my friends also go to chaple, so i cant go just to sit next to him bc my friends would stare at me..please help me what to do ?? should i go to chaple and just give him note and than leave?.i just dont know how to say something to him when he probably doesnt go on fb, he´s always with his friends..i really like him and he´ll be at school this year and the next one and the he will graduate and leave school :/

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Adviceprofessional answered Thursday April 7 2016, 12:38 am:
Hi, I understand how this might feel an I will do my best to answer this, try to talk to him more often, try a small talk, start with a compliment, find common interests. Have like a daily small talk, try to seem confident and "smooth". Try to be friends, even if he is older, he might like you. Try to get to know more about him.
If you wrote something else in your v-day card, something like a poem made by you or a compliment, say it to him in person during a break, and he will know it was you, if you didn't, put a note on his locker giving him a compliment with no name, try to talk to him and then give him that same compliment, he will be surprised and defenitely more interested in you. But believe me, if you don't try to talk to him, you will never get him to like you
If you really have absolutely no time for that, just ask him what his twitter account name is without seeming to be a stalker. Create a fake account with a username that might be interesting to him. Talk to him by text to see if you really like him and what he likes, try to be interesting, when he gets really interested in you, ask him out by text, so he can see who you really are, then if it works out, good luck!

I really hope my advice has been useful to you yours truly, Advice professional

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FAIRYGODMTHR answered Wednesday April 6 2016, 9:21 pm:
The best thing you can do is sit back and observe this boy. Sorry to say, but the chances of him not responding on purpose are high. With that being said, he could be in a relationship or have someone he is already interested in. But someone who is meant to be in your life will find their way into it at the right time. So in the meantime, focus on finishing school. If it is meant to be, you will be surprised how things just work out! Good luck!

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