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My name is Meghan. I am a junior and I like to hear people's problems and try to help them. I'm going to college to be a pyschologist so i'm thinking this will be good practice. You can ask anything.
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I am 14, in ninth grade, and I am female.
Okay, first I'm going to give a little backround information.
I had a boyfriend that tried to cheat on me with his ex girlfriend. I knew that I couldn't trust him ever again, so I broke up with him yesterday. Don't worry, I feel really good about it.
Well, a few days ago, I found out from one of my friends that another friend of mine, Ricky, likes me. At first, I wasn't sure I could trust the friend that told me, T.J., because T.J. is weird like that. Then, my best friend Megan told me yesterday that Ricky has liked me for a long time.
My question is, is it okay to go ahead and date Ricky so soon after dumping my previous boyfriend?
~ClarinetKtM
Well, depending on how much you like this guy or how much you were involved in your last relationship, it depends on if you should go ahead and date this guy. If you have no feelings for your ex and you want to date Ricky, then go for it.
Ok, me and my boyfriend had sex only twice this month, both times we used a condom and I'm not on the pill or anything. The condoms didnt break, rip or tear. But however, my period tomorrow will be a week late. I don't know if I'm just over reacting because we did have sex and I haven't gotten it yet. But theres no way poissible right if the condom didnt break for me to be pregnant is there? What should I do just siot around and wait for my period to come?
Thank you all sooo much
First fo all, you can get pregnant even if the condom doesnt rip, break, or tear. There are little holes in the condoms for the male member to breathe. If you don't usually get your period at the same time, then it could just be that you have irregular periods, but if you do get it at the same time every month, then you should contact your doctor. But there could be a posibility that you could be pregnant.
Okay, I recently had sex and the next day I forgot to take my birth control. (We didn't use a condom and i've been using it for about 4 months) the day after that I forgot and for about the next week after that I didnt take it. Is there a good chance that I could be pregnet??
-Scared :(
I have been taking birth control for 2 years now. Once you've been taking it for a while, it is already in your system. But you should schedule a doctor appointment just to be on the safe side. And even though you are on birth control, it isn't completely safe. You should still use a condom.
My boyfriend and I have been seeing eachother for a little over 2 years. I know he really loves me, and I really love him too. The thing is, is that he has always had a fantasy of having a 3-some with me and another girl. He said it's only going to be a one time thing, and that the other girl isn't going to mean anything to him- it's just his fantasy. I understand what he is saying and I want to do this for him, but I know I would feel REALLY uncomfortable doing it and I'm not quite sure I could go through with it. I keep telling him I don't really know if I want to- but he keeps bringing it up every now and then. It makes me feel bad when I tell him no. What am I supposed to do, or what should I say to him?
HOnestly the only thing you can do is say that if he really loves you then he would respect your opinion on it. I think a good number of guys want to have a three some. But they are guys. I think talking to him more about how you feel will help him realize that he could make a mistake by doing this. If you feel uncomfortable about it, you shouldn't do this at all. Even if he wants to.
i have a friend who is bi....but im ok w/ it .but she asked if i wanted to come over?and i told her no cuz i have plans..but i dont,and people have told me wen they stayed the night w/ her that she want to do stuff and im not like that at all....wat should i do???
Youi need to tell your friend how you feel about her sexuality. Tell her that you are fine with her being that way, but it makes you feel a little uncomfortable going to her house. And you shouldn't listen to what people say. That is how rumors are spread. Just sit down with her and explain how you feel. I'm sure she'll understand if she is your friend.
I just got my period in July sometime and i use pads but i have her people say that tampons are so much better and LESS MESSY. but i am SOOOOO afraid to use one because just the thought sickins me. I'm asking people from experience....does it hurt the 1ST time.
-arielle-
Well to be honest I use pads still and a lot of my friends do. I've tried tampons and in my opinion they're not taht great. They don't hurt, just the first time it feels uncomfortable. I think no matter what you use during your period, it's going to be messy. You shouldn't use tampons just because you've heard that they are better or it's the "cool" thing to do. I have a friend who was afriad to use tampons too so she asked me to come into the bathroom with her. So she tried but was afraid. If you're uncomfortable before even trying to use one, then you shouldn't attempt to use them. You won't be looked at as weird either.
ok I have this ex, and he has like 4 personalities, because one minuite he's really nice, next he's really horrible. So anyway I went out with him, it felt so good, but then he changed and started not to care then he was nice to me again, then he started calling me names and I really hate it. On thursday he said he's sick of all the argueing, but yesterday he started calling me a hoe, and a slag and like I don't know why,please help me I'm confused.
It sounds to me that you boyfriend/ex is bi-polar. Or he just has a lot of things going on in his life that maybe you don't know about. If you haven't already, you should sit down with him and say that you don't appreciate the way he treats you. Mayeb you should sit down with him and explain that it hurts you to hear those things or if he does have family problems or any problems, you could tell him you want to help him and if he needs your support, then you are there for him.
my boyfriend is my best friend. we were together for 4 months in the past and now weve been together for 3 months. we have so much fun together, when were not fighting. but were always fighting it seems. he says bad things about himself or how he doesnt think we will ever be fully open with eachother, even though were both trying to be. He gets jealous really easily and he thinks hes just another guy to me.... and hes not and I have told him that soooo many times. I dont know what to do but I want all the fighting to stop. Please help.... thanks!
What you need to do is sit down with him and tell him how you feel about the way you guys fight. Explain to him that you enjoy being with him, but when you fight it's hard to act around him. I really don't know how to help in this situation because my boyfriend and i barely fight. Maybe you should find out the main cause of all these arguments and prevent it from happeneing. I think the best thing to do though is to just sit down with him and explain how you feel about the fighting. Let him know that you really care about him and he's not just "another" guy. You could also do more activities together like going out more. That might get him more involved in you and less fighting would occure.