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Okay, i'm new at this whole tampon thing. Will You all give me some tips to make it go in easier? It's just not working for me and i've been trying forever!! Also, what tampons are the best to use?



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It's much easier to do without using an applicator. Weird, but true. :]
Hope I helped!


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I've seen a lot of questions about emo's on this site, but what exactly is this? I don't think it's an expression we use in the UK. Thanks. (link)
"Emo" is short for emotional. Recently it has become a steretype for people that look a certain way and listen to certain music. It's all nonsense.


Hello. I'm very nervous. Okay well me and my boyfriend have sex now. I'm 14 and he's 16, and he popped my cherry. We usually have sex, alot. We sometimes don't do it with protection. He pulls it out though. I'm just extremly worried. My period always changes though. It rotates, like some months I get it at the beginning of the month, and some twords the very end. Last month I got it at the beginning so I figured I would this month, I haven't. I'm scared, but I don't know what to do. I've been getting cramps, like you do from the period. Uhh, do you think I could be pregnant? What should I do!!!! Thankss. (= (link)
Ok, first off I'd like to warn you that the "pulling out" method does not work. Because there is such a thing as "pre-cum" which can get you pregnant. Anyways, it's possible that you could be pregnant. Because signs of pregnancy are the same as signs of PMS. But, don't get too stressed over it. You might want to consider going on birth control, which you can get without a parent at your local Planned Parenthood. Hope I helped!


I think I'd look alot prettier with longer hair. I am african American ( not actually african tho), and my hair grows slow....I understand that I dont need to have long hair to be pretty, but im way past that I need advice on how to speed up the process. I know I cant get a get long hair quick scheme without weave...but I dont want the appearance of long hair..I actually want it to call my own...I use dr. Miracle, and already use this thing called Hair Formula 37, but i dont know if its workin...I need my hair to grow (link)
Vitamins. Vitamin E specifically. You can buy them at your local drugstore over-the-counter for low prices. Hope I helped! :]


what does having your cake and eating it too mean? (link)
Usually people say "You can't have your cake and eat it too." It basically means that you can't have everything you want in life. Hope I helped!


is spaying and neutering a pet wrong? (link)
No. Spaying and neutering just prevents an animal from having babies. I think it's a great choice to make because there are so many strays and unwanted animals already. Hope I helped!


I'm going to be a freshmen in High School this upcoming school year. I'm going to be taking all IB Preperation classes and I don't know any of my friends who are gonna be in my classes.

Also I'm afraid that the sophmores [sp?], juniors, and/or seniors, picking on me =/

Could you give me any tips on how to get through that year?

Thx (link)
THere'll be people you're acquainted with and know of. And there's always lunch. I'm a junior in high school and I've never picked on a freshman. And when I was a freshman it was no big deal. People aren't going to be like you're expecting. High school's a great experience! :]


I was talking to my best friend (who recently moved away) and she told me that i should let one of my guy friends into my life. she knows that i have a fear of opening up to people and trust problems because of my past. so, the question is, do i let this guy be a part of my life. or do i just leave it as aquantinces? (link)
I think you should let him into your life. If you don't you're not exactly even living life. If something happens, you move on and get on with your life. You can't live in fear. I don't know anything about this guy so I'm just telling ya what I know. There should be signs to tell if this guy is worth it or not. Hope I helped! :]


hey, if you got fingered and the boy was jacking off or had a boner could you get pregnant? alos are you still a virgin?

-caitt♥ (link)
If any of his cum could've gotten into your vagina then yes it's possible you could be pregnant. Yes, you are still a virgin. Being a virgin means you've never had sexual intercourse. Hope I helped!


My friend told me he started smoking weed so I want to know how bad it is. Is smoking weed considered a drug? And is it worse then ciggarettes? And is it addictive? Any more info about it would be appreciated! (link)
Weed is illegal, addictive, and highly popular among teens. Short term wise it may not effect you. But in the long run it can cause a lot of damage. For more info go to www.abovetheinfluence.com
Hope I helped!


how safe will me && my bf be having sex if we use a condom and he pulls out before he comes??? i CANNOT get the pill so don't suggest it, k??? (link)
Condoms are 97% effective when used correctly. You must put them on correctly & I suggest a lubed one since it causes less friction[friction can cause a condom to break.] I don't reccomend the "pulling out" method because there is such a thing as pre-cum, which comes out before your boyfriend ejacualates. Pre-cum can get you pregnant. I believe it'd be ok to pull out while using the condom. Also you can get pills from Planned Parenthood without a parent and everything is confidential. there are also other forms of birth control- the patch, female condom, or shots. Hope I helped!


hey can i add u as a favorite columnist?
Lalagurl- (link)
Sure. I;d be happy for you to. :]


does anyone know how many times a week you should use a face masque. because i just bought this Mint Julep Masque and i don't want to overdry my skin or anything. so how many times a week is it safe to use a face masque? (link)
Once a week. And no more, lol. Hope I helped. :]


ok so i have a lot of discharge, and i have not had my period yet.well the discharge is ruining all my underwear. i live with my dad cause my mom passed away.if u tell me to get pads or something like that, tell me how to deal with telling my dad or how to get them.
thx a ton!
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I wouldn't use pads. I would most definitely use panty liners. They're thinner and more comfortable. Anyways, just tell your dad that you need "feminine products" or you could by them yourself. Hope I helped!


So I went to the beach about two weeks ago and got a lot of sun. I'm just now starting to peel on my chest. What is the best thing to do to make it go away? (link)
After you get a lot of sun[even if you don't burn] you should use Aloe Vera. I recommend twice a day, in the mornings and before you go to sleep. Hope I helped!


I`m supposed to be the advice GIVER, not RECEIVER. . .right? Then why am i so confused? School is about to start and i am in a class called "Publications" which means i write the school newspaper and do the yearbook. I am NOT a dork . . . i am actually pretty popular. But a lot of people think it`s a pathetic class. should i drop out and be in study hall, or stay in? I`m so confused.

thank you in advance. (link)
You should do what YOU want, not what everyone else wants. You have to be true to yourself. I don't think it's a pathetic class at all. What's gonna look better on a college application..."Study Hall" or "Publications?"
Hope I helped.


Ok I need some advice. I really want to shave my hair "down there" because it bothers me to wear bikinis and stuff. I don't think my mom wants me to but I know she wont get mad if I do. I just need to know if it grows back fast ( how long) and is it painful to shave. I don't want to shave it off then regret doing it. Do alot of people shave there? Please help. Thanks (link)
Yes, a lot of people shave. Not it's not painful but you have to be careful that you don't cut yourself. It grows back just like leg hairs do. When you shave, shave in the direction the hair grows or you'll get horrible razor burn. Also, I recommend leaving hair conditioner down there when you're done. It prevents ingrowns. There are other options besides shaving such as waxing[it's not too painful] and expensive laser hair removal surgey.


i just recently got the st. ives apricot scrub for oily skin because i have oily skin.. i was wondering if i will eventually see results because i want my acne to go away... and if it does work, do it work real well and when will i see results? (link)
I myself have had horrible experiences with acne. To see if it actually works...you have to wait about 2 months...your acne won't disappear right away. What I do works great. I use Clean & Clear Blackhead Clearing Scrub [at night and when I wake up] At night before I go to sleep I put on Clinique Night Cleansing Gel and the next day before I put make up on I put on Purpose Dual Action Moisturizer. It's oil free. Your skin does need to be moisturized because if it gets too dry it will just build more oil. Hope I helped! :]


I'm in high school. I heard something about a GED that gets you out sooner..what is that? How does it work, does it look good or bad for colleges, is it free, everything. :)

I'm feeling generous with ratings btw. (link)
A GED is somewhat like a high school diploma, but not the same. GED's are for people who decide to drop out of high school. More than likely, a person probably won't even get into college with a GED. Hope I heled!
-Em


On here I just read that guys have their first kiss before girls. Ive had my first kiss but only for a dare though (that sounds sad but it was with a really hot guy i'm into so its ok really) . I just wondered why guys have their first kisses before girls? (link)
Most guys get their first kisses before girls because simply of that- they're guys. Guys are less mature and more willing then most girls.
-Em




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