Student...wanna be a Zoologist,after highschool.I've always been told that I give great advice, and my friend got one of these and i didnt know places like this exist, so i decided to give it a shot.
E-mail: Teenqueen_1_3@hotmail.com
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Location: Ga.
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Age: 15
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You see there's this guy and I think he likes me but I don't know. He tried to put moves on me the other day and it kinda freaked me out. Like he kissed me on the cheek, put his hand on my leg. He did stuff just to get close to me. When a guy does stuff just to get close to you it means he likes you, but I don't really like him. Ohh...help! What should I do??
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Askin him would probly be the best thing, but you dont have to flat out ask, do it like in a game of truth or dare kinda situation, or you could get one of your good buddies to ask him.
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i have liked this kid since 7th grade ( im only in 9th now ) but thats still a pretty long time...he knows i liked him in 7th and he knows i like him now but he doesnt know i have always liked him...hes all i think about day in and day out...i cant EVER get him off my mind but im scared to talk to him about it...we talk and stuff he kinda flirts wih me and stuff and we chill sumtimes but he works a lot...i REALLY want him to like me the way i like him...it just hurts a lot to know he prolly doesnt even care...me n my friend went to this soccer game and after it was a huge pilloiw fight...well these kids kept like trying to get...up on me...and wen he saw it he took off his hat, put it on my head and like chased them so they wouldnt touch me...ik it sounds really gay but wen he put his hat on my head i felt like i had everything in the world...is there anyway i can stand out to him...but not like changing myself totally? thanks for helping...xoxo (link)
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Well in a way it sounds like you already do kinda, but dont change who you are. B/C apparently he already likes this girl. Relationships do take a long long time sometimes, so just be patient with it.
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I think i like this one guy who got into a lot of trouble at our school what should i do?
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who cares if he gets into trouble? i mean, you should get to know him see how he is really like, and then base the fact on that to know wether you really like him or not.
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me and my best friend got in a fight liek 4 months ago...we hav been best buds for 10 yrs...well we got in a fight bc her dad wouldnt pick me up and they just left me ther alone...after my mom gives her a ride to skool eryday so i got a little mad...but im such a hyper person i dont get mad like alot and so i juss wasnt really hyper around her nemore and hse got mad that i wasnt talking alot but it juss hurt my feelings bc she was hangin out with this new gurl and they would ditch me and then wen that happeend i juss got really hurt...well we stopped talking completely...she wrote stuff bout me on her xanga site n stuff and weve had arguments b4 that lasted like 2 days!! and they wer even WORSE arguments but wed get over them...this one is still going on...she is goin to another h.s nex year and stuff so we dont even c eachother..but i hav her sn and hav talked to her a few times and we juss apologize n she tells me "to remeber her as the gul who lived next door all her life, not the bitch who threw everything away" and we hav s0o many memories and pictures and i just really miss her and im starting to hav alot of bf's now and i juss wish i could share everything with her!! everytime she signs on aim i get really sad and wanna talk to her i htink of excuses like "o u left ur jacket at my house frum a while ago do u wanna come get it sumday" juss to talk toher and see how she is...shuld i tel her how i feel? wat can i say to her? its been so long and im scared tho...we wer BEST FRIENDS...help im so confused (link)
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You were best friends and always will be. That connection wont go away. Tell her your feelin and that you miss her. Flat out like that. Just say out of the blue, and tell her you want to see her. And see how she responds.
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Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do? (link)
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Break up with him, but if you like him alot too.Tell him how you're feelin about all this, but that's only if you want it to work too.
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ok i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years on and off....i am 16 years old..we really love eachother...are parents know and everything...today i went to a physic and she said we have no future wat so ever together...and it was so weird cause he told me not to go cause i will start basing my life on her...and hes right cause now its making me think am i wasting my time...but me n him always plan r future together even though we r young...do u belive in physics wat should i do? how can i overcome this (link)
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I think pysics are kinda fake. You make your future to what you want it to be. Dont go based on she said, go on what you want done
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Ok well i am good at giveing other ppl advice, i take my time n think bout it, but when it comes 2 me getting advice no1 seems ta care or take the time, so mayb sum will here...N i already kinda asked a ? like this b4 but never really got tha answer i wanted so ima try 2 put it in a different way...
Im 13/girl n im realllyyy confused. I liked this lets call him * ahah ok well * n me were really good friends n then we both started to have 'more than friends' feelings bout eachother, but we never went out cuz i messd things up. So newayz we like barley ever even talk nemore. N im really trying to move on, im pretty much over him, cuz i dun see him 2 much cuz its summer n hes goin to the high school n ill be in 8th. Ok well like i moved on.. its just i cant find ne1. N i kno tha whole 'o ull find sum1' wateva stuff but that doesnt help me? i think ppl think im still stuck over * which im not n i jus wanna move on. How shud i do this? Sry its a lil confuseing but its jus hard 2 explain. (link)
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Hmm let me try to help out, b/c i had this same prob. exactly when i was goin into 8th and he was in highschool, so ive been in the same boat. Okay first of all...ppl are probly gonna keep thinkin you arent over him for a while. it's just what happens. But finding some1 else is part of life, and at one point it's always hard. But b4 you find some1 else, just make sure you are completely over him,b/c maybe guys are showin interest but you dont show interest b/c there is still somethin there between you 2.hope i helped with that.
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ok idk how to say this. i read my sisters away message the other day and it sed "my life is so perfect. so dont try to ruin it" and i feel like my life is crap cuz of everything that is going on. how it her life so perfect and mine so horrible? wut am i missing? (link)
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Maybe she is just seein the positive in the problems in her life. And you 2 live 2 different lifes,So things are bound to be different. Just try to see things in a more positive aspect next time.
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my sis moved out sometime after christmas. well she didnt exactly move out. shes was 17 at the time and she kinda ran away. but she stayed at her friends house during the last half of her senior year of high skool. now she is in college cuz shes taking summer courses. i miss her so much and only talk to her like every other day on the internet. what do i do? i miss her soo much and i dont know wut to do. i havent seen her alot this year. and it was her senior year which is important to some ppl. that and i feel like i wont see her anymore. wut can i do? (link)
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Well you say you chat to her every other day? Tell her that you miss her and want to see her, and that you want to get together soon.
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I'm sorry if this is long, but please will someone answer this. all right, normally i'm really cool about boys and stuff. i don't let them walk all over me, and i don't get all -head-in-the-clouds-ish. but theres this guy named Tyler that i have heard off from my friends. they say he's cute and super sweet, but i've never talked to him, and never seen him. well i got a new dentist and its his dad. and you know, me and his dad were talking about him, and stuff, and i left, but when i got home i felt so weird. i mean...i feel as if i like Tyler. but thats not possible is it? cuz i've never even met him! but i feel anxious and excited and nervous, and i just want to get to know him so much! but i don't just want to instant message him, 'hey, your dads my dentist, and i feel like i like you!'
its so weird, and i just don't know what to do! and he's online right now, and i'm just stressed is all. thankz to anyone that helps. (link)
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Well it is possible. LOL typical crush. But b4 you tell him, get to know him first just so you know that you do like him.
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Okay i use to go out with this guy..we started going out in nov. of 03.....well he was ALWAYS there fer me!! always...i know he loved me n i still do love him!! well we had been going out fer 2 1/2 months..well see his best friend is my ex...n at tha time i was still crazy for my ex..i would flirt with my ex allll tha time in front of my b/f..n i would go to his basketball games n stuff...although i NEVER cheated on my b/f i did hurt him..i was soo into my ex that i told my b/f that i thought we should.."take a brake" we took a brake fer 2 weeks n then got back together!! He was sucha a sweety!! but....then afta a month i broke up with him...tha was in march....tha last day of school(june 9) i invited him to come ova n go swimming in my pool...we flirted n flirted!! then we were outside alone n he had told me that he liked me after we broke up..a month after we broke up..n that he had still liked me when he was going out with his ex girlfriend Katie...but right now he doesnt wanna be in a serious realtionship..he told me he missed us hanging out n talking n he wanted us to be close friends or be friends with benefits but other then that he didnt want ewnthing more...well that night we hooked up n then after that i talked to him on tha phone once(he was in a really bad mood) n i havent talked to him since (so like i havent talk to him fer a month) i miss him soooo much...he would come ova when i would get sick n watch movies with me alll night long instead of goin out with his friends...he spiled me he gave me everything we wanted n we basically never really had a big fight bc he ALWAYS let me have it my way..i noe he loved me n im pretty sure he still loves me..but i want him back i miss him so much!!!! i've been thinking of calling him but i dont really know what i should do...PlZzZ help! Thanx!! xo0ox!!!! (link)
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CALL HIM GIRL! DUH! Ya'll sound perfect, and you got the rough times out of the way. Don't let a guy that great slip threw your fingers!
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I really really like someone but i dont think that they would go out with me so .. what am i supposed to do ? i really wanna tell him but he likes other people..? (link)
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Just be you. Plus your bein humble. Your thinkin he wont go out with, when he just might be liken you like you like him lol! You should tell him, just like an ordinary convo. and see his reaction to it, if it's bad tell him you were just kiddin or somethin, you might get hurt, but it's better to know.
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hi um my neighbor knows i like him and i think he likes me but today he had like 5 friends over and they were inside in the basement and like i heard one of them say to me hey logans gf! and i ignored her but then logan was like heyyyy rachellll! and u know what i mean but yah i dk if he likes me and i wanna go out wiht him really bad!!! please HELP! (link)
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Ask him about it. Tell you want to just be more then friends, get into if you can.
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Me and my two other friends make-out. We say we just do it to practice for when we make-out with guys. But my friend say her name is "Katie" and me like really get into it. I know I am not a lesbian but for her I would do anything. And I like making out with her. We caress each other. Sometimes we even make-out when her parents are home. We even play games with other close friends just to make an excuse for making out we pretend we're in college and that we're lesbians. We lay down on each other and touch each other. I need help and I am confused. I AM NOT A LESBIAN but around her i think i am but around every one else I'm straight.. Please give me advice ASAP..
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Straight but Confused? (link)
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LOL! umm it's called BI. In a way i understand, b/c see when i was younger i did that same thing, i mean i got out of it. b/c i really didnt care for her, and she def. didnt care for me. lol but im straight now. If you enjoy it enough with her, and you think there might be some possiblities i say just go for being with her, b/c apparently you enjoy each other's presence lol ;)
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my friend is really nice and like she lets ppl walk all over her! i mean be mean!! god!! she is just waayy too nice!! (link)
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geez,okay well maybe she's happy with the way she is right now. Tell her how you're feelin about that, but dont try to force her to change. She'll eventually figure it out, be a lil more "Mean"
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ok me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now, and hes been talkign baout having sex and whatever i try and blow it off because im still a virgin and I really dont think he is the one i wanna do it with but i dont wanna hurt his feelings, but at the same time I dont want him to think we are going to do it, i just wanna know a good way to tell him that i am just not ready...PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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That's just it! Say "I'm not ready for this, It's to much for me right now" basically tell him that flat out.That's all, if he cant understand that,then he wont understand anything.
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my guy n i have been dating for 6 months,. i really like him n all,. but i never can say i l0ve him. becuz to tell yah the truth i dont know what love is yet.. i'm 13 and yea i'm into sports .. i play fieldhockey , tennis, captain of my cheer squad.. powerpuff football, softball, and track!! so i dont have taht many boyfriends , cuz i dont have time~ well my guy is getting upset that i dont tell him that i love him ,. i told him the situation and he just toatlly ignores it * he ahsnt called me for 1 week now when he use to call every night.. he has left a text on my celly that he wants to see other people,.i was fine with that ,. now all these Guys Like me and all the sudden he likes me again now.. is he just usin me..
o yea PS ( he asked me to Marry him!)
=0 me scared
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To marry him?!?! you arent technically legal! WTC!? okay,it seems that he likes the girl that is liked by all the guys, he's probly thinkin that "if I get her to be my GF then ill be top gun."So there is a good chance that he is usin you just so he'll be kool.
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me and my mom always fight about my best friend...i luv her to death....but her mom doesnt let her come to my house bc she has to watch her younger brother so i ALWAYS got o her house!! well my mom thinks im doing bad things over ther shes already talked to her mom n knows that she cant come over but im always welcomed over ther and she still is like such a bitch...well my friend is goin to mexico july 19th and she asked if i can sleep over thursday, friday, saturday and stay on sunday!! my mom totally tripped about that she was like NO NOT THREEE DAY S I DONT CARE IF SHES GOIN TO MEXICO FOR 2 WKS!! idont c da prob for 3 nites down the street basically...wat can i tell her without startin a argument?? i really wanna go and im goin to miss my friend alot!! plz help (link)
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Sit your mom down and explain it to her. Is your friends mom gonna be there? if so maybe both moms could talk on the phone and have a conversation about all this, just so your had a better understandin,and plus...maybe theres a reason why your mom thinks this way,maybe sumthing you did in the past with this friend, or maybe how you and your friends represent yourselves? ask those kinds of things to, basically, just ask her why she doesnt trust you.
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my mom is constantly telling me tha ti am fat... i never thought that i was before but now that my mom keeps saying it i am begininng to think that i am.. i dont want to loose weight becasue i am happy wiht the way i look but my mom doesnt get that. i am 5 foot 3 and 195 pounds but i knwo i dont look it because i do have alot of leg adn arm muscle. i dont knwo if i shoudl tell my mom to stop or jsut loose the weight to amek her happy even thought it wont matter to me... please help (link)
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Tell your mom to stop. She shouldn't care as long as your healthy, and apparently you are. Confront it with her.
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My friend is bi and sez she loves me. I love her too but I don't think my mom would except our relationship cause she's being homophobic. But i'm afraid to tell her that we can't can't be together because she cuts herself. I'm afraid of what she might do... HELP ME I'LL RATE YOU IF YOU DO!!! PLEASE!!!! (link)
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wow! okay, for one sit your friend down and talk to her about this whole cuttin issue. look for ways to help with that disorder. Another thing,if you love her, then your mom shouldnt be stop you. Try to get your mom to understand the situation.
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