hey im Jourdan.im like this. ppl say im gothic others say im punk. i dont know what i am but i dress goth but im too happy to be one. i always look at the bright side of things. AIM me anytime u need to talk to me. im always willing to help. im a good friend so anytime u need to talk just talk to me and ill try to help what ever is bothering you. if you have a question put something in my inbox anytime you want to talk to me :) and jonny the homicidal maniac is my hero!!!!!!
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Location: from CA but moved to CO
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Age: 14
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I'm a moderately happy person. I'm in love, I have really supportive friends, and I have great artistic outlets for my emotions, but for some reason I keep having these reoccurring thoughts of suicide. Every time I sit by my window I think of diving headfirst into the driveway three stories below. I don't know what to think of it. Is this normal? (link)
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ive never thought that before. im a pretty happy person too. maybe your depressed about something, ask your doc for some depression meds and see if you feel any better
hope i helped
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Ok, I am 14 and turning 15 in a couple of months. I have not started my period and I wear a size B bra so I'm not sure why i haven't started yet. My sister and mom started when they were 12-13 years old, is there something wrong? Thanks Alot! (link)
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no nothing is wrong with you. every chick starts at their own rate. i was 12 and i was like an A and im still growing. the stuff they say about when your done growing and stuff is all bull. some dont start till their 17 or 18
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Well lets c where to start...I met this girl at camp and we became friends kinda talked time to time..she ended up going to the same school as my best friend and she like(d) him.. and he liked her but my best friend alrdy ahs a g/f so he is chaeting anways...he brought her over to my house and shit and Like I have liekd her and my friend likes her...well she stayed the nite and so now he thinks she likes me becuz when she stayed the night we went for 2 walks and she like constantly kissed me and then took me into someone elses yard to make out 3 different times for like 10 minutes...so he starts to get mad cuz she is hangin out with me and me nd her were layin in the same bed and held hands and rubbed on each other and shit while my friend was on the computer in the next room over, well he kinda saw us hold hands and then he whispered to me that he wants to dump his g/f and go out with Taylor so I was like wow as soon as im getting somewhere he wants to go out with her so I told him to go ahead cuz he was kinda going for her 1st and then he went upstairs while we were makin out then he came abck down and told me to help hmi think up of a reason to break up with his g/f..he knows I like her but he told me he wants her over his g/f so he is gunna go for her..any advice? (link)
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ok frist off, you like her right? if you do then tell your friend cuze this is so wrong. he cant go out with a chick you like, to be honist hes not a good friend, and tell him you like her and get to her frist.
~jourdan
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I have had my navel pierced since last july and right now it is so infected that it hurts to touch any where near it. any advice? (link)
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my ears get infected if i wear nickel and my neck. i lost a back to one of my earings so i used another, found out it was nickel the hard way. all i did was take it out and let it heal. you should do the same, take it out and let it heal, or if its not gold then get a gold one to put in it. and of course try to clean it and put some stuff on it like the earing cleaner or something
hope i helped
~jourdan
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okay so i have this best friend ..well sort of, okay me and him 2 months ago, had a huge fight about how i felt, i stopped feeling as if he loved me like he said he did, and he got extremley mad at me and blocked me online, and got a new sn , pretty much just completley made me get away from him, weve had fights like this before, and hes the type of guy that is always right and can never be wrong...so... i talked to a bunch of my friends, and he really did treat me bad...i was like his dog..and so yeah, i know i deserve better and like my friend says "its not that i miss him, i just miss what we once had* and it was an AMAZING frienship..ive never been so close to soemoen in my life...so yeah, my question is, should i try to call him and say merry christmas? I mean its been 2 months...dont you htink he'd be over it by now...and my sister says he seems as if its totally over, and i shouldnt try,i sent him a x-mas card and didnt hear anything back from him, so :/ I dont know what to do...and this whole thing ended because of one chick that his life revolved around...help me :( (link)
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yeah tell him marry christmas. if he doestn talk to you, at least you know youve tryed right? if you fail at least you fail knowing that you tryed to do something about it then lay around thinking about it all the time.
~jourdan
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my sister broke up with her bf last night becasue all he did was talk abotu ho upset he was abotu things. tom orrow is christmas and i dont want her to be upset @ christmas usualy she tells me things but right now she won t talk to me what can i do to cheer her up. (link)
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make her something. make her a card tell her how much you care for her and love her. that should cheer her up
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Okay, well, I'm 13, and two days ago I went to the bathroom and saw some blood in my...well, underwear...and I didn't talk to my mom about it I just waited to see what happened in a little while after I changed. The next day I didn't get any more blood, I just got big amounts of discharge, and this has never ever happened to me before. My face also broke out, and I was craving chocolate and I was really tired. Does this mean I'm going to get my period soon? (link)
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it could be that. every chick is differnt and get their period their own uniqe way. this may be yours. but i would ask your mom. i asked mine you should ask her about it
~jourdan
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I don't eat. Is that retarded? No. It's not. I'm happy all of the time at school, and then I'm sad and "depressed" at home. I get mad at my parents a lot, I don't smile. At school, I'm happy all the time, people tell me I laugh a lot, and then i just smile all the time. I'm really sensitive: ex) I once saw a homeless man in front of the subway station. I gave him 5 bucks, and he said happy holidays. I turned around and said happy holdidays to you too. then i went into the subway station, saw one of my friends, and started crying into his shoulders. After like, 6 stops, I stopped, and he asked me what was the matter, and I told him everything. Then I said i was sad cause the guy WASN'T going to have a happy holiday. The next day, i went back with my friend and he held my hand and everything, and we gave the homeless man 10 dollars with a post it attached that gave him the address of a nearby soup kitchen. He said bless you. And then I started crying all over again. How messed up am I? (link)
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your not messed up. your just sad that they wont be having as good of a christmas then you. trying to help them is really good of you. i think its great. maybe next year you can get presents for the homeless from people you know and when you see the homeless people give them a present and maybe that will make you feel better about it.~jourdan
have a happy christmas
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Hey, I'm 13, and my bf wants to take it to the next level. I'm not sure what to say, I want to, but my parents would kill me. Pleaz help.... (link)
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first off your 13 i think your too younge but thats me. im almost 15 and i still wont do anything past kissing. its up to you on what you want to do right now. if you dont want to say no its up to you. just know this, know the conseqences that youll have later, like regreting and all so think it over well before you do anything your not sure about
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I've got only a few real actual *zits*, but I've got red marks all over my face, kinda like zits that have no 3rd dimension. I think those are called blemishes. Also, I have huge pores on either side of my nose, on the inside of my cheeks. Anyone have these problems/know how to maintain them? I'm tired of wearing foundation, it's bad for you plus it can make it worse. (link)
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my mom sells marykay so she gets me stuff all the time. i use this zit stuff even tho i dont have any and yeah i have a couple red dots too. my mom also has given me this stuff called velocity and its a face scrub and it works really good for me. thats all i know sorry if i dont help
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gosh i really hate reading and i have to take these tests and read books before the end of the quarter at skool and i have none!!! is there a way i can be encouraged to read!!!
indeed2 (link)
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i hated reading too. i just needed to find a book that i liked or a person then i read all the time. you just need to read diff books or a page untill you cant stop reading
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has anyone tried those crest whitestrips? i was wondering when you put the whitestrip on top of your teeth, how does the bleach stay on w/o your tongue getting it off? and PLEASE tell me the truth: are they really effective? how much do they whiten? (link)
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my mom used them, they work really good. thats all i know.
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help....my name is lola and i strip in a strip club. ive been in porn movies and different clubs. i have a hard time finding a guy who can just accept my job and love me for who i am. if i ever do find a guy they turn out to be real asses or just treat me like im a nobody. Just b/c i show my body doesnt mean i dont have feelings. idk it just seems like something needs to happen. porn is the first job i ever had and ive been making good money. should i quit my job and start over or just follow along with porn. if i start over again it would be rlly hard and it would be a long time before i make money again. i dont know what to do anymore i need help... (link)
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its up to you. what do you want more, your job or to find a guy. its up to you
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my mom died a long time ago and i usually find out about this kind of stuff through friends but i'm kind of shy to ask them about this because i don't want to seem stupid since they all seem to know. i don't want to ask my dad either because that would be really uncomfortable. if you know what an orgasm is, can you please tell me. (link)
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It's the highest point in intercourse if your having sex or masterbating~jourdan
happy x mas
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On tuesday, my boyfriend broke up with me. I was really upset and then today I met up with some friends and he was there. We all decided to go back to my house and my ex and I were flirting quite alot. Then, one of our friends said: "Look, you both obviously fancy each other, go back out." So my ex asked me out and I said yes. The thing is, do you think it is worth giving it another try? The reason he broke up with me was because we didn't really talk enough or anything but can that be fixed? Should I bother trying again? (link)
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its always worth trying again. after like the 3rd or 2nd time of trying id stop. but try it again
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i'll try to make this short. my brother was overseas in the army for three years. he came back in august. i've only seen him a couple of times since he's been back. the problem is we used to be so close and now he's just so weird. he won't talk to me. i went over for thanksgiving and he ate in a room all by himself. i felt bad and went in there to keep him company and as soon as i sat down he walked out of the room. he wouldn't even say hi to me or the rest of the family for that matter. i have to see him tommorow for christmas. should i ignore him or try to talk to him. he shuts me out everytime i try. any help would be great thanks. (link)
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try talking to him. dont ignore him try to talk to him and get close again but if he ignores you or something then tell him how you feel
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My mouse is obese. I don't know what to do--I put her in an exercise ball and she just sat there (I don't think she knew what to do). I don't want to give her less food because I'm afraid she'll starve. What can I do to make my mouse lose weight? note--I've tried gerbil wheels on other mice, but they sometimes get caught and die so I'm afraid to use it. (link)
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ok mouse. funny but ok. i dont think you can do anything. i use to have rats and id just let them run around like in a box or in an empy room. just let them roam and have fun. thats waht i did
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hey, well i am a 16 yr old girl. 2 years ago i was in a bad car accident and fell into a coma. i was in it for 2 years and i woke up a week ago. well, i am kinda out, and well i was wondering, what kind of stuff is in? stores, music, fashion, hair and stuff like that. i am kinda confused! thx! (link)
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well pretty much the same stuff when you got in a car accident and im sorry. music, i think most like hip hop and stuff but for me i like rock and metal but where i live everyone likes what they like and thats fine. also cloths lol where i am people wear what htey like and everything, hair i think most chicks have their hair long and layered. if you want to talk more you can talk to me on aim if you have that. hope i help
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I babysit my 3 year old niece and she gets on my nerves and i don't get paid for it and my sister makes me babysit .
What should i do? (link)
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does she watch tv? try to play with her like paint, draw, do activitys she would like to do maybe then she wont get on your nerves. have fun babysitting, i babysite my little bro and sis their 5 and 1 1/2 and i babysite alomost 24/7 so you dont have it that bad, just have fun with her and do stuff like take a walk or something
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Ok, well, right now, i'm in 7th grade. Well, a couple of weeks ago, i got bored and well, i fingered myself...i kno pretty desprit, eh? Well, anyway, me and my boyfriend r ready to go to the next step, and he wants to finger me. Well, see the only thing that's stopping me is that I don't know if there is any transmitted disease i can get. Id there any transmitted disease i can get or can i get hurt in any kind of way?
thnx for the help>> roxy (link)
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hun you cant get STDs by getting fingered.how old are you again like 12? arent you a little younge for him to do anytihng like that to you? i woudlnt do it but if he has a cut on his finger then that could be a problem. if i were you id wait, but do what you will i wont stop you
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