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Hey ask me advice ANY time!! My name is Kristen,and im 14 years old :].Im good at giving relationship advice,but i also know many other things as well! Drop a question in my inbox any time and i'll give ya an answer right away ! ^.^ Im very understanding with things:)I am outgoing and fun.I dont like people who judge to fast>.
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I have green eyes, pale skin, brown hair, and freckles. Does anyone have any good make up ideas? I have heard that brown eye shadow is good, but anything else? I don't like to wear bronzer because it makes me look fake.
Thanks it advance.
Hmm...k,
Green Eyes- you could use alamay all about eyes-(obviously get the grren-eyed one XD)You need to make them pop-look awesome! so try unique shades :] Smokey eye is good to~.Plums and Chacoles are good for night time,but if your 13-14 pink brings out green.also try rich golds :].you can mix colors also :]!
Pale Skin-is it like fair skin?because jergins natrual glow for fair skin tints your skin and makes it shine! i have it for medium tones,i love it,it works awesome!
ok i am 13/f and i have dark circles under my eyes they aren't really really bad but i was wondering is there any way to get rid of them without using make up
k,im 14/f,and i was juustt like you :). I got this stuff called clinque-all about eyes,-it removes puffs and circles:]. http://www.clinique.co.uk/templates/products/multiproduct.tmpl?CATEGORY_ID=CAT1041
^^ those are some,there awesome!! i have one and it works good :)!and if there is a fileans(sp) or macys near you or if you have those stores they should have eye creams :).I love clinque,and there make-up too! try it out :)
good luck :]
OK i was really mad at my friend krista because she did unspeakably mean things to me. because of it, she was asking em why i was mad, so on myspace i posted a blog about it. now my best friend marissa who is good friends with krista is getting mad at me for writing all those things about krista and telling her why she was mad. One of the things krista did was tell marissa the mother of all secrets, that my other friend, luke, thats like a brother to me was gay. marissa liked luke, and as a result got mad at me for not telling her. but i couldent tell her because i couldent have it on my concience that i made someone feel that badly, and i didnt want to break the news to her. when i found out that he was gay, i got really depressed and had to tell somebody, and i told leah, my other best friend who would never tell a soul any secret. when marissa found out tho, leah told her that she knew and that i told her, and marissa got really mad at me because i told leah and not her. marissa has been my best friend since 5th grade and i really dont want to lose her. and im afraid i am, because she sent me 2 hate letters and dissed me so badly on aim, and marissa is the nicest person in the world and would never do anything like that so i was shocked when she did. i really want marissa back as a friend, and dont say talk to her, becuase when i tried that she cussed me out and i was basiclly grovelling 4 forgiveness, so that wont work. i really need advice, please help me.
catherine
you could always do this (write to her on aim and dont expect her to talk back,just write it,it'll help)say - ~~~Hey,im really sorry,for everything.For talking bad about krista,for not telling you a really important sercret,everything.I dont expect you to write back,you dont have to,just here me out.I couldn't see you get hurt if i told you about luke,because if it hurt me that badly,you would be hurt even more.I just remember all our fun memories and i get upset that this tore us apart.You dont have to say anything,you can even cuss me out all you want,I just really wanted you to know im extreamly sorry..~~~
The best thing about this is you get things off of your chest.She'll probably just brush it off,then again she could tell you something in return.But if she is still mad,you have to bare it,you cant change her.Only she can realize things.Meeting new people is also a good thing.Just have fun with your life and think "if i stayed friends with them,maybe more bad things would have happend" "If i didnt get into a fight with them i probably wouldnt have had the chance to be who i am" "I defended myself and stood up for what i think,and theres no way there gunna make me scared of them" In time they'll come around,you just have to be on your toes with them.No secret is safe no matter what,even if luke told some one else.Everything happens for a reason! I would find another group,stay nice to them no matter how mean they are,and just have fun!Life is to short to dwell on the negative things :].Im trying to encourage you,to know that some times no matter how close you guys were there was a reason for this.and you know,it will be better if you just forget about them for a LITTLE while.you should never have to cry about friends,espcailly if they were so close to you!sorry if i didnt give you great advice,but i really hope i did encourage you and help you to see things differently!:]
seriously,
GOOODDD LUUCCKK!! :] :]:]:]
Popular guy, semi-nerdy girl. A year left in high school. Could we make this work or are we just fooling ourselves?
If you both love each other it will work no doubt :].To popular guy: if they are your real friends they wont care who you go out with as long as your happy :].Who knows,maybe if you go out with her,she will meet new friends to :]!Your only fooling your self when you dont follow your heart!
goood luck!!!!!!!!
What happened to a sense of right and wrong?
Why is world based on relativism?
Does anyone else think that wrong is wrong no matter what?
Does anyone else wish that you could still challenge people to a duel for questioning your honor and integrity?
What happened to chivalry?
What happened to living for justice?
Why do I feel like I'm the only person who still believes in these things?
you know what,when i read this,i thought of it as a poem(besides the last question)i dont know what happend,but uhh..not everyone believes that same as you!and you know what,i think your going to make a difference because you think so strongly in some things,sorry i cant answer all your questions,because seriously,i have no clue what happend! im sure others do though.you can rate low if you want,i wont mind :] but i think you have a natural ability to ask lots a questions and make it sound like a poem XD
sorry i couldn't be of more help!
Okay this is going to be really long..so i have been on and off with my first love from 7th grade im now in 10th..but last summer i moved on and met my 2nd love which i really did love and wanna be with.we were together everyday nothing came in the middle of us..then my dad past away and my first love came back into my life because my family went threw alot when i was with him and he knew my dad unlike my 2 love..so i went to my first love for some help and understanding..my 2 love went outta town the night i found out..my first night didnt leave my side and was there with me for the next few days til i left and went out of town..while outta town both of them would text me sweet things..but i would only talk to my 2 love on the phone at night..on the way home waiting in the air port my 1st love had been textin me all day and told me he wanted to be with me again..but i didnt look at him like that anymore because i was in love with someone else..so i got home and that night my 2 love came over and spent the night with me and just held me cause i hated to be alone..so me and my first love were back to being friends and just checkin up on eachother all the time and making sure we were both okay..so then it came down to get everyone in texas together for my dads thing because we had two one outta state in our hometown then one here for his friends here.and both of my loves were there..which they hate eachother..so i didnt really know what to do..i had my 2 love right by my side.my first right behind me holding my shoulders as i was crying..after that i went out to eat with my family my 2 love came with me..then i went home laid around because i was just really still hurt about it all..then i went to my friends baby shower.i saw my 2 love there later that day..then he went home and i was afraid to be alone and my friend told me to call my first love so he could come be with me so i was okay and could sleep because she had her boyfriend and the baby with them..so i called him and he came over and spent the night with me well since we were gettin close again we both got the feelings back for eachother and we ended up making love..he was my first for everything..we kept it just with us and didnt tell anyone..and that was aug.27th..i was still with my 2 love and was so scared to tell him..so i didnt say anything sep.past and i was having sex with both of them..and by the end of the month i was late..so homecoming was Oct. 1 and i went with my 2 love and we all were with the same people so we were around eachother.then me and my boyfriend left and went home and got ready for the after parties..well he got a call from his dad saying he needed to come home cause the cops were out everywhere.so i went to the party alone and ment up with my girls.and my first love and his girlfriend were there.(this whole time he had been with someone else too)so then they left and he gave me a hug goodbye and said ill call you later..then by the Oct. 3th me and my first love said we werent going to talk anymore and i was okay with that cause i knew i was doing my boyfriend wrong the whole time and i wanted to tell him but me and my first love knew if i told him he would kill my first love..then i just went back to being true then Oct.6th i found out that i was havin a kid..and i didnt know whos it was..so i was mad at myself and just upset with it all.so my boyfriend thought it was his.and started to cry and was happy and said that we were going to get married..and my first love came over to make sure i wasnt lieing and looked at the test and then just asked me who i thought it was but i didnt know..so then it was Oct.10 and i started to get sick and my family didnt know what was going on with me but i would always be sick so my mom took me to the doctor who gave me pills cause i couldnt eat or drink without it comming back up.but i didnt tell the doctor anything.so then what she gave me didnt work so i had to go back and they tested me and my sister found out that i was 7 weeks along.she said she wouldnt tell my mom..so then i was outta school for a few days.(which we all go to the same school)..so around Oct.15st my first love told his girlfriend what was going on and that it might be his.and i went ahead and told my boyfriend which my first love told me not to..so then everything was all messed up and stuff.And my sister told my mom so my mom knows at this point shes hurt and mad but wants me to keep it..then Oct.26th came and i was hanging out with my first love at my house eating dinner and just talking about it all and he just kept saying he couldnt believe that it was happening.so then we went and got juices for me to drink and came back then watched t.v well before i know it my 2 love is calling me and we havent talked since i told him then i freaked out and told my first love he was here so he got up to walk outside to leave and my 2 love is standing there at the buttom of the side walk and then my first love walked up and was like are you mad at me and my 2 love said keep on walkin then my first love said why cant u just forgive me?..and my 2 love was like i said keep on walkin..and i was standin there cause they told me to stay out the way.then my first love turned to me and looked at me and when to get his keys and went to walk off and my 2 love hit him and broke his nose..so they started fighting and i jumped into the middle of it all and got hit and pushed around.and got into it was my 2 love and my first love went to the e.r...so then i started to get sick really bad again and wasnt talking to my 2 love..so by Nov.8th my first love went and they did some work on his nose..and when he got out i went over here..but by this time i had lost my baby and i had been 9 weeks...so now i was really hurt because if i didnt jump in i would have still had it..so i went over there and saw his family and we just all talked.which his dad made his go to the cops and push charges on my 2 love..then around thanksgiving break me and both of them werent talking and i was just working on myself and making myself happy..then after christmas day my 2 love called me and we started talking again and we talked all the way up to Jan.6th...then stopped and then started again when i started going to my new school..and we were on the low cause we didnt want anyone to know.then today outta nowhere he said we couldnt talk anymore and i dont know why..he just said he couldnt but i heard from people at my old school that he was talking to three other girls but i let that go and didnt care but now im starting to think that it was true.and me and my first love are in a fight because we dont trust eachother so nothing in my life seems to be going right but for my new friends at my new school which is really small and everyone knows everyone.and theres this boy that i kind of like and he is really sweet and we hang out this weekend and for once he just held me and didnt want to do anything else which made me feel really good and unpushed into doing more.so now i dont know what to do about anything and need alot alot of HELP!! so please help me out!! sorry this is so long but i was rate HIGH!!
i am SO SORRY that happend to you!!You have to think,everything happens for a reason. Also that the past STAYS past.This new guy,is probably a really good thing.Then again you might need to take a rest from boys,and just have fun with friends!:]Its hard to forget,really hard,but think of a new start.new friends,new school,whole new everything.Maybe you should tell this new boy about what happend,but of course when you get to know him more and after your break.If your 2 love really was talking to three other girls,he probably just couldn't deal with everything that happend and wanted to start over.Your first love has a right not to trust you,and same with you to him.If i were you,im not telling you to do this,but i would call #1 & #2 and say "im sorry this happend,i want to start over with everything,we can just be friends,and i'd like to keep everything in the past." think of how you were befor of all of this and go from there.Just have fun,theres always light after dark :].always.im just thinking of some quoets and sayings that encouraged me when i thought my life was going down,here are some "Who knows what could happen,do what you do just keep on laughin,theres always a brand new day", "In life comes many wild cards,you just have to realize that with every wild card you get you have to force it to do good"
,"if god is willing" im sorry if i didnt give good advice,but im really trying to encourage you here,no matter how bad my advice is XD.i have good intensions :]i know things will get better.be positive :]!!!
and i REALLY mean this when i say
goood luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think i'm gonna sell my iPod and buy an iPod video. However, I've been thinking about whether I should wait for apple to come out with the next iPod or not. Should I buy the new iPod now, or wait and see if a newer one comes out?
if it takes more than a month for the newer one to come out,you should buy ipod video.and when the newer one comes out,you could sell the ipod video for the new version.then again,not all new versions are going to be ones you like :]
After 3 years of dating my true love, she decided we needed some time apart to get our priorities straight. its going on 3 weeks, and not a day goes by without her calling me, we hang out from time to time, however, there is ovbiously no intimacy. I love her so much and I know she loves me cause she has told me. My question is, with valentines day comming up, iam not sure if i should get her the flowers and a present...I dont wanna look like im trying to push her into getting back with me, and at the same time i dont wanna look like i dont care about her if i dont give her anything...what should i do?
hmmmm,give her not a bunch of flowers,but maybe 1-3 flowers,maybe white lilys or a flower you know she likes,and yes,give her chocolates too!i think the whole pushing into the relationship things depends on how you give it to her.also ask yourself what you would expect from her when you see her. think what she might expect also :] obviously,you do care about her,so even if she wants time apart,you should still show her you really care.If you want,you can also tell her your not trying to push her into anything! :] im sure it'll work out fine,you'll have fun!
gooooood luck!!!
I've almost been with my gf for 1 year and was wondering what i should do for our 1 year aniversary... thanks
you both should have fun so go to an amuesment park!!!If there isnt any open or around,how about a movie and dinner,(yeah,very original :D)Remember to bring a camera.Give her a stuffed animal,one of those REALLY soft fuzzy ones.You could by one that says "I love you" ^.^,your lucky that its around valentines day!as a girl,i would love to do something romantic as well as fun!!Buy her some chocolates when you see her,and give her your jacket or sweatshirt :].Also if you know she likes a clothing store you could give her a gift card to that store.She would love a ring or some kind of jewlery :](maybe a locket!)sorry i cant give you more,thats all i got,but im sure she would just love to be with you that day,no matter what!
good luck!
15/f/eng okay so im gunna redecorate my room and i was thinking to do it as a set theme... like paris or playboy or summit like that ya no..
but i dunno what to do.. so can ya'll give me some suggestions of themes and what i could do to do that..
like... the theme, what colours to use, how 2 do it etc.
i hope i didnt confuse you too much x
it really depends on what colors you like.i like to mix cool colors with bright colors.Also have to ever seen the show cribs? you could get some idea from that :]!also i love this idea- one fushia wall,one royal blue wall,one white wall and one teal wall! :D
The paris idea sounds awesome,you could try to order some paris magazines and frame them,have baray hats.Vintage is cute to,personally i wish i could redue my room paris/vintage,because its always good to mix themes.Paris...paris makes me think..or rich colors,so use either a nice pink,and gold.If you dont like that,try something like a sponge affect.Try watching some shows like trading spaces.take this test thingy!its pretty accurate because i just took it and got ecentric,which i am,so go look and see what your stlye is! here is the link! -- http://www.hgtv.com/hgtv/pac_ctnt_988/text/0,,HGTV_22056_33320,00.html
go00o0o0od luck!!
Why are some guys such JERKS? No, that's not really my question, but I would like to know.
My question is this... I have a boyfriend. I think. Thing is, I haven't spoken to him since early December. He WON'T take my calls. How do I know? "Hello Mrs. Carr, is Andrew home?"
"Just a second" *calls his name in the backround*
*Andrew whispers back* "Who is it?"
"May I ask who's calling?"
"Yes ma'am, it's Brandy."
*Andrew whispering again* "I'm not home."
*His mom* "Brandy honey, could you call back in a few minutes please?"
"Of course."
So I wait a few minutes, about fifteen, and call back. NO ANSWER. I call my friend Meg who lives right next door to him and asked if he was there. She said yes. I called him again. No answer. I waited a few more minutes and called back. No answer.
He missed my birthday and hasn't spoken to me at all in over a month. I just don't know what to think. I mean, he hasn't broken up with me, so does he want to be with me? And if he didn't want to be with me, couldn't he grow some cohones and tell me instead of ignoring me?
*Sigh*
hmmm...go over Megs house and just show up randomly asking if he's home,first befor all of this ask MEG to call him,to see if he's home.then you and meg and him can go some where,take a walk,whatever.does meg have a dog? you can take her dog for a walk if she does.but after you have to think of a plan for you to have you and him alone,and ask what happend.meg doesnt have to be in the walk if you dont want her to XD. also you can write a note to him asking about you,then have Meg give it to him. you know,the whole friend thingy :].He really sucks,im serious,what kinda boy does that.If you really want to,called in a diff. voice and say a diff. name,(only if his mom answers)and *67 him so its private,hope i semi-helped! :D
go0oo0o0od luck!!!!
today, at school i walked for about 30 minutes..about a mile, then i walked home...about 30 more minutes...then i lifted weights for 20 minutes, then did my gazelle for only 10 minutes, i then walked to the school to get my couison, and home ( 30 minutes ) then i did an intermediate pilates video..
me and my couison plan on doing this a few times a week..will i lose weight? ( sum days though i won't be doing all that walking, and it'll be weights, video, and gazelle )
any advice to stay motivated on the gazelle for 20 minutes? i feel like its like 5 hours! i love reading advice..so i'll take comments..
thanks in advance!
much love
hopeless romantic
well,,all excercize will help you,and eating right,and i know movie stars do pilates! (i watch extra,they say this stuff XD) also good sleep.yes,keep this up and you'll lose about 2-5 pounds every 5 days to a week :D (it depends on the person,but thats on average)I'm sure a nice figure will show up soon!! it takes time though,and it could be frustrating! im sorry,i dont know what gazelle is :[,i bet it helps so much though,any excercize will help,but i meen,where do you want to loose weight the most?find out what things to do for that.if you have more then one are,switch off on weeks. :) good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So on friday 4 girlfriends and 1-2 guy friends are comin over just to hang out (we're all 15 and 16 btw) Well after a while i know fo sho that its goin to be boooring. what are some fun games to play? we dont want any kissing games (we've all known each other for so long itd be awkward lol)But something similar to Ten Fingers or like pictionary.. Please help asap! i rate 5s :]
~0503 Rep~
you should get scene it,or something like that,rent a weird movie,and one really scary one,play ding dong ditch or prank phone call.do you have a ouji board? those things are scary but fun,then after all that a nice comedy movie.You can do a dance off or karioke! ride down the stairs with a matress and have pillows and everything,make hot coco and some weird chocolate food that you make up.I know your 16/15 but if their your close friends,you might as well get a little childish ;) and by the way,i personally love candy land,and its funny,because in every group of friends that plays candy land,one of you will be a VERY unlucky one,and that'll make it soo fun!! Take pictures,maybe even try to make the pic. look all olden styled :D! I love the game CLUE
Today the kid who sits across from me(who i kind of like, but would go out with) said,"Do you want to be my girlfriend?" I said "what?" "Do you wan't to be my girlfriend?" I kind of laughed it off.
The thing is, even though i would go out with him, we fight like brother and sister so I'm not sure if he's being serious about this or not. You can't really tell with him. How do I find out if he was actually serious or not? (He asked out one of my bfs yesterday and got turned down)
Please help
I rate
hmmm,,,ask one of your friends to ask him if he was serious,or you could write a note,and have a friend give it to him.or,confrount him and ask in either a serious,or joking slowly going to a serious way.Also,he might just want to hook up with you to get your friend jealous,or to show that he has what it takes.Also,he could use you to get to your friend.sucks i know :[!! but just think if he was being serious,would you want your friendship to turn into a relationship?
i hope i semi- helped!!
You know when people write PS: on messages or notes? Well what does PS stand for and what's it for? Thank you.
post script,when you forgot to say something in the letter/email you were writeing :)....and my friend next to me says it also stands for personal secret..but eh i dont know about that one ;),