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Im a jazz dancer and i love dancing! i also love singing. Im the youngest out of my 4 older brothers and i live in indiana. I want to be a performer when i am older and i also want to be a journalist. Feel free to AIM me because i *LOVE* to chat on it! Im also good at giving advice too. =]

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i am in love with my old neighboy Andy, he likes me too. the thing is he moved away last year and of course my mom MADE me go camping so i didnt get to see him or say good bye. i havent seen him for almost 2 years, but we talk on the phone and online a lot. He is coming to visit on June 20, and today my mom told me we are leaving that day to go camping! so im not going to be able to see him when he comes here! i am soo mad! i asked my mom if i could stay home and she said no. my dad and my sister are going to be there, so whats the big deal? How can i get my mom to let me stay home so i can see my best friend/love?

tell her that you want to see him and that its not fair that everytime he comes you half to leave. tell her you had to leave last time and want to stay this time. ask if you could skip out this time or ask to go 2 days late. so you can spend some time with him. or just ask him to go along with you.

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Hi I just got my period, I live withm y dad so its awkward to talkt to him about thta stuff. Can anyone tell me the normal how long it runs, ect stuff like thta\


PLEASE HELP!!

thnaks:)

5 days.

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Why cant they say dont phunk with my heart on z100 (or whatever radio station you listen to) they say dont mess with my heart. it isnt a bad word!! please help me im so confused ill rate high!

bcuz some people think PHUNK is a bad word. every radio station has to edit it. phunk kinda sound like you kno to some dumb people.

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wow i dont even know where to begin. i'm 15m, my name is jake. just like at every school, theres that group of people who are popular and stuff right? well i was new to this school, and i kinda just joined this group. the thing is, in that group, theres guys and girls and they all have their own love triangles, but when i got in there all the girls liked me. and well at my friends party, rachel, kelly, may, sarah and i were having a little fun in a room, if you know what i mean. and well a some my friend walked in. before i could say anything he just left, and when we got done putting on our cloth he was gone. so i just went home form the party, cuz i was embrassed. so wow, this is bound to be extremely ackward to explain to the group, since all the guys in that group like one of the girls that i uh.. had fun with. what should i do? should i just find new friends?

hmm tuff call. see how they react and then you should know what to do.

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ok my girlfriend has a abusive dad. hes always drunk and beating her. yesturday when i was visiting my girl, he was beating her up, i just got really mad. i couldnt control my self and i pushed him away. and i guess he was drunk and i was really angry he would beat up katy like that, but i beat him up pretty bad. am i right?

yes.

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my ex bf is having a party, he broke up with me and i want him to notice me, without making a big deal, there will be alot of people there..what do i do?

--noticeable

show up looking really cute. bring some of your friends too. and dance around with other guys. trust me that WILL get his attention.

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I really like this boy that i've known for a long time now and ever since ive met him ive liked him A LOT. so we went out then we broke up..then went out again and broke up again. I still like him SO much and ive tried to talk to other guys but i still cant get him out of my head and id do ANYTHING to not like him anymore because he has a girlfriend. I want him to realize how much still like him but he goes and tells his girlfriend that I'm friends with. I really need help fast! I usually get over a guy really quick but this boys somehow a different story! Ill rate 5's for GOOD answers! THX!

maybe jealousy?

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Ok, this is how it is. Have 2 bestfriends at school; we have been friends 4ever. Anyway one of my friends {Lets call her Karla}found out that my other bf {Lets call her Tisha} was talking about her behind her back. It's very hard 4 me because everytime I talk to 1 of them the other 1 asks if she said anything about her. It's driving me nuts! I don't know if I can take it anymore. Anyway I've been friends with "Karla" longer than I have "Tisha". I've known "Karla" 4 about 8 years, and I've been friends with "Tisha" 4 about 2 years. I'm so confused and I cannot deal with it any longer. Anyway school is almost out, so maybe everything will get solved. {We only have 4 days left} But I really need help! Since there's only 4 days left I've been thinking of not talking 2 any of them? What should I do?

I RATE HIGH!

dont talk to them. tell them that you cant take it anymore! then they will probly make up and everything will be good. =]

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im 15 and so is my gf. She is "Emotionally unstable" as in she used to cut(but stoped for 6 months) and crys to the easist things.how can i break up with her so i dont hurt her feelings too bad. She really really likes me and so does her family (mom, dad,&bro.).we've been going out for 2 and 1/2 months. plz help me.

just tell her. tell her that you need some space and then break up with her. yes she will cry ALOT and make you feel guilty. but you didnt do anything wrong. and if she starts crying on the phone just say hey i half to go and then hang up.

hope i helped,
Cierra

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I need help QUICK!! Im getting my braces tightened for the first time tomorrow and I know to expect pain but how much? And do they hurt WHILE he's tightening them or AFTER hes done? Should I take advil first? Will i be able to eat/chew food afterwards? How long does it take for him to tighten them? Thanks ill rate high!!

it takes about 10min. and it hurts while hes tightening them and after. and yes DEFINITLY take painkillers.

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Hi,
I am ALWAYS craving sugar! This wouldn't be so bad, but I have braces now and have to stop eating it :S I tried eating small amounts but it is still messing up my teeth so I have to stop almost entirely. But I'm so weak, lol, and always eat food with a high sugar content! How can I stop, or at least lessen, the cravings and eat less sugar? I don't like fruit so please don't suggest that :)

i have braces and i still eat sugar..sugars GOOOD!

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i feel kinda weird asking this, but i really need help.

my chest is practically non-existant. and when i say non-existant, i MEAN non-existant.... i'm barely even a double A and i'm 16! i can't wear dresses and my choices of shirts are extremely limited because of it. i need to know how i can make my boobs GROW! i'm a gymnast, so i don't think eating a lot of fatty foods would be a good idea.

thx!
i rate high for good answers!

body fat makes them grow. maybe some of those jelly things u can put in your bra to make them look better? or if your that desperate go get plastic surgery.

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this is a question for the girls. I just recently straightened my hair for the first time and like ive never really styled it in anyway so i have no idea what to do with it now. its kinda long but sorta short like its not shoulder length but in front it goes down past my eyebrows and so long story short im wonderin wut kind of hairstyles girls like on guys and how to do those thanks much i rate very high.

i like punky hair styles.

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I normally do not ask questions about guys on this site, but I just have no clue what to do.

My situation is that my boyfriend went out with this girl from his camp last year (they broke up b/c they wouldn't see eachother for a whole year). Well, this year he is going back to camp (she is too), and the camp holds a hotdog/hamburger barbeque thing where everyone pretty much has a date (although it's not neccasary to have a date, but everyone does have one). He asked me if he could go with this girl from last year. He told me that he "sort of" wanted to go with her (I'm guessing this is my language for "I want to go with her but I don't want to seem to eager about it b/c it will probably make you mad"). My problem is that I am afraid he is going to start liking her again, and I won't be able to do anything about it (after all, I will be miles away; I won't be able to stop them flirting or anything). I am just scared of losing this great guy.

My question is- am I being jealous and should I let him go with this girl to the barbeque? Or do I have a good reason to be worried?

Thanks I appreciate any answers!

you have a really good reason to be worried. just tell him how you feel. why dont u and some of your friends go to that camp the same week? just to see what happens with him. or send some one to watch them. bcuz u really need to kno whats going on between them! and your bf might say nothing when something did happen. hope i helped.

Hearts,
Cierra

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Alriteee heres my problem... i have a babysitter person that lives wiht me because my parents work long hours and we need soemone to cook clean etc. And he has a gorgeous brother!! when i say gorgeous i mean GOORRGEOUSS!!! But my parents and his paretns dont want us to meet! We have been talkin online and through e-mail lately but thats it. We are planning to hang out this weekend, but his last e-mail he talks about this girl that likes him and he doesn;t know what to do...and asked for my advice!! i dont think he likes her, but idk!! SHould i still meet him this weekend and hang out? Should i get it across to him that i like him even tho we haven;t met yet!?!?! What should i dooo!!???

by the way i am 16 and a female

still meet him. maybe he will like you more!

Hearts,
Cierra

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Me and this guy (lets call him Joester haha) are friends with benifits. His friend told me that Joester wants to make out with me. Part of me wants to that way I could piss off my x-best friend and because Joester is really hott. But part of me doesn't want to because after making out you do gross stuff that truthfully I dont want to take part in. Am I over reacting please help I rate really high

no not really. but i would go for it! lol

Hearts,
Cierra

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I'm a 16 yr old girl. About a month and a half ago me and my bf broke up. I broke up with him because he kept running off and getting in trouble and was acting really immature. So now we are just friends, and seems comfortable with it but I know he isn't. One minute he acts like he is cool being friends with me, and then the next minute he begs for me back and to get a second chance. But I'm not giving him another chance because he can't ever change and I know it. I've told him many times that I'm not taking him back. At first I was nice, but I have even cussed him out because he was getting so clingy and annoying. He kept calling and showing up places where I would be just to "see me". He can't take the hint. I told him that if he doesn't want to be friends and can't handle that then we shouldn't talk anymore because he's acting like a stalker and it's getting really annoying. So I finally thought he had moved on. He got a new girlfriend and everything was cool. He wasn't calling as much anymore until out of nowhere he starts up again. He started calling all the fucking time and sending me creepy emails saying how sexy I am, how he misses me, and that he loves me.... while he has a fucking gf. So I told him off and then I find out he broke up with his gf and he is telling everyone we are getting back together. Is there any way that I can get this guy to take a hint b/c I have seriously tried everything and he just doesn't get it! Help!

ignore him. and dont answer his calls.

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my age is 16 i was going out with the boy from my secondary school for about a year and i found out he still had a crush on another girl from the same school.So we broke up he was always mean to me. Ok this guy texted me from my secondary skl and he said do i want to be with him?i texted back yes because he was always there for me when i was upset he even bought me a present when i was sad. Anyway when i sent him a message the other day he has not answered why do you think this is??i do not understand because he sent messages before??

he knows how to text message bcuz he text messaged you! it might have just been a joke or maybe hes nervous.

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Ok tonight my bofriend is comming over, and I don't know what to wear. He is comming over to watch the movie BoogieMan with me, and so what would be a good outfit for this occision?
Help

something cute!

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i was just wondering if anyone knew how to kick a soccer ball realy far. i can kick it well but not really far

thanks

act like the ball is your x boyfriend. lol.

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