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Ok, I"m in a guitar Club at my school, and for a Spring Rally, we're going to Play I belive a country sound called,"When you say nothing at all" I'm not sure who sings it, it was origionally sung by a guy, but they remade it recently and it was by a girl,if you could give me the name of either of them, it would be a GREAT favor. I bleive it's 2 people singing it? or somthing? I think one of them is Cross or somthing? please help, I was assigned to find the lyrics and Chords, if you could give me the singers name, it would do much for me, thanks

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Tone Deff

this may not help much but have you tried www.google.com there you can type in the name of the song and then put lyrics/artist you might find something

good luck finding it and good luck at your rally

sincerly, Chicagostar113

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one of my best guy friends, lets just say named steve, just told me today that he tried cutting his wrist tha other night..i saw the cut, it was TINY but still it was a cut..i dunno if he is trying to get attention or if he is serious..because the cut looked like it was from a longggg time ago and he said he just recently had done it..i dunno what to say to him because no matter what, real or not, i have to support him, etc...he is like the happiest pesron i know,but i guess i dont know anymore...help

cutting wrists is serious ask him if he is serious or not and how you can help him if he is if it is all about attention you should be able to tell and tell him thats its really not funny and if he is that desperate for attention something could be wrong find out!!

good luck!! sincerly,Chicagostar113

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ok here goes...there is this guy that i have been talking to for about 4 moths(lets call him bob). hes the most awesome and i just cant get him out of my head...hes nice, sweet, caring and pretty much just perfect..the thing is, is that he dont talk to me if he is infront of his friends and when e are talking in person.he talks to me all the time tho if we are ont he phone or online..heres the problem..about two weeks ago we were hanging out w/ some of his friends, and one of his friends(lets call him sam) tells me that he likes me and would like to "hook up" and asks me all this personal questions..i dont know what to do..obviously sam is afraid to show me him feeling and bob isnt..i like bob ALLOT, but i dont know if i can keep this talking thing us anymore..im getting to the point now were i really want a boyfriend.should i just wait for bob to come around or should i take the chance with sam while i have it..I NEED HELP~!~

if you like "sam" go ahead maybe "bob" will come around but if you don't like "sam" step up and ask "bob" out the worst thing that could happen is being rejected but u can still be friends i guess you have to make the first move if you can't decide wich one to got out with just make a list of the good and bad qualities and why u like them for each of the 2 guys it usualy helps to see how much you like them and why on a list witch ever one has the most bad qualities should probaly be your second choice

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I broke up with my boyfriend. We always used to go for walks together. The reason I broke up is because i wasn't happy, and didn't feel anything. Well he keep s asking if i can walk and i know he's stil crazy for me. I tell him no because I know that he'll try to hold my hand or iss me. What should I do?

ignore him if you have to if he doesn't get the message maybe hook up with some other guy that you like maybe he will take it easy the tell him how you really feel and that if he doesn't stop trying to flirt or what ever tell him that you'll never be able to hook up with him again because he is showing disrespect for you make it clear you have no more feelings for him but you hope to stay friends only friends

Good luck!! sincerly, Chicagostar113

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okay well i have a step brother he is 18 and he is so nice and cool.I have a real brother that he is 17 and my real brother i've know him ever sence birth.Well my real brother is mean sometimes disrespectful and he abuses me physicly and emotionaly.But when he does he hits me real hard and we have a 3 yr difference he is physicly bigger then me and if i hit him back he will hurt me even more.Well yea im so use to having him beat me.my step brother that is so nice and stuff i feel wrong being around him i feel uncomfortable and he hasn't dont anything to me and i feel bad.but i dont really know him i just knew he was my brother but i never really knew him.and now he is here and i feel so wrong around him.I'm not use to someone being nice to me and wutever and i guess i feel uncomfortable i mean i can talk to one of my guy friends better then him.and i feel guilty.Plz help i dunno what to think rite now.

i think first of all you should get your real brother some help if he abuses you phicly that could be serious but i don't understand why u can't talk to him do u have more than friend feelings for him? take it slow around him if it helps make a list of things hes done good and things hes done wrong maybe it will make you feel better

good luck!! sincerly, Chicagostar113

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I am so sexually confused! One second I'm bi and another I'm
gay! I am 14yr.s old a freshmen, confused on what my sexuality is. People says I'm gay, but I still think girls are cute, but I would
rather go with a boy. So what am I!?! Need answers...

your only 14 do you really need to be focasing on this but any way wat do you really want to be ? its all up to what u want for your self if you feel atracted to guys but u want to be not gay make a list of why you feel attracted to guys and why you feel attracted to girls witch one has more answers that what you should be you may be gay there is nothing wrong with that

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Okay, just for a little background info, my guy and I have been together eleven months in 2 days. We're totally in love, I know he'd never cheat on me, and I totally trust him.
He told me that he went clubbing with his guyfriends and was kind of surrounded by girls (I don't doubt this, he's really hot...*drool*), and was dancing with them and all that...
His guyfriends apparently were telling him "ooh, your girlfriend's gonna be pissed" and stuff like that, and he said I wouldn't.
The thing is, I told him I wasn't, but I kind of am...I mean, I've always said "oh, I'm not the jealous type" and I'm not, really. I trust him, and I know it's not cheating. It's just dancing. But it still bothers me for some reason.
I don't want to make him think I don't want him to talk to girls or anything, lol. I mean, that's hypocritical. Most of my friends are guys.
What should I do/say? Should I do/say anything, or just leave it alone?

maybe when hes going clubbing next time ask to go with then he'll dance with you and not other girls also just tell him your not comfertable with him interacting with girls that way say that you can talk to them and such just tell him that you want the relationship to last and the way to do is to make sure we r comfertable with each others actions. also lay easy you may be over reacting a little on the jelousy you should learn to be more open but its good to be heisatent and cocious and careful

good luck!! sincerly, Chicagostar113

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A big problem. Ok... I'm in student government at my school. Were freshmans and are shut down for our ideas... even our teacher doesn't support us. Well, we have connections with stores and radio stations- and we want to organize a fashion show. I mean it's a huge responsiblity and were worried guys and girls won't come, and where thinking of dinners and so on. Please, give me some ideas on how to work this thing.. how to organize, promote, ANYTHING! Thanks- I rate higghhh

you need to pazzaz it so every 1 will want to come stand up for your opinion make it known make cool posters put up things all around town add something fun and special about the fashion show that makes it unique so people will want to see it maybe try a costume fashion show for halloween if you think thats lame try something like all pink fashions or any color make it special then you don't have to worry about people coming or not !!! to get your teachers interested have them involed by being costume set up or something if that doesn't work set up a meeting go to work plan out your idea make them listen if they don't and you still want to do it do it any way as a fund raiser or something

good luck!!! sincerly, Chicagostar113 hope it helps

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Okay heres the thing. There's this guy I really like. His name is Eugene. I've liked him since 5th grade. Right now I'm in 8th. Well, me and him have been really good friends. We talk alot on the phone, and talk to each other in school. Well, my friend Jamie, she likes Eugene too. In her journal she writes how much she loves him and everything. I get really jealous. I tend to cry. See, what I don't get is why does he hug her, and like kiss her on the cheek. But like yet he's only known her for this whole month. He doesn't do anything with me and we've known eachother for about 3 - 4 years. He flirts with her so much. I asked him if he likes her or anything, and he says no he doesn't.. just as a friend. I really don't know what to do. Right now I'm kinnda' upset, 'cause Jamie asked this girl from my class to come up to Eugene and ask him if he'd go out with her. He said "I'll think about it." God, I felt like crying. I really don't know what to do anymore. Help me please?? Thanks.

this is a tough one but you should ask him out first get to him first. maybe he doesn't want to hug or kiss you because you have been friends for so long that it would be okward do u flirt with him alot? maybe she does tell ur friend how u feel about him it might not change anything but maybe you could work something out with that you got to push your self ahead and go to him first

good luck!!!

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Hey im the chick that needed advise on to go over my X's house or not..well i did go over yesterday..he told me he misses me..then he kissed me..well we were making out and i started to feel it wasnt rite..i dont like him anymore but i still wanna be friends with himm..hes like been my bestfriend since we broke up i dont want that to change but i dont like him ne more i dont kno wut i should do? help

just tell him wat u think calmly be sensitive take it slow tell him that u really want to be friends just friends because i feel no strong passion between us anymore tell him how u really feel but don't be to constant about it once u mention it to him and tell him how u feel drop it and move on

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