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Guys..ahh what to do?
ok here goes...there is this guy that i have been talking to for about 4 moths(lets call him bob). hes the most awesome and i just cant get him out of my head...hes nice, sweet, caring and pretty much just perfect..the thing is, is that he dont talk to me if he is infront of his friends and when e are talking in person.he talks to me all the time tho if we are ont he phone or online..heres the problem..about two weeks ago we were hanging out w/ some of his friends, and one of his friends(lets call him sam) tells me that he likes me and would like to "hook up" and asks me all this personal questions..i dont know what to do..obviously sam is afraid to show me him feeling and bob isnt..i like bob ALLOT, but i dont know if i can keep this talking thing us anymore..im getting to the point now were i really want a boyfriend.should i just wait for bob to come around or should i take the chance with sam while i have it..I NEED HELP~!~
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Well, actually I think that if you do like "Bob" a lot then maybe YOU should ask HIM out because if you do date "Sam" and you don't really like him as much as "Bob" then whenever you see "Bob" you will still have more feelings for him. Try asking him out and if you really don't want to do that or you don't want to talk to him, go out with his friend if you really truly like him like that. Otherwise, don't break his heart! I hope I helped! -Kayla
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ok if he likes nd uu like bob ALLOT go for it take a risk and see wha happens
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if you like "sam" go ahead maybe "bob" will come around but if you don't like "sam" step up and ask "bob" out the worst thing that could happen is being rejected but u can still be friends i guess you have to make the first move if you can't decide wich one to got out with just make a list of the good and bad qualities and why u like them for each of the 2 guys it usualy helps to see how much you like them and why on a list witch ever one has the most bad qualities should probaly be your second choice
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