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Question Posted Wednesday October 13 2004, 3:46 pm

Okay heres the thing. There's this guy I really like. His name is Eugene. I've liked him since 5th grade. Right now I'm in 8th. Well, me and him have been really good friends. We talk alot on the phone, and talk to each other in school. Well, my friend Jamie, she likes Eugene too. In her journal she writes how much she loves him and everything. I get really jealous. I tend to cry. See, what I don't get is why does he hug her, and like kiss her on the cheek. But like yet he's only known her for this whole month. He doesn't do anything with me and we've known eachother for about 3 - 4 years. He flirts with her so much. I asked him if he likes her or anything, and he says no he doesn't.. just as a friend. I really don't know what to do. Right now I'm kinnda' upset, 'cause Jamie asked this girl from my class to come up to Eugene and ask him if he'd go out with her. He said "I'll think about it." God, I felt like crying. I really don't know what to do anymore. Help me please?? Thanks.

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Additional info, added Wednesday October 13 2004, 3:52 pm:
Oh, and I also told Jamie how I felt.. but she doesn't care. And Eugene knows I like him too.. he sometimes does flirt with me...

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xofitchbabyox answered Wednesday October 13 2004, 9:47 pm:
Okay... Well 1. Jamie obviously isnt a real friend if she still continues to flirt with him and stuff.. 2. maybe you should go up to Eugene and hug and kiss him? i think that you should have a serious conversation with him... tell him how you feel.. he should understand.. and if he doesnt .. then he isnt worth it.. you seem to good for him anyway!

hope i helped
<3 kristina

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Chicagostar113 answered Wednesday October 13 2004, 6:05 pm:
this is a tough one but you should ask him out first get to him first. maybe he doesn't want to hug or kiss you because you have been friends for so long that it would be okward do u flirt with him alot? maybe she does tell ur friend how u feel about him it might not change anything but maybe you could work something out with that you got to push your self ahead and go to him first

good luck!!!

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swallowacidndie answered Wednesday October 13 2004, 5:52 pm:
yeah well if ur friend knew u like this eugene dude then she should of never asked her friend to ask him out n yeah becuz if she was really ur friend she would back off n let u have him but if u liked this boy since 5th grade u should of asked him out dont be scared to becuz she doesnt like him u do n if she still trys to get with him then shes not really a friend becuz friends dont do that i know i dont at least n yeah but u should tell this eugene kid u like him becuz u never know maybe he likes u too

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Wednesday October 13 2004, 3:57 pm:
Well the guy probably likes your friend more and wants to "seduce" her so that's why he's doing that to her. If she doesn't care how you feel then she's not a friend. Keep this in mind sweetie, 97% of men are assholes. It's been proven time and time again. He's not worth your time if he's gonna do that to you. He's young and probably horny and he wants to flirt. All guys do it. Us ladies just need to accept the fact that they are assholes and move on. You'll find someone worth your time. Hope this helped.

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