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Okay I don't even know what me and my friend were talking about but somehow Tom Green came up and she told me he died?! Is this true? I mean I know he had cancer and stuff but she told me she saw on Drew Barrymore's E Hollywood Story that he was dead. Uhmm can someone clarify this? Please? (link)
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I am pretty sure he is still alive. Maybe your friend was referring to this...
http://www.shortnews.com/start.cfm?id=54710
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My boyfriend wants to eat me out,
I'm not exactly scared, but I have
no idea how it feels!
Will it tickle, feel uncomfortable?
Basically, how will it feel?
thanks so much =] (link)
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It may feel a bit uncomfortable at first, just because it's something foreign to you. But, it will feel good. Just try to relax, because worrying about it while it's happening will inhibit the pleasure of it. So relax! It will feel good, especially if he knows what he is doing. If something feels weird, let him know what DOES feel good to you. Having open lines of communication will help.
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My girlfriend and I were having anal sex in a hot tub the other night, and I was fingering her at the same time throughout. I was touching my penis but I dont remember if I ever touched the tip. I never entered her vagina and she is a virgin. I was wondering if there is any chance that she could be pregnant? (link)
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Not sure to be honest. I would assume the hot water would kill any traces of sperm. But I can't say positively. Just be more careful next time.
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I'm a 17 year old female and I have recently started having sex with my boyfriend. And..well the first and second time we tried it [firstly we barely did it at all because it hurt so much] I felt as if I needed to use the bathroom. I'm not really sure. I have talked to my friend about it and she feels the same way when she does it.
As in, when "it" goes in, I feel an urge to use the bathroom. But the thing is I DONT need to use the bathroom.
I have also talked to other people about this and they say that my body is totally strange. Anyway, the questions are; will I feel this way for the rest of my life? Is this just because I am new at this whole sex thing and will it go away soon?
Also this peeing urge is really bothersome, and really uncomfortable for me. Is there an explanation for this? Or a way to stop this urge permanently without NOT having sex. =) thank you (link)
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I think you might find this helpful...
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/1578.html
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i heard some people saying that birth control pill starts to take its full effect after 7 days, but one of my friend told me whose mom is a nurse said that it takes a full month for it to take its effect. Do you know when exactly does it start to take its full effect? (link)
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It's true other methods like the shot and the patch might be different BUT For the PILL, it takes a full month. Not only do I know this as a nursing student, but when I went on it my doctor told me the same thing.
- Nursing Student
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so yesterday, me and my boyfriend had sex. we used a condom, but i think it ripped. how can you tell if it ripped? i still have the condom in my trash.
-jenna 85/f (link)
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Filling a condom up with water isn't messy. Not if you do it right. Obviously you don't put the water on full blast or anything. Anywho, fill it up with water, dry it off, squeeze is softly to see if anything drips out.
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21/f
my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half. when ever i preform oral sex on him i have him tell me before he ejaculates so i can stop and finish with my hand. i get grossed out by the thought of it in my mouth. this coming weekend he wants me not to stop but he says he'll wear a condom so my question is:
1. will it feel as good 2 him?
2. will it not go in my mouth?
and 3. would that work?
thanks so much! (link)
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If he wears a condom it will not feel as good to him. I mean, just try using your finger in place of his penis, then put a latex glove over your finger and feel the difference yourself. If he does wear one, no sperm will get in your mouth, because the purpose of the condom is to catch the sperm during sex, so it will do the same for oral.
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15/f
so i had sex last night and 2 things:
1. i kept on feeling like i had lots of discharge but when i went to the bathroom there was hardly any. is something wrong?
2. i was on top for my first time and basically are you supposed to go up and down or like forward and back when you move?\
thanks. (link)
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1. You are fine, it's just part of your anatomy of what happens during sex.
2. It is usually both up and down and back and forward.
I don't care that you are going to give me a 1 for saying this. But you are 15 and way too young to be having sex. It breaks my heart when I read about 14 and 15 year olds having sex. If you don't even know about these types of things that are happening during sex, you shouldn't even be doing it. You are fully educated about sex yet.
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ok 14/f/straight
soome of these shouldnt be in this category, but i have a lot of questions!!
1. what IS oral sex???
2. my bf is having his b-day this coming monday, any ideas of what to get him?
3. what is feeling up mean?
4. im in a school orchestra and so is my bf, we have a concert in December, we will be able to be alone in a room making out,,, HOW DO YOU MAKE OUT/FRENCH KISS??? idk, ive never done that b4, and i KNOW he wants to, and i do too
5. How do i get my bf to put his arms around me, like you know how guys put there arms around their girlfriends waist??? well how do i get my bf to do that to me???
Im sorry i have so many questions, and im sorry if you cant answer them all, but answer what you can please!
thanks!!! (link)
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I am going to answer these as clearly as I can and to the best of my ability.
1) Oral sex, when performed by a female on a male is when the female puts the mans penis in his mouth and sucks on it, usually accompanied by motion of sliding it in and out, mimicking the act of sex. When a man does it to a woman, he licks the womans vagina usually around the clitoris, which is the most sensitive part of the vagina. This can be accompanied by fingering also if the man and woman desire it. This is also what "eating out" means. Because the man is licking and sometimes lightly sucking on the womans clitoris and other parts of the vagina.
2. How old is he? The easiest thing is to see what he needs. Maybe it's some new clothes. What's important is to pay attention when he says he wants something, or that he thinks something is cool, etc. Keeping in mind it's reasonably priced. For example, when my bf and I go to the mall, I pay attention to what shirts he says he likes, or styles etc and then I remember that when birthdays or holidays come around.
3. Feeling up generally means when you are touching someone's private parts. A common example would be a man feeling a womans breasts. It can also refer to him feeling her vagina or her feeling his penis. Under or over their clothes.
4. Making out starts off as a simple peck on the lips, then both partners open their mouths, usually one has their top lip on the others bottom lip and you slip your tongue inside each other's mouths. Moving it around slowly. It's awkward at first, but you usually fall into a rhythm.
5. You can hint at him that that is something you would like him to do. You can't force him to do it. Dropping hints should work, and when he does do it, let him know how much you like it.
6. I think I explained this eariler. It means when a guy performs oral sex on a girl.
If you have any more questions, just let me know!
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normally, how much does a guy cum when he reaches climax during sex into a condom? (16-17 years old of age) does it usually stay in the condom for a while or does it kind of absorb into the latex? (link)
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It depends on how much sperm is being held in the testes at the time. For example, if he masturbated in the morning and then had sex later that night, there would be less sperm released than if he hadn't masturbated and came in a day or so. Also, sometimes it just depends on the guy. If you leave it in the condom without filling it with water to check if it worked, it stays in there and eventually dries up. If you fill it with water to check if the condom worked, it just stays floating around in there. Natrually you just throw it away. Usually without busting it.
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15/f
boyfriend and i been together 2 years.
love him DONT JUDGE OUR AGE. K THANKS =]
first time i was unprotected;
like two weeks ago and he did NOT cum inside me
he didn't even cum; i made him get out.
[he lost his virginity to me; && has been tested like i many times]
since last week or so, when i pee
light colored blood comes out; its NOT my period.
i also have to pee alot more too.
sometimes it hurts to pee.
what is this?
i cant ask my mom about this either.
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It is a Urinary Tract Infection, like the people below me have said. You can buy something called AZO at a store such as CVS or Walgreens, etc. BUT, that will not cure you. You need to see a doctor. The first time I got one, I didn't want to tell my mom because I didn't want her to know I was sexually active. That led to me waiting too long to see a doctor, and the infection spread to my kidneys, I was in a lot of pain and had to go to the ER. If the infection got worse, it could've spread to my blood, and if not treated, could've led to serious problems. I was put on antibiotics for a week and it cleared up.
Don't mean to scare you, but I DONT want you going through what I did. What you are describing is how mine started, and once it got worse and spread I had lots of constant pain on my side, painful urination, couldn't eat, etc. You need to see your doctor, and don't worry, your doctor will not tell your parents that you are sexually active, that is illegal. If you can't go to your regular doctor, find a free clinic/planned parenthood in your area and go to them to treat you. Do it before it gets worse.
Also, the person below me is wrong, a UTI almost ALWAYS has to do with sex...check out this link to explain how...
Notice I said ALMOST always, it does occur rarely in other cases...but to be completely honest, when someone hears a woman has a UTI, they assume sexual activity, and since you have been sexually active...it's a match.
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/urinary-tract-infection/DS00286
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Hi im a 14/m and i masturbaute like once a week ..but sometimes my left testical ( i guess thats the one that holds sperm ) gets smaller..and its not after i masturbaute or anything..its usually normal size (like big) but then sometimes like just before it stays the same like lenght but it gets really skinny (width) or it justs gets completly smaller.Is there anything wrong with me..please answer asap!
Thanks
ps..sometimes the left one hurts for no reason.. (link)
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Both of your testicles hold sperm. Sperm is constantly being made in the testicles and that is also where it is held until it comes out either through masturbation or leakage, (also known as 'wet dreams'.) The more sperm that is being held in the testicles, causes them to swell, or get bigger, temporarily. So, when it is released, it gets smaller, also just temporarily. The pain and other problems you are experiencing just comes from going through puberty, a lot of things will change for you in the coming years. You dn't have anything to worry about.
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please tell me your first time sex stories..from what i have heard none of the first timers are pleasureable. i would really appreciate it if you shared yours and tell me how it went. thank youu soo much (: (link)
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It is not to pleasureable because one, it is a foreign experience. It feels weird the first time. Plus, most people are so nervous, they are thinking, "is this how you're supposed to do it?", "Is this how it's supposed to feel?", "What do i do now?" etc. Mine went basically the same way. Not very pleasureable, though it wasn't completely boring. It's not terrible, it's just not great. It gets better with more experience.
But, If I were to give you any advice that I would really like you to listen to, is to BE CAREFUL. Most people just worry about pregnancy and STDS (though they are important, they are easily preventable with CORRECT USE f condoms and birth control), also watch out for the little things. I have gotten two urinary tract infections from having sex. Both painful and scary, but the first one was worse. I would be open to tell you about it, just shoot me a message with an email or AIM screen name and I would be happy to talk to you about things further. :)
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Hey guys
I went to planned parenthood the other day and they told me i should be taking my pills for about a week until they work. Does this mean it's okay to be taking the pills for 2 weeks (or a little more) and to have sex? I won't get pregnant right? well of course with birth control theres always a risk but i mean, the pills will be working by then right?
thanks (link)
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Usually, i hear it takes the whole first pack/month cycle. At least that is what my doctor told me, and what they told me when I used to get them from the free clinic. But it depends sometimes. If they said a week or two, then I guess it is okay. I never heard of one working that quick. The best thing to do is look up the name of your birth control online and see what the maker says about it.
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okay well ive been on ortho tryclen lo for only two weeks. on the 11th day. i had sex, without a condom, he did not ejaculate in me. whats the odds of me being pregnant? thankss. (link)
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There is a good chance because birth control on it's own does not work unless you have been on it for a month. But, he did not cum in you so it's a bit less than usual. if you miss your period, it should be obvious that you should take a pregnancy test. good luck!
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what is a good kind of colonge for guys
one that girls love
not like axe or tag
but actuall cologne (link)
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Curve Soul
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I wanted to know if you masterbate and start bleeding if its nothing to worry about and if your bleeding and you start masterbating if its safe or not (link)
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(If you are a girl)If you bled the first time you did it, and you had not had sex yet, then yes it is normal because there is a possibility that you broke your hymen (the covering over the vaginal opening, usually broken during sex/sometimes during masturbation). If it continues after that, then no, it is not normal, and you should go see a doctor.
If you are a male...no it is not normal at all and you should see a doctor.
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for our winter dance at school we're having a semi-formal black and white dance. i wanted to look online for a black and white dress but what are some reliable sites i can look at? everytime i seach on google i get random sites..i want one thats like a store or has a good reputation.
thanks! (link)
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Here is a picture of a dress I just wore to a formal outing...
http://www.debshops.com/Fashion/ViewDetail.asp?page=2&CatID=127&CENID=2574
More dresses on the main page...
http://www.debshops.com/Fashion/ViewInCat.asp?catid=123
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im 16/f. i have to admit that usually i am one to let things get to me, and i've been trying to change that lately. in my school, the other girls treat me with such hostility, mainly because of racism, and i learned to deal with it. but now this one specific girl has taken some kind of negative interest in me, and getting her friends to do the same. all she does is just stare at me as if i've ever done something to her, and when she walks by, she comes real close as if trying to bump into me. it's really tormenting me even though i try to hide it. i don't know why, cause im not even scared of her. i just wish she would stop. and worse, i have to see her everyday, and if i tell anyone, they'll just think i'm being stupid. it's bothering me so much, i just basically feel like shit all day. any insights on how i can get my mind off it? (link)
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It is hard to get a person like that to stop their actions. I don't know how helpful I will be, but here is what I can tell you. Girls at 16 are very catty..and also very jealous. All of the things you've probably heard are true, and it took me some time, but i realize it now as well...
Girls usually pick on other girls for a few main reasons, 1) because they are jealous of the girl they are tormenting or 2) to make themselves feel better about themselves or 3)they want to draw attention to themself. Sounds cliche but it is actually very true. And because of this, she probably will not stop. Now, since she told her friends to do it, she probably has something against you that you aren't aware of, sounds like she is jealous of you about something. Could be looks, grades, relationships, anything. She might have her friends do it as a way to make her more popular, to make herself feel better by having others "agree" with her feelings towards you.
Really, it is hard to tell in these situations. Girls are your age can be very mean, jealous, vile, etc. She is being very immature. I know it is hard, but just think about how sad of a person she is.
I used to get teased all the time when I was about 14. EVERY DAY. It was terrible, I cried and was upset a lot. But eventually i took a step back and thought, you know what? I am happy with me, if people want to waste their time worrying about making me feel a certain way, let them. It's flattering that they care so much to try and bother me. The more you let them see that what they do is working by making you feel like crap, the more they will do it. Just show them up, be happy, laugh at them, make them feel stupid by showing them that no matter what, you are going to be you, and they are NOBODY to change that. Show them that they mean NOTHING to you.
Good luck. Stay strong.
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Yeah, sorry for the lame title.
I am laughing at this cause I think It's funny but painful at the same time.
My ass is REALLY sore.
It's like it has been cut or something. By my ass I mean the.. ring.. If you know what i mean. I'm pretty sure It Is that anyway.
Yeah so It's really sore. I've never, in my entire life, had this problem.
About washing it; I don't really wash my ring. I don't know about everyone else though.
I only take showers, maybe It's time for a bath. I dunno.
Oh I'm a 16 year old male.
It's embarresing. So I came here.
Shall I put some lube on It or something?
Thanks
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You should probably wash it. Or you could have a rash. Or you should try actually WASHING it? That could be irritating it as well.
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