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Pee-sex?
I'm a 17 year old female and I have recently started having sex with my boyfriend. And..well the first and second time we tried it [firstly we barely did it at all because it hurt so much] I felt as if I needed to use the bathroom. I'm not really sure. I have talked to my friend about it and she feels the same way when she does it.
As in, when "it" goes in, I feel an urge to use the bathroom. But the thing is I DONT need to use the bathroom.
I have also talked to other people about this and they say that my body is totally strange. Anyway, the questions are; will I feel this way for the rest of my life? Is this just because I am new at this whole sex thing and will it go away soon?
Also this peeing urge is really bothersome, and really uncomfortable for me. Is there an explanation for this? Or a way to stop this urge permanently without NOT having sex. =) thank you
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It's really normal to feel the urge to pee during intercourse. There is a certain spot in your vagina, that when hit makes you want to pee, known as your g-spot. But it is totally normal, and your body is not strange.
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Hi Darling,
This should all go away after you have experienced sex for a long time like when you have had sex quite a lot of times you can't reaalyt stop it.
Mandy
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You know how guys ejaculate? Girls do it to.
I honestly cannot explain it any better than this site here: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
[Warning: There are explicit images, but if you're having sex I think you can handle them.]
If that is too heavy for you to read, here is one quote that you might find helpful:
"Before a woman can learn to ejaculate, enjoy ejaculating, and enjoy sex in general she must accept all her bodily fluids as normal. She must not question the nature or quantity of her wetness, be it sweat, vaginal lubrication, menses, ejaculate, or liquid from her bladder. These fluids are a normal and natural part of women's lives. There is nothing that is inherently bad or harmful about them. A woman cannot allow herself to ejaculate and experience potentially earth-shattering orgasms if she cannot let go when the pressure or urge to ejaculate arises. Ladies, give yourself permission to get wet and messy. Give yourself permission to have fun and enjoy sex."
Other than that, I will just repeat that it is totally normal and tell you that I also found it uncomfortable at first, but I learned to embrace it. Don't listen to the people who say it's strange.
There is a good section of that page that describes the taboos about female body fluids. I think you'll benefit from reading the whole thing.
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