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Well, its kinda awkward to talk about this to my friends or mom. I like this guy, and i have no expirience, but he has a lot. I am 14, and i have never made out with anyone :\, and he had already made out with at least 5 people, and has fingered his ex, and my friend gave him a blow job.
Well, i think he kinda likes me and i want to make oout with me, but i dont want him to tell people i was bad, and i dont want to do it in front of people. What should i do??
Also, about the finger thing, well, i dont think it will get that far, but should i shave my vagina? Dont say, "Its up to you" just tell me what a guy would want...Sorry its so long, and thanks :]
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Darl
You are 14, a whole beautiful life awaits. If you are not sure about him keeping a secret OR if you dont think you are confortable with people knowing it, i would say wait. I mean lets have some self esteem. Lets not be a cheap target. Flirt Flirt and Flirt more. if hes genuinely interested, then he will stick around. And by that time you will ahve a clearer vision and thoughts to decide what you want and what you dont.
Cheers
Shaving : Is this your first time? Then trim it close. because IF you are going to let this guy, then you dont want to appear with cuts other random weird things as a post-shave gift.
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This is not advice. This is fact.
It's deeply self-destructive to make out with someone who you can't even trust not to go bashing you behind your back.
If you can't trust this guy even so far as to not insult you because of your inexperience to others, and maybe even to your face, why do you want to make out with him? What is the appeal of a guy who you don't think even respects you that much?
Find a guy who can gently and respectfully guide you, or one who can learn and explore with you.
This should be about discovering and experiencing, not about being judged by him and everyone he tells.
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Okay.
First, if you arent dating him and hes fingering you, you look like an easy slut. No offense. Same with the making out thing. Just keep flirting with him. Start a relationship before you get too attached and he breaks your heart. Cause he sounds like a player. Thats just my opinion.
Most guys prefer it to be shaved.
xxtiffany
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Yeah, Shave. Most guys I think like it better. Making out really just comes. Yeah, you wont be the best the first couple times, but tell him that. Be like when your about to start making out, be like Iv never done this before, and then just go in for the kill.. Hahaha.. Have fun, but stay safe! =D
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