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Hey Everybody!! If you need any questions answered, I'm the one to ask! :) I do give advice to my friends and everything, so I think I can handle anything you throw at me! So, ask and I'll give you an answer as soon as I can!!

About me:
I like punk rock music, hangin out with friends, and shoppin!
My favorite bands/singers are:
Simple Plan
Yellowcard
Newfound Glory
Maroon 5
Ashlee Simpson
Ryan Cabrera
Blink 182
All American Rejects
Switchfoot

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advice

hey..
What kinds of clothes and accessories do you suggest getting for back to school things? I am entering high school this year and I want to know what you all think! Also..it would be nice if you had any tips for fashion in high school or any tips on high school in general!? Thanks so much!

Okay, first my suggestion, is don't follow the trend, dress in stuff that YOU like.. not what your friends or your boyfriend likes. But, skirts are cute, like short jean skirts, or short ruffly skirts. Um.. for shirts.. get a wide variety! I Hope I Helped! :)

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me

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does anybody know any good love songs?
thx.
erin

She will be loved - Maroon 5
Pieces of me - Ashlee Simpson
On the way down - Ryan Cabrera
My happy ending - Avril
Hope i helped! :)

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me

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Hey what is the best make-up for back to school?like what is the best
cover up/foundation/powder
eyeshadow
lip gloss
eyeliner
mascara??????????help!!!plz!!i rate:-]

This sounds kinda weird, but Mary Kate and Ashley Make-up is really good!!
if you have like medium skin:
go for the silver eyeshadow stick, then black eyliner, and light pink lip gloss.
If you have pale/light skin:
Get the pink/blues for eyeshadow sticks, then brown or blue eyeliner, and clear or just sparkly lip gloss!
Hope I helped!!
xoxo
Me

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Hey..
I am jus wondering..what are some good songs out rite now that I can download?(They don't have to be that new or nething tho)..and I like all types of music! Thanks!(14 year old gurl)

She will be loved - Maroon 5
Pieces of me- Ashlee Simpson
Perfect - Simple Plan
On the way down - Ryan Cabrera

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ok i'm 13 going on 14. i use to be a big jerk and stuff like that. i've been really depresed lately cause none of the girls i like like me.

i've changed a lot since last year and i wish one of them would just give me a chance.

people take me the wrong way, just cause i cuss and fight once in a while they judge me for who i'm not. and everyone thinks they know me and most of them really don't. most the things i do r just an act. i'm afraid people won't accept me for me.




clueless

Maybe you should show more people that you can be affectionate, and not a jerk like you used to be. Go hang out in crowds more (good crowds not bad crowds) If the people that take you the wrong way don't like cussing or fighting, try to not do those things around them, then they'll probably be willing to be closer to you. If you think people don't know you, let them know you. I hope things work out for you! :)
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Sorry this is so long, but u need the whole story to understand.

About a week ago, I had sex with my boyfriend. The next day, i told my best friend about it. Since im only 14, she flipped out on me. She told me I was WAY too young and I was stupid for doing that. She made me promise I wouldn't do it again until I was older.

She has always said she will respect what I do even if I do mess up. But she didn't understand that.

A few days ago, I had sex with him again, and didn't tell her. I talked to her on the phone last night, and I accidently told her I had sex again, and she flipped out. She asked me a bunch of stupid questions, but I answered them. I also let it slip that I gave my first blow job. She REALLY got mad about that, so I told her I was kidding about it and I had never done that.

I want to tell her I did all that stuff, but im afraid she won't understand. Is there any easy way to tell her? or is it best just left alone?

Well obviously, its best not to tell her because she doesn't want you doing those things, but if shes your best friend... then I know you're supposed to tell them everything. If she doesn't understand then shes not a true friend. I agree with her that you're too young, but thats not my business. Just try to tell her that you were the one who made the choices, and she should accept them. hope i helped :)

Good luck!
xoxo
Megan

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okay.. so i like this guy.. *joe.. and like.. weve kinda been doing "stuff" for a while, im not sure if he REALLY likes me or if hes just using me, ive asked him if hes using me and he said he isnt, but i dont know, tonight hes supposed to come over and i dont want to do anything with him if he doesnt like me and we cant have a relationship ya know? sorry if this is confusing but i really need help, btw i rate

If you keep doing "stuff" with him, then you'll never know. Stop for a while, if he stays interested in you without asking do to stuff constantly, then thats obvious signs he likes you, but if its obvious hes usin you, lose the guy, you can get a lot better! :) good luck and i hope i helped
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megan

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ok, next year i will be in 7th grade and i am gonna do athletics. im kinda short for my age and dont have much muscle or anything. im not overweight, but im not exactly "strong and athletic". im afraid that next year i will make the bad teams and be one of the worst atheletes there. im not a ver good runner and im afraid were gonna have to do alot of that! i just dont wanna look stupid in front of all my other friends who are tall and long-legged and will be able to run a mile in 5 minutes, wen im bak there truggin along. does any1 no an easy way 2 get in shape without havin 2 like do hours and hours of strenuous excersise?? plz answer! :)

I RATE WELL!!!!!

Just practice, thats the best thing you can do. And you don't have to join a sport just to be the best person on the team or anything like that, you should just to have fun. No one will think you're stupid about it either! Don't worry about it. :) hope i helped!

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my b/f's birthday is in the middle of august.. should i get him something since weve only been goin out 4 a lil while (a month)? if so, what in the world do i get him?!

Well, if you really like him, get him something!! Just ask him what he wants.. you should know what hes interested in.. maybe a cd or a guy's necklace, something like that! :) I Hope I Helped!

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ok my ex boyfriend has been talking to me A LOT more then usual and trying to break me and my boyfriend up but my ex boyfriend brok eup with me so why would he wanna break me and my boyfriend up? and do you think my ex likes me?

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female

If he's trying to break you and your boyfriend up, he either doesn't want to see you happy, or he wants to hook back up with you. If you still have feelings for him, then maybe you should tell him, but if you don't have any feelings for him, then tell him that you like the boyfriend you have now, and to stop trying to break you guys up. Also... ask him if he still has feelings for you! Good Luck

I hope I helped :)

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SORRY IT'S SO LONG, I JUST NEED TO EXPLAIN THE SITUATION
this is for a friend, i promise, not for me

well my friend is 16 years old, and she has DD breast size, she wants a reduction, and her parents full back her, but everwhere she goes, they say she has to be an adult

well lately she's been having back problems, and none of the medication is working, she really wants them reduced, she said that she cries herself to sleep a lot, and she's depressed because the guys only like her for her boobs, and not for her, and she's on medication for that, she had a boyfriend, but he ended up just bein a pervert, and wanting sex

I was wondering, is there anything she can do to make her boobs shrink just a lil bit¿?¿?
she actually wants C's but doesn't know how to get them

Theres not really another way she can make them smaller other than breast reduction. Maybe she should keep going to the doctors with back problems, Usually they would do it even though shes not 18 yet. If her doctor won't do it, maybe she should try going to a different doctor at a different doctors office/hospital to make arrangements. I hope I helped!

Best wishes! :)

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we have this party thing in our town every year. all the kids our age hang out (its HUGE and EVERYONE is there) and just the whole town and school district come. i have these 2 great friends (ones my boyfriend) im not sure if i should invite them to spend the night with me and my friends and their parents can come and hang out with my family and everyone elses family. i think it would be a lot of fun. they would only know me and one of my best friends. im not sure if i should invite them or not because its usually a night to enjoy with just my friends. i love it. im not sure if it will be better with or without my 2 friends who aren't from our school there. help me outt!

Im sure they'd love it if you invite them, and you would even have a better time, you'd have everyone that you enjoy being around there! It would most likely be better. If you think you'd have fun then go for it!! Ask them if they'd feel comfortable going. You said they'd only know you and one of your best friends, so that way, they could meet new people. Good LuCk! :)

Hope I helped!

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Ive been doing good dealing with my break up with my boyfriend, but lately its bugging the crap out of me cause i still love him. And right now Im having a very bad moment. Im a cutter, but havent cut since january. Right now I feel like i wanna hurt myself and i dont know what to do. i feel like i could kill myself right now. SOMEBODY TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!! :o(

Whatever you do, don't cut yourself, that could just lead to more cutting, and also don't kill yourself. relationships take time, and you get so involved with them, but they aren't everything!! Talk to your ex-boyfriend about it, see if he still has feelings for you, and if he does, he can help you through everything. Other than that, go to your parents or a friend... good luck!! :)

I hope I helped.. best wishes! :)

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okay me and my ex bf broke up about 8 months ago. we were going out for a year, there was a huggeee fall out between the 2 of us and we supposedly "cant stand eachother". atleast thats what i say to make it not look like i still have feeligns for him. whenever i see him he doesnt really talk to him, etc , but when im not around and whenever he sees one of my friends, he ALWAYS asks about me, like how i am and if i have a bf, etc. what do u think hes feeling? do u think he still has feelings for me?

Usually when guys do that, they still have feelings for you. So maybe you should ask him, maybe you two could hook back up. He also could just be curious, but you can never be sure, so the best thing to do is ask him about it. I hope I helped! :)

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summers all most over and i had like this altimate goal to go talk or some how meet this guy that i liked and we dont go to the same school o rn e thing i just kinda know him from some where so idk how to meet him or n e thing and i just wish that maybe he would come up to me first and i only have like a couple or more weekends to do this so somebody tell me good ways to meet him or w/e!

will rate..

Find out his usual hang out place, then get a friend or two to go with you and hang out there, then ask him to hang out with you guys, then.. ask him for his number so you guys can hang out more. If you don't feel comfortable, have a friend hook you up with him. I hope I helped!!

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what r the symptons of being pregnant?

First of all... Go buy a pregnancy test. some symptoms are if you miss your period, food cravings, breast tenderness, and if you are pregnant, morning sickness (depends on how far you are).. I hope I helped!!

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hey i need help, i dont know what to do. i found out that my boyfriend doesn't like something about me and i dont know if i should confront him or just pretend i never found out.

You should definately talk to him about it! If its a rumor, you can never be sure. He is the one you should get all information from before making assumptions. Ask him about it, and maybe there are things you don't like about him, so maybe you could confront him about those things! Just talk to him. I hope I Helped!! :)

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umm.. i have this friend and she is like my best friend but ever since her and this other girl that she met have became closer friends she has shut me out and i dont know what i should tell her and so i said something to her about it and she told me that she didnt want to tlak to me ne more if you have ne advice that would be helpful plz answer me i will rate everyone that answers my question thanks alot
-DesPErTlY WoRrIEd-

Okay, first thing ask her why all of a sudden she's just shuttin you out.. if there's anything you did or said. Also, maybe invite both of them over, because then you can get to know her other friend, maybe she'll become a great friend to you too! Just keep tryin to figure out whats going on with her, good luck! :)

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hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on???

I am a girl, and thats the FIRST thing I look for in a guy. If they're not polite, sometimes I look for other qualities, but im my opinion thats a major turn on, others may not like that. But either way, I think every boy should be a gentlemen to their girlfriend/date! I hope I helped!

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i like this guy and he only likes me as a friend so what should i do?? i will rate u!!! plzz help!!

confused- gurl :(

If the guy doesn't know you like him, then you should tell him. If you talk to him about it maybe you can find out why he doesn't like you more than a friend, or if he does like you more than a friend. Other than that,theres nothing you can do.. just flirt with him, and be yourself. If he doesn't like you, its his loss! :)

I Hope I Helped!

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