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Question Posted Friday July 30 2004, 6:20 pm

SORRY IT'S SO LONG, I JUST NEED TO EXPLAIN THE SITUATION
this is for a friend, i promise, not for me

well my friend is 16 years old, and she has DD breast size, she wants a reduction, and her parents full back her, but everwhere she goes, they say she has to be an adult

well lately she's been having back problems, and none of the medication is working, she really wants them reduced, she said that she cries herself to sleep a lot, and she's depressed because the guys only like her for her boobs, and not for her, and she's on medication for that, she had a boyfriend, but he ended up just bein a pervert, and wanting sex

I was wondering, is there anything she can do to make her boobs shrink just a lil bit¿?¿?
she actually wants C's but doesn't know how to get them


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Additional info, added Tuesday August 3 2004, 9:35 am:
ok u guys, i've talked to her, she's gunna see a doctor to se what she can do, thanks for all ur help :-).

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alisonmarie answered Monday August 9 2004, 12:59 pm:
First, a boy doesn't need big boobs to be a pervert. Perverts, like breasts, come in all shapes and sizes.

Secondly, I had a breast reduction. The reason your friend needs to wait until she is an adult is that her breasts are probably not fully developed.

I waited until I WAS fully developed, and my breasts have grown back. Breast reduction surgery is painful and leaves scars; emotionally, it can take a lot of adjusting to a new body.

I'd recommend her wearing minimizing bras - this will support them better (and help with back pain) as well as making her breasts appear smaller. Her best bet is to wait until her late teens/early twenties to have a reduction, and she should only do this once she talks to a few surgeons and women who have already had the operation.

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Jane answered Saturday July 31 2004, 6:34 pm:
*Tell her to try dieting and exercising it will make them reduce but not all the way to a C cup.*

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hellraiser answered Saturday July 31 2004, 4:07 pm:
well i'm a guy, and i luv boobs. but thats not the only thing i look for in a girl. um there are probably doctors who would do a surgery on her if it effects her health.

hope i to here from u again.

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jaded3198 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 2:29 am:
Try dieting, it will reduce them a little but not to a C. Don't go overboard dieting because you rick an eating disorder. She should work on her self esteem also. Realize that she is perfect the way she is. You could help her on that by telling her that any guy who thinks your not worth his time isn't worths yours.

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CheerMMS24 answered Friday July 30 2004, 9:19 pm:
Theres not really another way she can make them smaller other than breast reduction. Maybe she should keep going to the doctors with back problems, Usually they would do it even though shes not 18 yet. If her doctor won't do it, maybe she should try going to a different doctor at a different doctors office/hospital to make arrangements. I hope I helped!

Best wishes! :)

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BabiiBubbles answered Friday July 30 2004, 9:01 pm:
Well for right now, since she can't get a reduction, she can go on the atkins diet for a little while, this happened to one of my friends, she went on it for awhile and lost one cup size, so it might help her out a little. Make sure your friend stays off of her feet as much as possible, my cousin had this problem. All you can do otherwise is stand by her side and be there. she needs support now more than ever.

Hope I helped

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