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omg.. help
okay.. so i like this guy.. *joe.. and like.. weve kinda been doing "stuff" for a while, im not sure if he REALLY likes me or if hes just using me, ive asked him if hes using me and he said he isnt, but i dont know, tonight hes supposed to come over and i dont want to do anything with him if he doesnt like me and we cant have a relationship ya know? sorry if this is confusing but i really need help, btw i rate
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Well if i was in ur situation Id do wat u would like 2 do.. Not do anything probably for a week tho!! If he doesnt get mad hes probably not using u!! (I really hope hes not usin u! <3) If he does get mad dump him if you r goin out with him and if u rn't goin out wit him Id just stop talkin2 him!! or just be friends!! <3<3!!
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it sounds like he just wants to be friends with benefits which is something a lot of guys like to do. if you don't like the idea then u shouldn't do anything with him. especially since he might not feel the same way u do. in my opinion fwb's never work because someone always develops feelings. i did and i ended up kinda hurt so make sure his intentions r pure and if not then don't waste your time on him.
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If he doesn't like you, don't let him do this stuff to you. That's not fair to you.
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If you keep doing "stuff" with him, then you'll never know. Stop for a while, if he stays interested in you without asking do to stuff constantly, then thats obvious signs he likes you, but if its obvious hes usin you, lose the guy, you can get a lot better! :) good luck and i hope i helped
xoxo
megan
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so tell him you dont want to do anything with him unless you guys are in a relationship... if he can't respect that then kick the jerk out cuz he's just using you... end of story
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its normal to be worried about guys using you... but you should really confront him and let him know how you feel.. let him know if hes really using you that its not okay to you.. and if you belevie hes not.. just make sure you trust him before you fo really far in doing "stuff" hope i helped...
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