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What are some things i could whisper in my bf's ear while we're making out that will turn him on?
be very detailed in what you want him to do to you...and what you want to do to him... guys like details because they are very visual people... plus, you alone whispering in his ear is going to turn him on :)
Ok so,i like this guy, but i have no idea if he likes me. he is 1 year younger than me.
the problem is, I have hardly any contact with him. we have different classes, different after school activities... its hard to talk to him. in fact, I hardly HAVE!
to summarize it up, what should i do to know about this guy and if he likes me 2????
hmm...well is it a possibily to add him on facebook or myspace? or insant messaging? i always find that talking online first helps so much so you should look into that... and if he doesnt have any of those...thennn well is it a possibility for you to talk to the guy? definitely the first thing you need to do is talk to him more so you can find out more about him! and that sounds like it might be a little tough for you! so yeah try online stuff cuz i always find thats the best way to start off talking because then youll be more comfortable for when you guys do talk face to face... hmm well i dont really know what else you could possibly do! could u talk to one of his friends maybe? i dont know... but good luck!
theres this hott guy adam and he gradutated like two years ago from my high school and i liked him my freshman year i first saw him a football game i thought he was so amazing he just looked like a god well anywho he never noticed me at all!!!! he was popular and i was ok i guess i was kind of geeky my freshman year..... well my junior year i was on myspace and i decided to add hiim and he wrote to me first and then we started texing each other he just wanted to meet up and have sex you know those kind of guys.... so i was like okay baecause he hott!!! well i backed out because i was scared im not a virgin i have had sex so why wasi so scared well months passed when he kept asking me to hang out with him but he gave up on me then.....just yesterday i get a text from him saying whats up? i was like wtf!!!! i thought he moved on but then he started talking nasty like he didi before like you want me to give it to???? and of course i said yes...he hot!!! lol so yesterday night he asked me to go outside to makeout and i told him was impossible that my parents would go balstic!!!! so he was like okay then..... and he told me we are gonna hang out during spring break.... so what do i do should i meet up with him i need advice about this guy.....
playyyyer! yeah this guy is hott...and yeah, go ahead and make out with him but dont give him anything else unless you're sure you want to...you dont want to regret it because it doesnt seem like he wants anything else with you except to have sex...once you give him what he wants, he'll be over you and thats it... so just make sure that you are ready for that to happen... i mean, i think there is a reason why u didnt have sex with him the first time... that should be a sign... so go have your fun with him but dont do anything you are giong to regret because there are way better guys out there that will treat you great :)
Im almost 15 and a girl and I have a friend who is 3 and a half years older then me but still we are more than friends. Me and him have had sex for the past two years at least once a week share each others money, and see each other everyday. he was even living with me for a while. thing is he doesnt want to be more than friends and i do. He says its the age diffrence but the only person who could cause problems would be my mom and she wants together. His mom does too! Ive talked to him about this a while back and this was still his reason but this was about 6 months ago. Now i just dont know how to bring up with him. I have never cared about anyone like i care about him. Everyone says i should just give up and leave him alone but i cant even if we stay friends with the things going on in my life i couldnt make it without him. But im still getting hurt with the reletionship and know what to do. Advice?
the age difference is definitely okay... its not a big deal at all... so that would be weird that he thinks its such a big deal... are you sure he is 100% committed to you? like do u know for a fact that he doesnt or hasnt fooled around with other girls...because his issue could be that hes scared of the commitment... personally, you have a right to know... i mean, you love this guy and you just need to know whether you two have a future together or not...so just ask him... and if he says no then i really think you need to stop talking to him... because if you still keep him in your life youre never gonna get over him! and yeah its gonna be hard...heartbreak is never easy...and it may take days, months, even years before you are ready to move on but by cutting him out of your life its going to be the best healing process for you...and who knows...in your time apart he may come to realize that he needs you just as much as you need him... but i really hope you two do work out :)
My boyfriend and i decided not to tell anyone about us going out, and he goes to all of the other girls that he admits that he likes and blows them kisses and said stuff like hey sexy, i really like this guy, but is he worth keeping around??? I don't know so please help me.
dump him...if a guy is truly committed to you then he for surely wouldnt be looking at or liking other girls... he should only want you and no one should compare type thing...
but on the other hand, if you really are set on making this work...talk to him about it...tell him that you dont like it when he acts that way towards other girls...hes your boyfriend for crying out loud! i mean, how would he feel if you were into other guys??? so yeah talk to him about it and he should respect that and be willing to knock it off...
also, is it a mutual decision to keep ur relationship hush hush? because if its more his decision than yours, thats just wrong...like what does he have to be ashamed of? it just seems like he wants to keep your relationship hidden so he can still flirt with other girls... its all just a little sketchy to me and i think your guy needs to change and fast! you shouldnt have to watch your man flirt with other girls
okay. so im a freshman and theres this guy ive known my whole life. i know him but were not really that close. you know how when youre younger you always have crushes?? well i always had one on him. might not forever but for a while, then ill forget about him, then again. hes really good at sports and thats pretty much all he does. when he started school his parents held him back so he would be bigger and older than the other kids. well in the past couple of years i found out someone i go to school with knew him too. im a cheerleader so i saw him. and the girl who also knew him and i kindof had a competition over him i guess n he couldnt stand her but would talk to me all the time. well his parents and g-parents ask about me all of the time and my mom said that everytime he sees me he always stares at me and smiles. well i cant forget about him! everything reminds me of him, i dream of him, hes always there! well he has a g/f but its one of those things where its just middle school and the relationships arent that serious. heres the weird part- hell txt me and ill text him back and stuff. i dont like to hide my feelings or be untrue to myself so i just tell him how i feel but he doesnt stop talking to me. then ill text him, wondering how he is and he wont text back!! later on (few days, weeks, months) hell txt me n well start talking again! idk whats going on! his g/fs not that great (he deserves way better!). i think about him all the time. he always stares at me and smiles. and lately, ive questioned myself "do i love him?". even my mom said that i did but i acted like she didnt know what she was talking about. does he love me back? please help by telling me whats going on.. thanks you so much!
i always like to say... love is not a maybe thing, you know when you love someone :) so if you really love the guy, u shouldnt be questioning it... you'll know... and sure you may be in the process of figuring it out right now but sooner or later its gonna hit you and you're going to realize if you love him or if you dont...as far as him loving you, well no one can really say for sure except him...because only one person knows whether or not if they are in love and thats yourself... if its really bugging you maybe itd be best to talk to him about it...and by talking to him about it, it might also help you figure out whether or not ur really in love... i mean at least then you'll know and you wont have to waste all your time thinking about him and maybe you can move on or maybe things will work out the way you would like :) good luck tho
what are some great and really sexy ways to get my boyfriend to the point where he can barely contain himself and he wants to like rip off my clothes and get goin hahaha. thanks so much and i will rate!! :)
watch porn together... according to men's health magazine thats a great way to get them to want to get going :)
and im so sick of love songs so sudden sloww..
or something like that who sings it?
ne-yo
so sick
My friend lately has been having like differnet types of mads.One minute she is happy then the next minute she is like all mad and moody.And today she started yelling at me for no reason.Im getting sick and tired of it.I just feel like punching her in the face.HELP ME!!!What do i do?
just talk to her about it definitely... i mean maybe theres something going on in her life that is making her react this way... family problems? personal problems? ask her if shes okay and if she needs to talk and let her know that youre there for her...and if she doesnt like that or whatever then yeah just leave her be for awhile... sometimes people just need to be alone otherwise they take out their emotions on you and thats not right...so just keep your distance for awhile if she doesnt want to talk
good luck
Does anyone remember the america's next top model (i'm guessing its cycle 3, but i have no clue. tyra's hair was red,medium length, and volumous.hahha, if that helps)
(it was also on about a week ago)
where that girl Cassie was bulemic? And, she had those low-carb brownies; (someone wrote in them, clean your s$%#$^~it was a "big deal")
Does anyone have any idea where i can find pictures of her? i love her hair color. =P
well the cassie i believe you are talking about is Cassie Grisham... if you just type her in on google and go to images you should get some pictures of her otherwise im sure if you type in her name you can find some pics of her on websites as well :)
for a very long time nothing boy wise was going my way i would start talking to a boy then as soon as i started liking him something would happen and we would stop talking like that well last weekend i was hanging at my friends cousins house and we really clicked and we kissed so i thought that things were finally working out for me but he hasnt called. i honestly dont know what else to do. i feel like theres something wrong with me but i dont know what to think anymore. any comments/advice>!>
so im sure by now you've realized that guys are jerks and could really care less how badly they hurt us... i think you need to stop worrying them...just let whatever happens happen... i felt that way too for along time and whenever a guy was interested in me i would cling to them and do anything for them and then it would end or whatever...so i just took a break, stopped looking...and love found me... if a guy doesnt call you back or whatever dont look at it as your fault, but as his, i mean its his loss... and stop worrying about it...just go with the flow and stop hooking up with random guys even though they may make you believe they are interested in you, they probably just want to get some...the guy you know deserves is the one that will be okay with not kissing you the first time you hang out and he'll still call you the next day... you'll find him, he's out there... until then just be patient and dont rush into things just because you WANT a boyfriend
17/f
ok so my best friend who just so happens to be a guy do everything together. people call him for me and people call me for him..
anyways, one day he calls my house not quite being his self. he starts talking stupid and stuff so im tryin to figure out whats up. well eventually he starts cryin and sayin how much he loves me right.
i like any normal person was in complete shock and didnt know what to say. i told him to just call me when hes sober and we ll talk about it then...
thats the right thing to do right?
we were talking and i explained that i would much rather be friends because im moving away in june and idk how a long distance relationship will work with me being in college and all. he didnt like the sounds of that and he completely stopped talking to me. i was mortified.. my bff not talking to me for whatever reasons but i thought he would get over it. this happened right before christmas and he is now willing to be friends again which im happy with but its weird to say i think with not talking to him for this long has made me miss him on a whole different level..
i think im in love with my best friend and i have no idea how to tell him saying that i hurt him so badly a couple months ago.
im not expecting him to be like "omg ill do anything to be with you"
BUT IM STUCK!!
any suggestions on what to do??
well first of all, there is nothing wrong with a long distance relationship... distance makes the heart grow fonder is how the saying goes... distance can really make the love you two have stronger... i speak from experience as i am currently in a long distance relationship and he is my best friend and the love of my life...
you cant help how you feel so you really shouldnt let distance keep you from being with him because then you might always wonder what could have been... anyway... the only thing you can do is to tell him how you really feel... do it face to face...go to a place where you are both alone and comfortable and just be like you know, i know i probably still dont have a chance because i ruined it but i just want you to know that i think i love you... you just gotta tell him and get right to the point... chances are, since he loved you, those feelings are still there :) love just doesnt disappear even after heartbreak...explain to him that you never meant to hurt him and youre sorry and just tell him how you are really truly feeling and talk about it with him... its the best thing to do :)
best of luck!!!
Is it possible to be able to surf AND snowboard somewhere in northern California without having to travel a long distance to do either? Or anywhere else in the US I guess.
go south ... way better
im 14, emm so its my cousins 15's in a couple months and she wants me to sing this really pretty song there i just dont know which one any suggestions?
heaven by DJ Sammy...
SUCH a beautiful song!!! make sure you get the slow version (candlelight version) and not the techno version! so good
Whats going on with the newer season of The Hills. I know they're supposed to show the extra episodes of Lauren's trip to Paris, but did those episodes already come on tv? If not, when are they supposed to come on?
Does anyone know whats going on with Lauren and Brody? I read in a magazine that they're dating, but you never know.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6iaSGCTC18
that has the trailor for the new season starting march 24 and omg it looks soooo goooood ahhh i am so pumped!!! :)
So I'm 18/f.
I'm in a long-distance relationship right now, with an amazing guy. He's coming to town for a week on the 14th and I can't wait to see him.
But my mom is being a huge hassle. For one, she's making him stay at a hotel on the other side of town (which is 60 bucks a night.) Plus, she read his blog on his myspace and made him add her as a friend on facebook just so she can "know what this kid's all about". I find myself repeatedly apologizing to him because of her invasion of our relationship (she's always asking me what he meant by blah blah blah or teasing me about what I'll leave him for a comment, etc.) It's getting so annoying. I know she means well, but I feel like I'm under constant supervision.
She's insisting on driving me to the airport to pick him up when he flies in, and she even refuses to wait in the car when I go in to find him. All I want is to say hello to him without her supervision, since I haven't seen him in person since December. How can I convince her to just back off?? Help! I'm desperate.
wow... so you pretty much just wrote about my exact problem...and im the same age and gender too so i totally know how you feel...im also in a long distance relationship with an amazing guy that i really do think i love but my mother has a huuuuge problem with it and we constantly fight about it...its so frustrating because you just want her to be okay with it...
people tell me that my moms only being like this because she cares about me and they are totallly on her side...what if you came up with a compromise for your mom? she can come in with you to the airport but has to stay at a certain spot...even if its up high looking down at you...somewhere at a distance where she can still see you...and then you can introduce him to her and im sure things will be fine...
i cant really give you advice since im in the same boat as you but once this whole thing takes place you should let me know how it goes because maybe itll help me out when my guy comes to visit...i just wanna know how you handled it all and stuff if you dont mind so yeah you should totally write me about if you can :) thanks and good luck!!!
I know this may sound nasty and a wierd question . But in my underwear its like this white kind of thick gooy stuff , iv only noticed it to days in a row . Any idea what it is ?
oh and its like i can pull some off & it feels like a booger .
discharge= the stuff girls excrete from their vaginas. It cleanses the body including the vagina. Its left behind in a girls panties. Its usually whitish, yellow, clear. Very sticky and wet. May also be confused with female cum, but is not the same thing.
theres the definition for ya in case you were wondering exactly haha :)
okay depression runs in me family, and i just feel really sad and im never happy or smiling or laughing and nothing makes me happy anymore. it has gotten so bad that i now cut myself, and that is just not me. idk what any symptoms of depression is or anything but i just want to no if i have it. so if you could help in any way that'd be great! thanks in advance.
ive experienced the whole cutting thing myself and feeling the way you do... its a sad thing... sometimes i find it helpful to write about how i feel...and sometimes i find it easy to just tell one person everything im feeling, my problems...someone that i know really cares and someone that i can trust completely because it is a serious thing... i mean it doesnt solve the problem (even tho i did that i still cut) i think it does make you feel better...and its okay to just cry too... but if you dont feel comfortable doing any of those then you should talk to your parents about it and have them take you in (or you can take yourself in) and get some professional help... that way you can be put on medication...
if you want to tell me more about it you can inbox me, im here for ya! if not stay strong, though it may not seem like it everything will be okay again
ok im really good friends with my ex boyfriend that i went out with for a while but i broke up with him, then got back together with him and broke up with him about a month later. well that was about 3 months ago. now were really good friends and we talk all the time, but he still likes me a lot because he told me and says he loves me and stuff and when he first told me again about a month ago, i started to have feelings for him again, so i said i loved him back, which i totally regret now because i realized that i just want to be really good friends, but he thinks that we're like going out or something i dont know. i made it clear that i dont want to go out.
so now he thinks that i love him again, which i dont. so my question is how do i kind of get out of this so called relationship that i got myself into without hurting his feelings? because i care about him so much, but i cant do this anymore.
thanks.
thats a tough situation but i think pretty much the only thing you can do is tell the guy how you really feel...its not fair to him to keep your true feelings from him...and its not fair to yourself because obviously its making you unhappy... you just need to have a serious conversation with him and tell him that you care about him so much, but only as a friend, you can tell him that you still love him, but only as a friend and nothing more than that... you just need to be honest with him! and yeah he's gonna be upset but that is not your fault... you cant help how you feel... but if he really cares about you then he'll respect that and he'll have to settle with having you as a friend if he still wants you to be a part of his life...getting your heart broken isnt easy, especially when youre the one breaking a heart... but its better to tell him NOW then later ya know... anyway good luck
Ok so I think im having little problem with depression, being self-conciouss, and confidense over all. I need to know how to deal with this and get better. Im already doing the whole writing in a journal and diary therapy. Please help!
ive definitely had experience with this... sometimes it really helps to talk to someone that you can trust and that is just there to listen to you and help you get through it...it doesnt even have to be a friend or anything, just someone that you know you can trust... maybe a school counselor? you could even seek professional help as well...
ive just always found it easier to talk to one person about it and vent and i know they are there for me ya know...
journaling is a good idea too! you definitely cant keep your emotions all bottled up inside...that will just cause you to keep getting worse :(
maybe try to occupy your time with friends and family? i dont know if that is even option... i know when i felt depressed i didnt have the motivation to have a social life at all and i just kinda kept to myself...
anyway if you want to talk and tell me more about it you can inbox me :) im totally here for ya! otherwise stay strong and eventually things will be okay again! :)