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im beth. im 13. ive been through a lot. but i won't go into that. im here to help YOU.

much love.
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i have like a school dance thing coming up and like i need help learned how to grind. if someone can just help explain it to me ill rate u high anddd really aprreciate it. but please just dont tell me i stick my butt into their penis and move it all around. i need more help like where exactly to put my hands, how to move my butt in a motion and what to do with my feet. (link)
i think the hardest thing is the guys job. haha. he comes up behind you. i usually hold his hands. and just move my hips side to side to the beat.
its pretty simple, and fun (:

hope i could help.


Where can I find pics like this:

http://i130.photobucket.com/albums/p265/candikissesxo9/cutee.jpg

Xanga sites, myspaces sites, photobuckets, I dunno ANYTHING is good! (link)
just go to photobucket.com and search for whatever you want.
its that simple. (:


when you saying, "when the going gets tough, the tough get going" does that mean, when you stand up for yourself, the tough people back down or something? if so, if i were to say "when the going gets tough, the tough get rough" what would that mean? thanks a lot, my brains been killing me about this. (link)
"when the going gets tough the tough gets going" means that when something bad happens, you stick through it, and you become 'tough' enough to handle it. i think "when the going gets tough. the tough gets rough" practically means the same thing, just different wording (:

hope i helped.



What are the differences between the Sidekick iD and the Sidekick 3?? There's a $100 difference between the 2, so I'm wondering if there's a major reason for that..

Were any updates made to the new Sidekick iD? Also, which one would you reccomend??? (link)
the difference is that one is newer. and i say, even though its more expensive, get the newer one.
they made updates to it for a reason, right?

(:


i have three best friends and when we are together we make thousands of jokes and laugh so much our stomach hurts. sometimes we will make fun of eachother we make fun of my one friend jess all the time and she cracks up. when they make a joke ab me or my other friend tina we all start laughing cause we know we are all joking around. but when we make a joke about my friend mary she gets all pissed off and turns away and wont look or talk to us. and she does this all the time and of course we are joking! she makes jokes about me and i dont care but if i make a joke about her she gets sooo pissed. she can't keep doing this cause it isn't fair! what can i do so she will stop cause she always ruins it? (link)
talk to her about it.
tell her how you dont think its fair that she can make jokes about everyone else, but when you make them about her she gets mad at you. because it isnt.
if she knows its messing around when she makes the jokes, she knows its messing around when you do.
and if she doesn't want to talk to you guys, she doesn't have to.
you don't need anyone bringing you and your friends down. and keeping you from having a good time (:

hope i could help.


Okay, so I've been talking to my ex boyfriend's friend(who is a freshman and so am I), and we both have been getting to know each other alot. Plus two days ago, he told me he liked me, and I told him I liked him...Bad part is that he lives like an hour away and I don't know how we would see each other. Even thought he goes to the same school with my ex, and they are friends, but i'm not on good terms with my ex. But we really want to hang out, we just don't know how, and if our parents would even let us.

Then he told me that he just wanted to be friends and he said that a relationship wouldn't work out, so by that I got very sad...I mean wouldn't you be sad if a guy led you on like that, then dropped you?

But then he told me he didn't mean it like that, yeah right, and then he still wanted to try to have something with me because apparently he likes me "alot".
I don't know though, because after he told me it probably wouldn't work, I agreed with him, and now I don't know how I feel.

Plus there are two other guys that like me too. One of them goes to the same school I do(I don't really like him), and the other guy goes to a different school but he still lives close by, which I kind of have feelings for...Even though i'm a freshman and he's a jr. (in highschool)

So if anyone has any advice on what I should dooo...Please help.
Because I'm stuckkk. (link)
From experience ive noticed that long distance only works if both people are mature enough to handle. my ex-bf wasn't. so the relationship didn't work. it takes alot of trust. If you and him are ready for that, go for it.
but my advice is to focus on the guy that lives close by. you would see him more, even though he doesn't go to your school. its alot better than an hour away. right? and age shouldnt matter, even if he's a jr. my brothers gf is alsmot 3 years younger than him.

hope i could help (:


so you dont think that he is wanting to see more then one person. its just an adult way to say bf and gf? (link)
yes, i think that if you're 'dating' you are 'bf and gf'
i think its kinda messed up if he dates more than one person at the same time.
but of course, im not him. maybe you should ask him what HIS meaning of it is.
because many people have different opinions.
(:


what is the difference between dating and being boyfriend and girlfriend? (link)
i dont think theres very much difference.
except if you're younger, than you cant really date, so you just say youre 'boyfriend and girlfriend'.
but when you're dating, you are boyfriend and girlfriend.
dating is just more mature, for more mature people.

hope i could help (:


How can one become an advicenators moderator?

Is there a specific age or what are the conditions and stuff?

I'm just interested 'cause I'd love to be a moderator on this site one day.

Thanks in advance!

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http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=67
read the FAQS for questions like this.
before you ask them.


im 13/f. i just got back from the doc. i am 5'2 and weigh 90 pounds. i grew 5 inches and gained 14 pounds in a year. is that normal? cause i feel biiiiggg.



thanksssss :) (link)
defenitely normal.
i grew a foot in two years. so about the same as you. but for two years straight. its completely normal, because we're at the age where we hit growth spirt often.
also, if your doctor didn't say there was anything wrong with you, there isnt (;


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Like on "hey arnold"
Helga acts like she hates Arnold, even though she really loves him.
Theres this guy in which i have a long past with and a long story that i dont want to get into and his best friend told me thats his case.
That he wants me to think he hates me, just because of rumors spread about us.
He tells everyone that he doesnt like me at all, but he told his bestfriend he does like me and to ignore his act he puts on.
So should I really believe his friend?
Is that kind of situation even possible or is it just fairy tale material? (link)
i think its completely possible. (:


My boyfriend and I want to start a salt water aquarium, but we don't know what kind of fish we should get. Any ideas? or any ideas on what other pets are good for us? (we're both 17 and we don't live together, but we want to get a pet that's just ours) (link)
well, then its called google.


i don't think i am singing right! I keep getting really soar right in the middle of a song like i'm pushing too hard, but if i don't then you can barely hear me. I know breathe out of your diaphram and stuff and i'm working on that. but my voice is giving out. what am i doing wrong?
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i used to be in a singing program.
and one of the things my teacher taught me was that if you ever feel like you might be straining, put your chin down.
usually, when you sing impropperly you tilt your head back.
if you tilt it forward, it becomes sort-of impossible to do.
also make sure that you have good singing posture (shoulders back, standing up straight...)
so, if that doesnt work, i saw that someone else said water.
i suggest room temperature.
because anything cold on your vocal chords, is not a good idea (;

hope i could help :D


i understand that i need to stop but its hard...i have alot of friends but i dont know how they will react.....i know that if their my true friends they'll always be there no matter what but i get to this place where i feel like i need to do it myself cuz no one was there growing up (link)
try not to get to that place.
and if you dont feel like your friends will take it the right way, you can talk to me :]
i have no problem with that.
although i havent, ive had friends that were in the same position as you.
if you ever want to talk.
my aim-beth396190

:D


i've had a rough childhood and i never told anyone how i felt.i never wanted to be the girl who had problems.i was well known in school as the goofy kid who had alot of friends.but little did they know i was a cutter.raped by my father,and my mother was barely home.i started to cut at the age of eleven when they finally found out what had happened with my father.i only saw him once in my life and that was how he showed he cared.......now,im so alone.i dont trust anyone but myself.i dont know what to do anymore but i need someones help.......i cant keep it in anymore.please help me..... (link)
First of all, i want to start by saying that i'm truly sorry for the things that you've been put through.
but,
DONT CUT ANYMORE!
it doesnt make the situation any better than it is.
and the scars will be there forever.
:/
i think you should find someone that you can talk to.
that you can tell EVERYthing to.
you have to learn to trust someone.
One good listener can change your life :]
if you don't feel like there is anyone, im always here :]
send me something in my inbox.
and i'll give you my e-mail, or aim.

hope i could help :]]


i fucked like all the black guys in school and now they call me a "hoe" am i a hoe??? (link)
i dont like stereotypes.
but it does give you a bad rep. if you sleep with every black guy in your school.
it will give you alot of names.
it probably wasn't the best idea :/

sorry, hope i could help :]


This weekend at a church event, I accepted Christ. It was quite amazing, my leaders and friends helped so much, but now the weekends over and I'm not sure what to next. I talked to a few people who recommened baptism, but I don't feel like that is what I really should do, not yet anyways. I attend a church on occasion with my mom, but my family isn't religious, which makes me wanting to be a stronger Christian difficult. I havent told my parents about being saved yet, I'm unsure of their reactions.

So, what should I do now? How do I start to help my relationship with God grow? How do I explain to my parents whats going on? Is there anything I should know? (link)
hi :]
im only 13, but ive been a christian for a longggg time :]
dont feel forced to anything you dont want to.
but the process has come to where you are supposed to get baptised.
its not really anything, its just a ceremony.
its actually kinda fun i think :]
haha.
To start to help your relationship with God grow.
go to church everytime theres a service.
have quiet time with God everyday.
you can have this by listening to your favorite worship music.
or singing it, is what i do.
and reading you bible.
or maybe just praying.
have regular conversations with God.
it can be as short/long as you want it to be.
to tell your parents.
just come right out and say it.
say, "mom, dad. when i went to (the event) with church this weekend, I got saved. and im a christian now"
they should be understanding concidering you have a right to believe in whatever you want.
If they get mad, don't give them an attitude.
no matter how hard it is.
One of Gods comandments is to honor and obey your parents.
Also know that you can go to your youth pastor anytime for help or if you ever need prayer you can send me something in my inbox and i'll give you my e-mail address :]

hope i could help :]


i want that ringtone that adults cant hear but teens can. how can i get it? (link)
ehm.
didnt know that was possible?


Ok down there my thing smells, and its not like i dont shower i dont kno why it does but how do i stop it from smelling! (link)
ehm.
go to the store.
im sure they have something for it.
or ask your mom whats wrong.
:/


Ok..I'm torn between two girls..I like both of em, but I'm not sure which one to get over..One I met a couple of days ago and everything just sorta clicked between me and her. The other one I met last year and she is like my best friend...So which one should I get over and which one should I ask out... Thanks in advance. (link)
i say the one youve known longer.
because you know her better.
its bad to get into a relationship with someone you just met a couple of days before.
:]




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