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OKay, this is how my story goes.
I fell inlove with this guy who i aked out- he rejected me. Apparently he liked me, but not as in going out. I'm going out with someone I really dont have any feelings for & he's going out with a fit-blonde-gorgeous person. I'm jealous i can't get this guy off my mind.
I really really really really want to be with him. The thing is- I want to start out by getting close to him & then being more "flirtatious" h e l p = )
{school relation}
Well, at first dont let him know that you like him. Just be very friendly with him. Build a very strong Freindship. Then after the friendship is semi close, start to mix jokes with flirts, then talk to him alot about deep stiff, get him hooked on you on a mental level. But dont throw yourself at him. If you want the keys to his heart, than you must give him a reason to give it to you. Be patient, and know what you want.
Hope I helped.
I wanna redo my room and I'm planning on putting a shag carpet into my room. Whats a place you can get shag carpeting at, darkish hot pink to be specific? And whats a good average price?
I definitely reccommend IKEA. It has EVERYTHING, you could ever want to redo your room, and you might see something you like better. Def. go to IKEA
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Lets say a guy is a virgin. && you let him feel you up and kiss your chest and everything. Does he keep wanting it? because i am seeing this guy and he is a virgin and he got mad at me because he didnt get what he wanted, and it wasnt sex. But, hes def not like that. He told me that he wasnt himself and he couldnt help it. Is this normal? i always thought it was. Like i thought when it comes to sex and messing around that all guys are the same.
Anything that can help me?
Thanks
Well first off, congrats on having a boyfriend that seems like he likes you alot. You just have to set the boundaries, on waht you will allow, and wont allow. He is a boy, and boys have sudden urges, and they sometimes have weird mood swings too, so try ot bear with him, just make sure that you guys have an understanding on wahts what. It is nice that he apologized tho. And no, not all guys are exactly the same. Most or all of them have the same wants, whether they express them or not, but waht matters is how they express it and handle it. Have a ogood time, and please dont go to far
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Ok, a while back, i had one of my friends ask the boy i like if he knew who i was. We didnt really know eachother but i wanted to know if he knew who i was or not. He said yes. Then a couple weeks later a different friend of mine told him that i liked him and she asked him if he knew me. I dont why she asked him this again when i already knew but o well. Anyways, he said he didnt know me. The fist time he said he did know me and then when he found out that i liked him he said he didnt know me. Does that mean he dosent like me?
NO this does not mean that he doesnt like you, it might mean that he is a little uncomfortable with people randomly coming up to him, to deliver information on a person he doenst know personally. I say you should say hi to him yourself. From my experience, you should keep your friends out of it. If you want some information from the boy, ask him yourself, the key to that is: ask the right questions, and dont be obvious about it. When the boy was asked the first time, and he acknowledged that he knew who u were, then that is his answer. SO , keep his attention, and talk to him yourself. Most likely, if you focus, and stay smart, then you should have a love interest, or at least a very good friend soon
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hi. i had sex for the 1st time on the night of january 20th. it is january 22nd and i am still randomly bleeding. its not blood like period blood, its thinner and lighter in color.like a wound. i know the 1st time you have sex you bleed and it hurt a lot so i was expecting it. has it been too long though, for me to have been bleeding? my boyriend used a condom and he did not cum. he said that there was absolutely no sperm. We waited until the condom was on to do anything. however, i have read about conceptional bleeding and im worried. im so stressed and nervous that i may be pregnant. what should i be thinking right now?
ok, my personal opinion is that you are not pregnant. Because it was your first time, your cherry popped (your hymen), so it might bleed for a few days, even up to a week (anytime after that, see a anonymous nurse or doctor. Skin was torn, and so it will bleed. Dont worry about it.Just stop stressing, and wear a light pad. Its only been four days, you should be ok. IF you are still really nervous then get a pregnancy test. But honestly, i really dont think thats the case
Hope I helped
Good luck
I lost my virginity to one of my guy friends on jan.7th. We were fine and talked a couple times a week up till yesterday. He sent me a text message yesterday and was telling me how he liked one of our friends and wanted my input on what he should do. I obviously told him that i wouldnt tell him what i thought because i care alot about him and dont want to see them together.
He told me that i knew that i was just a one time thing and i need to get over it. i got really upset and started flipping out on him. He said i was just a booty call and i should of kept my legs closed and quit throwing myself on him.
(he is the one that Asked me out that night, hes the one that wanted to have sex with me)
Im really upset and i cant handle this anymore. Its the second time in three months that he has used me.
Im begging you guys to help me out here.
18/f
It seems to me that this guy is a jerk. ANd i know you care about him, so you need to really evaluate yourself on how much you can really take. BUt the fact that he was willing to admit that you were a 'booty call', means that he doesnt care about your feelings. PLease im begging you dont ever have sex with him again. My advice is to disown him completely or for w little while, because honestly if you dont, he will think that it is ok to take advantage of you just because he knows that you like him. SO distance yourself from him, and close ties (it doesnt have to be all). And since you still care about him, you can maybe say hi to him everyday, or everyweek. Just try to slowy take him out of your life. I hope you feel better.
Take care of yourself
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In school she is in none of my classes, I barley see her, and I can't get her aim s/n. When I can talk to her she is with a friend or a group and I cant talk in a group or anything like that. Can anyone help me on how to talk to her. Like what to say when I meet her one on one or in a group. And please just dont say you can talk about anything I hate when people put that
Well, first you should say hello, and/or give her a great compliment. One that would make her definitley be thinking about it, later. You can even pull her aside and tell her something sweet, like "I just wanted to let you know that you look really pretty today, and your smile really lit up my day". Say it really nicely, smile, and just walk away. It sounds corny, but i almost promise you if you say things liek that everyday for a week, then she will want to talk to you more, because you would have caught her attention. Then by that time, just walk by her and say hi, hopefully, she will want to say something more this time, and just hold a conversation, for a little while, and then the next time, ask for her AIM, or even be bold enough to ask her for her number, and when you can call. But you have to be confident and really sweet about it. DOnt make it seem as if your "spitting game". It should definitely work.I think you should really do it
Good luck
hey i was wondering
do guys like girls who are loud, or quiet?
Girls who are girly, or tomboyish?
Who wear clothes from abercrombie, or sporty stuff?
Girls who have blue, green or brown eyes?
and girls that have red, blond or brown hair?
oh and do guys think that freckles are cute? or ugly????
thanks in advance!!!!!!
I think that those answers are up to the girls harboring those features. Its the way you present them. If you are girly or tomboyish, then you should make it look great on you, make it seem like your the best example of waht their type would be. The clothes you wear, the color of your hair and eyes, I think it is all the way you flaunt it. And freckles, can be cute, soo it sometimes doesnt matter. And if you are any body else is insecure about the features that they have, then they should look their best, and no matter waht, make sure that your personality glows through your appearance. Your appearnace should just be the perfect earrings to a great personality of an outfit. Not vice versa.
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Alesia
I was wearing panties and sweatpants. My boyfriend was like fingering me but i had on my sweatpants. Is that still considered being fingered? I'm really not sure considering I was wearing pants.
Also I'm a bit sore right now. What's going on? (he did it about 10 minutes ago)
Well, It is not fingering because fingering isnt unless his fingers actually enter your vagina....BUT you probably feel sore, because that was added pressure, in a sexual way. It was probably the fact that he was touching you in an area that doesnt get touched like that often. Make sure he doesnt do it to hard, you dont want real physical pain....just the sexual pain...ifyou must have any pain at all.
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i like this guy an i think he feels the same way
we have been best friends for like ver an i have been there for him through alot of things
an well today his friend asked him "1-10 how much do you like her more then a friend"
he said"umm i'd say 8 1/2"
well does that mean he likes me or not?!?!?
COngratulations!!! this definitely means he's harboring feelings for you. I say that you should ask him, in a non obvious way...what did he mean by that, and prolly b4 you know it, you guys might be admitting secret feelings for each other. Just make sure it wouldnt ruin your best friend relationship
Okay...so this weekend my boyfriend nd his friends came over. My boyriend and his two friends had spent the night but his two frieds were terribly bored...so they made a deal that my boyfriend had to stay at carrie's house this weekend...i know this sounds conusing but my boyfriend in the past has been know as a "john tucker" ((aka a player)) and im scared hes going to cheat on me...this weekend at her house..what do I do?
Have a talk with him, tell him nonchalantly, your fears. The key to that is to have a talk with him.
I don't liek anyone in my school like for a boyfriend or anything and I don't feel anyway towards them. Like, I'll say a guy is hot if they look it, but I don't have feelins towards anyone and I'm pretty sure that no boy likes me either. I've never been asked out and I have no desire to ask anyone out. I want a boyfriend really bad because I like the companionship, but it's not happening for me. By the was, I'm only 14 and a freshman if that's gives you a better picture. Thanxxx. =)
DOnt worry, im not going to tell you that you are too young, or that your weird. Because your not. SO, I really hope you take my advice. What i understand is that you want a boyfreind for teh security and the companionship. It sounds like you need a guy best freind. They are best kind of companion. If they are your best friend you dont have to worry about the pressures of having a boyfriend, and their companionship is pricelss, and they stick up for you. I have one, and even though I am talkin to another guy. My best freind is one of the best things that happened to me, and no feelings like that are requried. So, one of your freinds, in teh absence of your likey feelings, work on building and strengthing your guy freind relationship.
I really hoped you helped
ive been wearing a ton of mascara lately. i dont feel pretty without it. but now ive noticed my eyelashes are thinner and WAY shorter. no matter how much mascara I wear it seems like they just fell out.
is this possible? how do I get my long pretty eyelashes back?!
Well it depends on what kind your wearing. Try covergirl, and the point of mascara is for you to have the look of longer thicker eyelashes...so only putabout 3 glides on there with nice brnd name mascara. ANd Im sure your beautiful with or without it.
Okay! I am a really nice person who likes to hug people and stuff.So there are these kids with disabilities who attend our school and I love to death because they're nice.I always hug them and stuff.well, i didn't expect for them to take it as a lead on for something more.Well, this boy named (let's say)Louie like me.I don't like him and it isn't because of his disability-I am not attracted to him at all!There are lots of boys I am not attracted too.Plus I don't want a relationship, I need to focus on school.However I don't want him to think I am denying him because of his disability.So what can I say to him that I don't like him in that way without making it seem like it's the disability?I need help!
ALrighty. Im glad that it is not because of his disability.Believe me I know what your going through, I am a hugging person too. SO, the key to this is frienship. Tell him that he is a very good freind, and that moving feelings up, might alter somethings in the freindship to a point of no return. And that he is too good of a freind to go farther. Remember friendship. Be nice, genuine, and sincere about it!
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hey i like this guy named ryan.I bacically talk to him every morning at school and we SEEM to agree to everything.Everything i say he bacically laughs at..and we SEEM to have alot in common.idk if he flirts with me. like ill be writing something, then he will like get a pen and scribble on it.But when hes around his friends, he flirts with this cheerleader,Nicole. But the next day at school(morning) he starts talking to me again. Does he like me?
age;14
gender;female
I think he is definitely interested. But you need to find out if he likes you only as a friend or more, and if he has any feelings for the cheerleader. Ask him in an unobvious way. I think that you have a very good chance. Be more assertive, hang with him mroe than inthe morning. TZhis might sound crazy, but invite him to the movies or mall with you. Believe me, that will be the best way to see how he reacts with you, and how good you guys' chemistry is. That waht i really think you should do.
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okay so i am 16 years old/female and i have only gotten my period once.. when i was 14. i think this is really wierd because like i have gone through every other part of puberty, like im done growing and my boobs are big and everything. when i did get my period it was a full 6 days and i dont know why i never got it again. it was late to begin with too since i have been the same height and stuff since i last got it. my parents say want to take me to get blood work done and im scared though. what could be the reason for not getting it? i've also never had sex and i also get a normal amount of discharge. help please!!!!
DOnt panic, however, you should see a doctor. OR if your uncomfortable with that, look up a random (good) doctor, and ask him/her a anonymous question, and see waht advice he gives you.
My grandpa died recently, and I am not sure how to deal with it. I feel like I have everything, grief, sadness, still inside me, but it wont come out. I think I have not come to terms with my feelings, just pushed them aside. What should I do?
I am sorry to hear that your Grandfather died. Maybe you should talk to someone, a friend, or adult, so you can say the positive things about him out loud. Hopefully that will help. feel better. And hopefully your a christian, so you can pray, or talk to your pastor.
ok so i have a lot of zits lately
and i barely EVER got them!!!
and i got this really ad one on my nose
and the type where its under the skin and its hurts REALLY bad
i dont wanna get pro active cause i dont want to have to spend that kind of money when it only works on some people
and i have this clean and clear fighting pimples all day stuff- that doesnt work
and i have this neutroguena rapid clear 8 hour thing and it doesnt work either
i dont know what to use!!!
but i want it to go away
anyone have good stuff that i can use??
that like you can buy at walgreens or jewel
something like that!!
not that you have to order and all the trouble =]
Use Oxyclean. Get the maximum Oxy daily cleansing padds....its a black tub of 90 pads. Also get the same brand facewash. It really works, just use the wach night and day, and if your face feels dirty during the day, use the pads. I had/have the same problem. It should work
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I am a 16 year old female with a 17 year old boyfriend. I drive, he doesn't. We live about 30 minutes from each other.
My boyfriend gets upset with me because I don't want to hang out every opportunity we have. It's very difficult for us to hang out. I can drive BUT my parents won't allow me to drive him anywhere or go to his house.
When he comes over to my house, my parents usually let him stay no later than 9:00 and my parents drive him home. I live about 45 minutes away from the movie theater (this is really the only teenage hangout spot around here). It really wears me out to go to the movies even for a few hours. I'm really one who doesn't like to hang out with friends. I'm tend to be a homebody.
We got into this big argument over how I never WANT to do anything. I will hang out with him even though I don't really want to because I get worn out easily. We see each other every day at school.
So, any ideas on what to tell him?
COme to a compromise, he needs to take in the fact that you guys see each other everyday, and realize that you need some "me" time. Then again, see his point, school is school....hanging out as an "extracurricular" is more appealing to guys. Have the talk. It should help. And be blunt and honest. make sure he is too.
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I have a boyfriend who has already had sex. I think i'm ready to have it and I love him very much.
I want to have sex with him.
But i'm afraid of what will come after,
or when people find out.
And it'll be my first time and I wont know what to do.
And I guess I'm just scared and need to know
what i should do before sex to make sure im protected enough and is it okay to have it if im ready?
Well its good that right now you know what you want, but on the other hand, your smart that you know that there can be real consequences. I think that if your taking these all in, and are kind of scared, then you might not be completely ready. You should talk to him. Have a discussion. But first ask him to think completley about you feelings when responding in this talk, tell him not to take in account that he might want to have sex with you. YOu should have the talk, because then your want may increase or decrease, by actually talking to him as if it were a reality.
And if you think your ready....I think you should have at least two condoms ready. Because once that moment escaltes to almost sex, saing no because you dont have any and neither does he, will be hard to stop. So stay protected, and know what you want. THis is a turning point in your life, choose carefully