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Q: I caught my friend grabbing his private parts. He was wearing sweat pants. We had just finished hugging. Do you think he was getting an erection?
No..he probably just had an itch.

Q: Does anyone know a free anger management therapy in clearwater, FL?
Why don't you search the internet..rather than asking a bunch of 13 year olds, and people that don't live there..

Q: I have had a cat for 6 years and my sister recently got a new puppy, which is 7 months old. My sister lives in an apartment right above me and is always bringing the puppy down to play with us. The puppy is very active and loves to play and is extremely nice. However, my cat just seems to hate her...my cat puffs up immediately and hisses and scratches the dog continuously and this happens everytime they see eachother. The dog does not fight back and tries to get into play-mode, yet my cat is actually trying to fight. Any suggestions?
Don't bring them together anymore.

Obviously the cat has a problem with the dog and its probably not going to change.

Cats show no mercy, my dog tried to play with my cat once and the cat scratched his eye, and now he is blind in it.

So stop before the dog gets hurt.

Q: i'm 13 years old and i'm only 4'11. i only have like 2 years left to grow (yes i've had my period already) and i really want to be at least 5'1 or something. if i have to spend the rest of my life being under 5 feet, i'll hate it a lot. i know to some people it may not seem like such a big deal but it kind of is to me. my parents are normal height so i don't know whats wrong?? so how can i get taller? like what should i eat? vitamins? thanks
Its not exactly a terrible thing to be short, but you still have lots of time to get taller..so i am sure you will reach over 5 ft.

But on the bright side...if you stay under 5 ft thats considered a disability and you can use handicapped parking. (my 18 year old, 4'10 friend told me that..lol)

Q: female

I get horny a lot. what can i do to stimulate myself?whenever I stick something up me, it doesn't feel good.
Try clitoral stimulation.

Q: i wanted to know if there are any side effects of depression pills like losing weight gaining weight drowsynesss any of that and also which different type of pills have what side effect?
It depends on the meds.

The type of medication you can get on depends on your age..and the side effects vary on all the medications.

You are going to want to talk to your doctor about it. They can tell you everything you need to know.

Q: okay so in one of my classes there is known as kinda of a geek but tall but just not cool so anyways if he likes a girl h es like obessed and its kinda scary and im starting to think he likes me ...like when i look up most of the time hes always staring at me giving me liek a creepy stare and i hate it and when i flirt with other guys he seems to get mad at stare me down...so first does he deff. like me and 2 how do i get him to stop w/o talking to him!

oh yess i rate high for good answers that wil help!=)
Creepy stare back at him.

Q: ok i got the top of my ear periced but it got infected so now it if like a big ball on top of my ear. how can i make it go away so no one in school tomorrow can see it plz help fast i rate 5s
You can't instantly make those go away. You need to do sea salt soaks for about 15 minutes twice a day, and make sure to keep it really clean.

I am pretty sure you can just get sea salt at the store, but you put a little in a cup of warm water, and just let your ear rest in the water..then after around 15 minutes pat dry it with a towel.

(I read all of the answers other people gave and none of them you should really use. You shouldnt pop it, or else it could possbily get worse, its not a medical emergency, the bumps are very common when you get your cartilage pierced, and also i don't suggest using rubbing alcohol on it.)

Q: Hey im only a freshman, but i am so determined to go to college..i missed a week of school to have suregy, but i got right back on the work, and have an A in science an A in band and were gonna get our "progress reports" for algebra today, im hoping its an A. If not ill have to raise it.
But october 14th (next firday) we get term report cards. I REALLY want a 4.0 because i would really like to go to a good university..but im wondering can your jr high school grades affect your college resume in any way? I always got like a 3.0..and i even failed algebra in 8th grade..im hoping thats not gonna bring me down. Please help me, i searched colleges online and i dont really see anyone that checks jr high gpa.
*will rate high*
No, junior high does not count towards college. The two most important years that you are going to want to focus most on are your junior and senior year of highschool. But maintaining a fairly high GPA all through highschool will def help you out.

Q: My friend was smoking joints in my car yesterday and now my car smells like weed. How can I get the smell out? Other than airfreshner
Drive around with all your windows down

Q: I feel weird asking a fashion question...oh well.
Okay, so my eyes are hazel (greenish brownish most of the time, except when I cry and they turn tealish), and I tend to wear brown eyeshadow because it goes with everything (neutral). Unfortunately, that kind of makes my eyes look brown, too, and they're not. I'd like to find a color eyeshadow to wear that'll make my eyes look greener, and alternately one that will make them look bluer - they do change colors, but the majority of the color depends on what I'm wearing.
Eyeshadow colors, eyeliner colors...I don't wear mascara, so that's out.
Any ideas? I'm open to trying everything. =)
Different shades of purple look great with hazel eyes, and i suggest that if you are wearing eyeshadow and eyeliner, you should use some mascara too. It makes the look complete.

Q: Is it wrong that I'm happy over the fact my ex-girlfriend just got cheated on by her most recent boyfriend?
No its not wrong at all. Especially if she was a bad person.

Q: My boobs hurt really bad when I wake up in the morning. But if I wear a bra to bed, they dont hurt as bad. I'm not big, only 38A/30B. Does anyone know why it hurts so much? Also, I dont really sleep on them. Thanks!
Boobs hurt when they are growing.

I don't suggest wearing a bra to bed though, because that could increase the chance of breast cancer.

Q: why do people in there teens who arent even married yet want to have sex, like when your older and you want to get married it wont come in handy to tell him/her that your not a virgin so my questions are

1) why do people in there teens have sex
2) why do GUYS like looking at porn
3) (no affence) but if your engaged or w/e wouldn't that just disguss the guy/girl that your not a virgin

so i dont get it
Answers:
1)Teens have sex because its something that society has approved as OK for everyone. It also has to do a lot with emotions and hormones. There is nothing wrong with having sex, as long as you are emotionally mature enough for it, you know the risks, and you are doing it with someone you trust and care about.
2)Guys look at porn because they are horny..dont be fooled..girls look at it too. Its nudity, and sex..people like it.
3)Why would not being a virgin disgust the person you are engaged to? If they love you they arent going to care if you have had sex or not. Its personal choice.

You seem like you are young, and chances are by the time you are older you will understand more.

Q: what are the signs of being pregnate i need this advice well give me all the signs you can think of and can you be pregnate if you are a virgin.
and can you still have your period.
please help
There is absolutely no way that you can be pregnant if you are a virgin.


Q: ok my boyfriend told me that alot of times when guys have sleepovers they dare each other to give each other blow jobs and so like he told me he gave two of his friends bj's and his friend gave him one. A while after he told me that i gave him one but we werent protected and now im freaking out cuz im scared i might have gotten one. but could some one blowing him give him an std, if they didnt have one? we are both virgins also.. so is it possible that i might or he might have one? AND... can a virgin having sex with another virgin give one virgin herpies or somthing?
You arent disturbed that your boyfriend is giving and recieving blow jobs from other boys? Id worry more about the fact that your boyfriend is sucking dick..rather than an STD.

Unless you have any weird sores around your mouth you have nothing to worry about.

Q: ok.. i kno having sex is a big thing anme virginity is something i could neva get back my boyfriends and i have been goin out 4 2 yrs and the subject about us haveing sex came up about 2 months ago and hes not a virgin and im not either but i told him i was(long storyand weve been goin stedy and i love him ... uis 13 to young to have sex and is there any way he could find out im not a virgin......
I think 13 is way to young to be having sex. At that age you just arent emotionally mature enough for it.

And yes..most guys can tell if a girl is not a virgin.

Q: mmkay so i have the biggest boobs in my grade and guy sare always looking at them instead of my face. adn it rele bothers me. is there anything that i could do to make them stop? i mean like my friend had a pool party and i had to stay in the water the entire time cuz guys wouldnt stop. it rele bothers me.i mena likke sum guys only like my boobs and not me.
Embrace your boob size and love it.

Be flattered that the boys like looking at them.

Q: Ok well I have a boyfriend but the thing is thatI like this one other dude too...Im not realli sure if this other dude likes me tho my friends say he does the case is dat this dude wants me to go sumplace with him and his friends and sum of my friends...I want to go b/c i just want to see if i actually have a a chance with him but im afraid i might end up cheatin on my boyfriend but i also dont want to break up with my boyfrind till im actually sure dat the other dude likes me...and wut i want
So pls help me im so confused right now
WHAT SHOULD I DO????
You aren't married to your boyfriend. Just go for it.

Q: Is there anything bad for you in Diet Sodas? I know they say regular sodas are bad for you because they have so much sugar, but since diet sodas have none, does that mean they're fine for you? Is it okay if you have one or more a day? Or is there other bad stuff for you in there?
Nope diet sodas will make you live forever. Drink 10..maybe more a day.

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