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Q: my boyfriend fingered me with two fingers last night and i have to admit, it hurt pretty bad.
he had a good position, and he didnt have sharp nails. it just felt like i was too tight, and his fingers were barely fitting. it was pretty uncomfortable. btw, i used no lube.
so why did it hurt? or is it supposed to feel like that?
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Well, I'm no doctor, but I'm pretty sure that the pain is because you were too tight. Have him try using one finger next time. If you're new at experimenting with fingering and whatnot, your vagina will be tighter. But the more he does it to you, the more you'll get used to it.
Please write back if you need more help!
Take care =]
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Q: my bf is not that great of a kisser. hes ok and good with his hands and stuff but when it comes to kissing not so much. he loves frenching but im less into it so sometimes we makeout instead cause i like that better but even not frenching we slobbers! every time we are done kissing i wipe my mouth and it doesnt bother me but it just makes me not want to because i dont find it fun like with other guys. i luckily have kissed guys who were very good at kissing before him so what should i do??? cause its not that fun having him slobber all over me when we are kissing lol thanx!! :]
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I've had something similar happen. Like when we were done, I'd just make little comments like "Oh geeze that was intense" and I'd wipe my mouth. If he went in to kiss you again, just say something like "oh, let's relax with the intensity." It's cheezy, but it hinted to him that I needed a change and he did change!
Good luck!
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Q: I have NO idea how to insert a tampon. I read the instructions so many times and have tried. But it hurts really bad I CANT insert it. I feel like I have a flab of skin inside my vagina blocking the entrance. cause ill spread my vagina and look in a mirror and it looks like its blocking it. maybe my body isnt tampon-usable. helppp.
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I'm no doctor, but if there is skin blocking your vagina, wouldn't it be impossible to bleed from it? This is tricky. Make sure you're inserting the tampon in the correct place. This is a good site: http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/tampon.html
It gives you graphics and it explains in detail how exactly to insert it.
Good luck & messege me back if you have problems!
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Q: well i have thin dirty blonde hair
and i dont realley know how to srunch my hair so
it dosent look greasey and go flat ....
help me pleasee =/
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http://www.wikihow.com/Scrunch-Hair
To avoid making it look flat, use volumizing hair spray. =] I have very long and thick hair, so it's harder to scrunch. I'd love to have thin hair!
Good luck and let me know how things work out!
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Q: Ok, here's the thing. At school I never be myself because honestly, I act really crazy at home and I'm afraid people are going to think I'm weird. What if they start judging me, or they don't like me? Should I just forget what they think and start being myself? And if I do, what if they start laughing at me?
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This website is actually PERFECT for this question: http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Yourself
It's really informative.
You need to be yourself! You need to live a comfortable life style. Who cares what they think. You should make yourself happy =]
Good Luck!
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Q: How come every time after i have sex i get dizzy or light headed and my body gets really tingly?
Would that be considered an orgasm or whats the deal?
It only happens when sex is long usually.
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I found this article while researching your question. I think this might help: http://www.webmd.com/content/article/48/39154
One of the people on here agrees with you that diziness may be a result of your orgasm: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080107050104AAWACj7
good luck!
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Q: okay does anyone know a SAFE website that i can post blogs.like a website just fro blogs.
nothign else
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I have an Xanga that I put all of my thoughts on. No one knows I have it, therefore, no one would look me up. I put fake info on it too.
goodluck&have fun!
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Q: okay, so you know that thin line of hairs on your stomach? i'm a girl, btw. and so my friend was like, "just shave it, that's what i did." so i did. and now my stomachs all hairy. like you can't notice unless you look really close or like rub all on it. haha. but yea, can i do anything to get rid of it or something?
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My friends use Nair. It works really well =]
goodluck!!
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Q: Hi, I'm 14/f,
My nails are an ugly shape, and they grow at different lengths and break how can I get it to grow quicker and get a nice shape to it? At the moment I hate looking at my hands because of my nails.
Thank you!!
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I used to feel the same way about my hands! Vitamin E makes your hair and nails from very strong. What I used to do when I was younger, I used to go to the drug store and buy those like .. fake acryllic nails that glue on. It prevents them from breaking and they'll grow the same lenth. Now that I'm older, I get my acryillcs done, so that they stay on for multiple weeks at a time. When they grow out, I get them taken off, I file and buff my nails and they look great!
Good luck and let me know how things work out for you!
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Q: what exactly is the 69??
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/69_(sex_position)
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Q: Sorry it's so long...Okay, I'm not sure if I'm over-reacting but my boyfriend (age 20) is literally in love with his mommy. The birthday card he gave to her read this....
Mom,
May this Birthday be a special day for you, just as special as you are to me. First of all I want to thank you for raising me by yourself and doing a great job at it. I know it seems as I get older I need you less but that isn't true. I am still learning things from you every day.
Even though I am not into all of that religious stuff, I beleive you are an Angel. You were put on this earth to help and guide others. I want to thank you for all you have done for me, and guiding me on to the right path of life.
Mom, you have done so much for me and I can't even begin to tell you how much I appreciate it.
You will always be the best MOM in the world!!!
The older you get the wiser you get and you will always be beautiful.
He is 20 years old and his mom still cooks his dinner, washes his clothes, and tells him how to live his life! Not to mention he just forgot our THREE YEAR anniversary...he also went on vacation w/ his mom during my sweet sixteen (I got no card or call for that matter). I'm at a loss. We have been "dating" for three years but we have NEVER been out on a date together!!! Yet, he takes his mom out for dinner all the time! He is always rubbing her back or massaging her head but for me, it's like pulling teeth to get a massage!! AND I'M HIS GIRLFRIEND!!!! I would greatly appreciate any advice, because I've been trying different approaches for three years and no luck yet!! THANKS!!
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His mom is probably his best friend. And I'm very sorry, but you are in a very tricky situation. If I were in your shoes, I would invite him over and watch Failure to Launch. Even at 15, when I watched that movie, I wanted to move out of my house and start my own life lol. Maybe it will inspire him. Or, if I were you, I would just say to him exactly what you said on here. You need to let him know that it bothers you. Since you've been together for 3 years, then you should be pretty comfortable talking to him.
Good luck and let me know how things work out!
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Q: Can tube dresses be worn in any occassion or JUST for swimming to hide your bathing suit? And how do they stay on and guarantee that they won't slip off like say for a flat chested girl?
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Tube dresses are cute! They can be worn in the summer or even, if they are nice enough, to a school dance. There really is no guarantee that it wont fall off someone flatchested. If I were flat chested and if I really wanted to wear a tube dress, I would find one with a really secure stretch band at the top to avoid any unwanted exposure.
Or if you wanted to, get a piece of fabric or something and sew it in the middle of the top of the dress and turn it into a halter.
Good luck!!
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Q: 16/f
Alright well one of my good friends theres this girl that shes have a confrontation and there putting me in the middle and like i want to say some thing to the other girl but my friend wont let me because if i get in trouble one more time i get kicked out of school. well the girl is saying to everyone that my friend is prago but shes not and i just dont know what to do i want to talk to the crap talker but i cant cuase then she will go and tell the head honcho so please help...
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You just need to back out. If someone asks if she is pregnant, just simply say No. I understand that you want to stick up for your friend, but you need to look out for yourself. You're still in highschool, these rumors are going to seem sooo stupid come after highschool.
Actually, I feel like I can give you more personal advice.
I'm currently a Junior in highschool. During my sophomore year, there was a rumor going around that I had sex with my current boyfriend and that I could be pregnant. Everytime someone asked, I simply replied: Well, whoever told you that is wrong. I am not pregnant. It wsa the truth! And it was there choice to believe it or not. As long as my friends and I knew the real truth, no one else mattered!
Good luck and please let me know how things work out!
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Q: yeah well i'm a girl nd i get really horny sometimes but now its much worst i dont know what to do to give my self plesure more plesure i finger myself and thats it and i dont want to be a hoe and go out and have sex you know?? any advice?
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I understand how you feel. I, personally, do not like masterbating. I don't do it. Currently, I have a boy who is my age, and he and I hook up on occassion. We don't have sex, but we make out and do other things along that line.
You should find someone, like a best guy friend who feels the same way. Just take out your sexually frustrations on each other.
He and I don't talk to other people about it because it's just an outlet for us to let go and do what we want. The more people who know, the more people will judge and talk about you.
Good luck and I hope all goes well!
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Q: i get wet really fast is there a way i can help that or no??? its embarrissing.....
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It's just part of being a woman. Each woman varies. I understand that it is embarassing. But trust me, you and your partner either now or in the future will appreciate it when you begin having sex. You should just wear pantyliners for a little bit to help.
Good luck!
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Q: OK this may not make sense to all of you, and if so, I'm sorry :P
Well the thing is..I feel more comfortable hanging around with guys than girls. I have an equal amount of guy and girl friends and I'm NOT a tomboy.
An ordinary girl.
But I donno, it's like with guys I'm more relaxed and more outgoing.
But then again, at the same time I have quite low self esteem.
Is there anything wrong with me? The way I feel more relaxed around guys, why is that?
Also what could I do to improve my self esteem?
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You are completely normal!
I actually grew up that way. Actually, I had more friends that were guys than I girls.
A low self esteem? While researching your question, I came across this website. This site has some really good ideas!
http://www.self-confidence.co.uk/self/esteem/boost.html
Good luck!
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Q: At my school im a nerd but i wear abercrombie and cool stuff but i dont know how to wear it i have only had one boyfriend but people think im ugly i think i just don't know how to wear clothes. what goes with what??
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I sense something wrong with your way of thinking. Abercrombie does not make you cool. Abercrombie makes the same shirt in 39274034 colors. They are rediculous and they are over priced.
"What goes with what" is such a broad question that I'm not entirely sure how to answer it. If I were you, I'd look through some fashion magazines and see what you like. I don't think I'm the right person to be asking about matching lol. I dress how I want. In my opinion, the most important part of fashion is the accesories! My favorite outfit that I own is a black target polo some skinny jeans and a bright red accesories like headband, bracelets, necklace, belt, shoes, and purse.
"Fashionable people" are those people who feel comfortable in what they wear. So what if it is different! If you feel comfortable in bright bold colors, by all means DO IT!
The more comfortable you are, the more confident you are, the more you will come off as friendly to others, the more friends you'll have =]
If you need more help, leave another messege.
Good luck and let me know how things go!
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Q: how can i learn to dance before my highschool formals dance coming up and not feel stupid or look stupiidd??i just need some tips on what to do.
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Learning to dance is a lot easier said than done. The MAIN thing about dancing is to find a rythym. Just grabbing their hands and move them to the beat. It sounds stupid, but it'll work. If you prefer grinding, just put your back against his chest and when he puts his hands on your hips/waist, hold his hands. Just like .. rock back and forth as you'd normally do but make sure that his hips stay in sync with yours.
Good luck though and let me know how things go!
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Q: well a dance is coming up at my school and im going and i want my bf to come too and he said he would but he doesnt like to dance and i was like well would u dance? and he was like well idk. and i said but thats the point! and he said well i dont know how to dance. and now he wants me to teach him i guess but how the heck do i do that??? please help! :]
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Learning to dance is a lot easier said than done. The MAIN thing about dancing is to find a rythym. Help your boyfriend out by just grabbing his hands and moving them to the beat. It sounds stupid, but it'll work. If you prefer grinding, just put your back against his chest and when he puts his hands on your hips/waist, hold his hands. Just like .. rock back and forth as you'd normally do but make sure that his hips stay in sync with yours.
I'm sorry that I couldn't be of more help!
Good luck though and let me know how things go!
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Q: Ok, so my boyfriend has a show (he raps) at a club this friday. I've been with him for 2 years and havent seen him perform yet, so i kinda want to. But, the problem is..is that i am nottt a club person. I cannot dance and if I tried I'd look so stupid infront of my boyfriend and everyone else. So I thought about standing off to the side and just watch him. How stupid would I look? I'd feel weird having everyone else around me dancing and then me just standing there. So what do you think, go there and stand or dont go at all? I just cannnottt dance.
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If I were you, I'd take a girlfriend with you, just so you wont look like a loner. Explain to her that you don't want to dance but you feel awkward just standing there.
But really, dancing isn't that big of a deal. Just get some sort of rythym down and just go with it! It doesn't matter what you look like as long as you are having fun =]
Good luck & Let me know how things go!
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Member Since: November 27, 2004 Answers: 667 Last Update: October 1, 2012 Visitors: 44400
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