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Location: New Zealand
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Age: 18
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julie75
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so i have been dating this guy almost four months. and i found out about the time we started dating that i can never have children. i feel like im keeping this big secret from him but also we are still early in our relationship. but then again i dont want him to find out later and think i have been lying to him this whole time and being dishonest. im one of those people who are very big on honesty. i hate liars. and thats why this is so heavy on my heart. i just don't know what to do. this guy is great. he is the best guy i have ever gone out with. he's sweet romantic. amazing. help please? (link)
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oh hunny. ~HUG~ . tell him sweetheart. He needs to know. also tell him that your scared that u dont want the relationship to change. Good luck. my prayers are with you. :)
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can i have sex
? i am nine years old.
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im sorry darling you are far to young. you would do more damage to your body. it will be better if you wait till your older. :)
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I just got my period yesterday and i am really nervous and embaressed to tell my mom. Any ideas of how i can tell my mom? please help... (link)
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When i first got my period i was the same. I wrote a letter to my mum saying that i had gottn my period and needed pads and tampons i also said sorry for not asking her straight up as i was scared and embarrassed. leave it in a place were she will find it and no one else will. Good luck sweetie :)
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my boyfriend asked me "babe , can i have some porn pics of you? :\ "
do you think i should do it? and what exactly do i take a photo of?
im 13 by the way (link)
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i wouldn't because you both are still so young and once those photos have left you and been sent somewhere else you lose control over the privacy of them. Ba careful darling :)
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I haven't seen my girlfriend in a month because of personal stuff that I've told her about but we still talk on the phone but she saids she misses me and I miss her heaps and we haven't kissed yet and I'm thinking of kissing her in the moving at school I'm a 13/male but she already said for some un none reason that she wants me to kiss her we've been going out for like 6 weeks so I really want to kiss her but I've never kissed a girl and she's never kissed a boy so could you please tell me how to kiss I'm inexperienced and I'm in an Aussie school so please all help u give me I'm so thankful for (link)
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go u auzzie!!. im a kiwi by the way. just a small peck then go 4 more make sure she wants it. just relax and dont over think it. you will be fine. Best of luck :)
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Well me and this guy plan to have sexx in the summer time and i trust him and all and he even says he loves me more than anything but we are both virgins i was just wondering is it good or bad to to have your first time with a virgin?
Because many of my friends tld me its a bad idea.
So can you help me out? (link)
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You will both be fine. when my boyfriend and i both had sex for the first time together it was fine. we both knew what we wanted to achieve and it was achieved. Don't worry as u both need to be relaxed. don't over think the situation just go with the flow. oh and use protection! Have fun and good luck :)
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What are some signs that girls give when they want to makeout (link)
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ohk from a females point of view. It's in our eyes and body language. We will get close and laugh and smile at anything you say and we will look at your lips and deep into your eyes. hope this helps :)
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IM 13 and my boyyfriends 13 aswel. He wants to show me how much he loves me and he said he would never presurre me.
He has had sex before.
Im sure im ready. im just scared that its going to hurt. (link)
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Darling it will hurt, but it a pain that i cant describe.
Be careful in you decision 13 is very young and for your boyfriend to have already experienced it is a little scary in my eyes. but do what right for you. best of luck. :)
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im having a baby but i dont know if i should get an abortion. someone please help me (link)
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It depends how old you are and how u are heading with your life. Don't wait to long to decide on the abortion as it growing every day. Make sure u have a support group around you it will help in the long run with your decision. Good luck. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your decision. :)
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so I said yes to go to prom with this guy. he isn't the best looking but he's really nice so i couldn't say no. he's just one of those guys that i can't picture dancing with though :/ what do i do? (link)
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Dance with him. Personality is the key thing you look for in a guy. Looks are just a bonus. But i'm sure he is handsome in his own way. Have fun at prom. :)
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