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im so confused... ok sorry if this is long... i like this kid in my class and hes so cute and it seems like he likes me cuz hes always bothering me and i know thats like soo first grade but i still think he likes me and hes all i think about and dream about and i always stare at him in class hes soo cute and i want him soo bad, hes like the class clown and hes kinda popular i guess you can say cuz hes soo funny. and he hangs out with popular people. i want soo badly to be with him i dont know what to do, i feel like im setting my self up for a big fall and i dont know if he likes me but sometimes it seems like he does! and i really want him to. how can i find out if he likes me? what are some signs? i really need help this is driving me crazy!

i rate 5s to anyone who responds!

Girl,he may like you, he may not. I think he does. I'm in a very similar situation. Trust me, girls always want the boy that erybody else wants. They always want what others say she can't have. But if you overcome what you say about yourself, and about your chances with him, then you will end up with him. Stay strong and git that boy!!!!!!$$$BABIID$$$

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ok welll i have this friend and she lives like in a totally different state from me. the reason i know her is because she and her family come to visit thier relatives which are our neighbors alot. well see shes got this brother.. (who shall remain nameless) but he is sooo hot! and hes just awesome all together. hes such a good person and he makes me laugh like all the time. but see sense he lives so far away its hard for me cuz like when hes not here i do fine and when he comes back i never want him to leave then when he does i get like all depressed. see cuz when they are here i hang around wit his sister alot and so basically im around him alot. i think he might know i like him but im not sure, well like i lil while ago his sister told me he has a new girlfriend. and when she told me this like everything inside me just like shut down.. i just cant stand the thought of him hangin all over some girl. What am i goin to do?

Girl, I think you should try to forget about it and focus on your schoolwork, friendships, or boys that accually go to your school. Long distance relationships don't ever really work (trust and believe). Look, the truth hurts, but unless hes moving back here, I don't see you getting with him anytime soon.Try to think about other boys, cuz theres other fish in the sea.
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**Just want to thank everyone who responds to this. I know it's a long post and if you give me great advice, i WILL rate you HIGH**

There's this boy that I've known about 3 years. We used to not get along AT ALL but when I started taking the bus again, he started talking to me more and more and now whenever my friend gets off, he comes and sits across from me and talks to me. He also suggested we see a movie together but I don't know if he means JUST AS FRiENDS. People say he likes me but I'm not sure. I know I like him because my heart is always racing when I think of him and I dream about him and I know I have a crush but I'm unsure about the signals he's saying. Does the movies ALWAYS signal a date? Also, I can never really talk to him about "us" because there are all these other kids listening. =(

-Crushin'

Girl, I think you should get his phone # and talk to him more personally. Movies do usually mean that he's interested...maybe he is!!!So go git him girl... don't be ashamed of the people on the bus...they have no life and they want to listen in on your conversation because they're so bored.
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So how do you talk to a girl when you're in ninth grade, have no classes with her and see her once a day surrounded by her friends? I really don't know much about her, but she seems like an interesting person. Anything is better than nothing.

You can ask someone for her phone # and call her. or you can take her out of her group of girls---- because girls like that. when a guy has the bravery to do that, that increases her chances of saying yes to you for a date cuz girls like brave and tough guys.....not wimps.
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I always study for test really hard. But all the time when I get the test back I made an F. I just get nervios and mess up. How can I get over it? I dont want to study all the time like I do and all I get is an F. It will really help me if yall tell me how to get over the freakking out on the test.THanks


I rate high (4&5)

Just calm down and when you study, think about what you are learning, not what you are trying to cram into you brain!!!!Sometimes you should stay afterschool or take alot of notes in class and read them before bed. Thats what I do. P.S. sometimes its iight to let your brain have some rest for a day or so.
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around the end of summer I started doing my backhandspring on the ground by myself but i was too scared to do it on the gym floor at my school btw i don't take gymnastics my mom says its too much money or something anyways i havent even attempted to do a backhandspring for about 5 months but im really really really scared..does anyone know how to get the fear of tumbling out of my head because almost everyone on my squad has a round-off backhandspring thnx! I rate

Girl, you should always have someone to spot you because you can really get hurt....bad. Just try not to focus on the risks of getting hurt, but think about how good you'll feel when you accomplish it!!!!
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okay so im goin out with this guy and we've been goin out for like... umm idk a few weeks and like when we're together we always have funa nd hes really sweet and nice to mebut when we get to school then hes really mean like he treats me like S**T and i dont understand i mean i guess i knoe hes just teasing or sumthing or tryin to look cool in front of his friends well i dont like it and i wana tell him that but i dunno wut ta say? please help soon

Girl,you should tell him how you feel, and if he dosn't straighten up quick, then dump him, because nobody deserves to be treated like a princess one minute, and then treated like shit the next minute.
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hey! i really want to get highlights in my hair. but i dont know what colors to get. can anyone help me? i have dark brown hair, fair skin, and hazel eyes. thanx!

I think you should go with a strawberry blond color, or something like that because blond really brings out fair skin tones and looks nice with brunette hair.
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i have been trying to do crunches for about 3 weeks and my stomach didnt really get any smaller. does any one know how many crunches to do in a day or does any one know what other techniques that will work to get a flatter stomach

Well, I run and then I do crunches until i feel the burn, and then keep doing them. Are you on any sports team? Since I joined track, my body has been toned down; along with my stomach.....
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how do u shrink a shirt...please help!

You wash it in hot water and then put it in the dryer for a long time and then it will shrink.
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my 2 best friends, lets call them mary && cindy.... mary and cindy are having like a sleepover tonight, and we just finished finals so its like a celebration. but all 3 of us are best friends and i`m like the 1 being left out and i`m rele kina pissed... i know we dont have to do EVERYTHING together, but i can`t help myself.. i`m pissed. is it rong to be mad??? Ox

Girl, it's ok to be mad because i would be mad too. The friends I used to have always left me out so i decided to make truer friends and i left the old ones out. and we hav'nt talked in like a year and a half---yea I regret it sometimes, but these people were madd grimy to me
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i no this is stupid but, what the heck is a condom?

It's a latex sleeve you put on a guy's dick when your about to have sex to help prevent the girl from getting pregnant.
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this guy who likes me (Kyle) and i like him well we haven't gotten into a relationship just yet! but there is a rumor that me and another guy (Mark) are going out! and when i see Kyle looking at me when i'm flirting with Mark! and that gets him upset. what do i do? and what if mark does ask me out?! what do i tell kyle?

Girl, I think you should try to stop flirting with mark if you really like kyle better, because kyle is probably getting mixed signals about if you like him or not.
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I have a friend that i have none for a bout 2years and I think i am developing feelings for him however he is with a good friend of mine wut the hell should i do!!-

GIRL, I think that if you want to stay his friend, then you should'nt go out with him----boyfriends are lying, cheating, triffiling, dogs.(most of the time) If he becomes your boy, then he might get the hint that its ok to treat you wrong,and mostly all relationships come to end sometime, and then you've lost a friend AND got your heart broken.
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i'm a freshman in high school. so is my friend, kendra. she's dating a senior at our school. they have been dating since the day after christmas.. i talk to kendra almost day, and all she talks about is her boyfriend. my friends and i can't take her talking about him all the time - like them having sex, and all this other worthless crap. we want to talk to her, but we don't know what to say.. ya mind helpin?

Tell that girl that she's getting anoying and if she dosn't shut her mouth, then girl, get rude on her a$$ and tell her that you do not want to hear abouther sex life!!!!!
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i've been hanging out with the druggies and gangstas at my school. my best friend which is none of those got mad at me because shes going to think im going to do drugs or change my style. i was always hanging out with the gangstas though so shes mostly worried about the druggies. she makes fun of some of my friends and i act like i dont like them but i really do. i dont want her worring about me and who i hang out with but its sorta hard. i've always been the one getting in trouble or bending the rules but shes never really seen that side of me because i act like a totally diff. person around her. what should i tell her so she can stop telling me who to hang out with? and make her stop talking about my friends???

thanx

Ok......first of all....Have you ever had a gangsta boy???? mmmmmmmmmmmmm....thats all I gotta say bout that. Yo I hang out wit tha gangstas in my school....shit...I AM one of them. I can't help it, the boys be lookin good, the girls be hatin', and almost every other social group is threatened by you (like the preps).I think you should tell your friend who you really are and she could join you, respect you, or drop that girl like its hot. You don't need no one to tell u what to do.
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What is the #1 thing a man can do to make himself more attractive?

What is generally the least attractive thing about a man?

mmmmmmm.... well the hottest thing a man can do is change his look-I like men that look so fresh so clean but you gotta have a clean attitude too.
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The worst thing a man can do is be ignorant and They cannot have my heart if they dont respect my art. So find out what a girl is into, (like maybe music), and respect her style. I don't know aout ya, but i know about us, it is all about style!!!!!
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In the aftermath of the tsunami, the eternal theological question is again posed: what sort of God permits the slaughter of blameless humanity on such a scale?

On the abundant available evidence does it not seem that, if there is or was a God, it is now malevolent, mad or dead?

No, religious nutters please - this is a serious question I'm posing.

Dr Kesha

I don't really know what I believe in. God can be testing us, or maybe God dosn't even exist. I've been doubtful lately, myself. I'm Christian, but since the tsunami, I have no idea what to think--------I'm even starting to believe in evolution and the Big Bang Theory because scientists have proof. So, was God really made up by people for comfort, so that there was SOMETHING to believre in, something to pray for? Or does he really posess all these so-called powers? Nobody knows, but I'm destined to find out. I know I just sinned and compromised my Christianity by doubting Him, but thats iight.
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How do you give someone a hickey? How come it really is that color? Also.. What do you do when a guy is giving you a hickey.. is it normal if a girl were to give a guy a hickey?

You just suck on tha skin, and yes girls can give them to guys. When a guy is giving you a hicky just be all cute and maybe giggle.
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what's the best way to get word out about a club? even if it is a slightly academic one? it's a lot like debate, but it's still different.

please and thanks.

Make flyers and give them out and tape them to walls and maybe you can get your principal to announce it on the morning announcements.
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