18/f (in high school still,graduating in June)
I'm being charged with Lar-2337-m1.
I want to be a social worker & will be pursuing a college in the fall etc...
is it possible for me to still go to school & be as social worker if I have this charge ?
(I never plan on having another charge again as long as I can help it...)
I'm not to familiar with criminal law, however, I would advise visiting the State Licence Board for your state and find out what the requirements are. They will normally tell you what will also disqualify you, such as a felony or other criminal offences.
Some states with also exsponge your misdemeanor after a period of time but you will need to look into your state laws for more information on this.
I hope this is helpful and wish you the best of luck.
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Before I explain the story, I just want to note: WE DID NOT STEAL A THING.
My friend and I were at Walmart today in the make-up section and I noticed a man who was looking at us in the aisle next to ours. Clearly this was odd because most middle-aged men don't wear makeup... so as my friend and I are walking I notice this guy run and hide behind these two board game boxes and peeking through them to watch us, then he peeked his head out and made eye-contact with me. Then we turned a corner and AGAIN he's looking at us through the fitness section. Clearly he thought we were shoplifting.
I DID NOT have any intention on taking anything, nor did I attempt to. My friend however, put lipstick in her bag. The second I saw this man following us, I informed my friend to remove anything she may have put in her bag, she did, and we continued walking. As we were walking to go pay for my item, I saw him again follow us to the registers. [Nothing was stolen!]
As we were walking out, the man was standing at the exit with a woman, and watched us walk out. He didn't say a word to us or ask to check our bags, as we got in my car and proceeded to back out and drive off, I saw him in my rear-view mirror at the entrance to the store with a walky-talky in his hand.
BASICALLY, I have NO idea if this man took my plate #, I didn't do ANYTHING, and my friend put everything she had planned on taking back. They hadn't asked to search our bags, so I have no idea why he'd have followed us outside and he was clearly looking at my car cause he was at the end of the aisle my car was in.
Any idea what this man was doing? He had no right to take my plate # if that's what he did, I didn't do anything nor did he catch us doing anything or with anything on our person.
I'm pretty positive he was an employee, I've heard employees have to actually see you place items in your bag before they pull you over, so I'm assuming that's why he stalked us.
Anytime someone grabs an item on the shelf and conceals it somewhere on their person,stuff's it in a box, price switches, ect and dous not pay for the item, it is considered shoplifting. In some states, the shoplifter could actually be apprehended upon concealment and not have to pass through the exits first. Meaning, in those states, just the sole fact that she concealed it before paying for it would be considered shoplifting. The fact that he did not apprehend you or your friend suggests that he either saw her dump the merchandise or he was not sure she still had it. I don't believe he took down your plate number, but what he wanted to do is make sure that you and your friend knew that you were being watched and to scare into believeing that he called the police. Which dous happen sometimes and a person still could be charged even if they leave the property.
Either way, your friend is a shoplifter and if you go into a different store in a state where the shoplifting laws are different, then if she get's caught shoplifting, they could get enough evidence against you to charge you as an acessory.
If your in one of the states where shoplifting is considered upon concealment and not the last point of sale, your friend could be apprehended on the sale's floor right then and there and will be charged for shoplifting.
If you don't want to run in this situation again,I would suggest to tell your friend to stop or don't go shopping with her. If she is stealing from wal-mart she may be steal from you to.
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i just cant take any more of this life... i have lost my wife,i.e she left me. it kills me ever time i see her when i pick up my kids.. nd when i have to take them back to her.....i love her nd my kids so much but i know its just going to kill me that day she meets someone...i know it will hurt them but in time they will be ok
The first thing I want to give you is the number to the National Suicide Hotline, which is
1-800-SUICIDE 1-800-273-TALK
1-800-784-2433 1-800-273-8255
Here is also a web-site with more listings
http://suicidehotlines.com/.
I know that you are in a lot of pain right now. I can't promise that your wife won't eventually move on and find another husband, but I can tell you that your children will never be able to have another father. Your the only one they have and if something happend to you, they won't get over it. In their hearts you are not replaceable and their love for you will always be with you.There is nothing more greater than the love of a child and there is no greater blessing than our children. They are the reason you wrote today and they are the reason that you will move forward from this and heal. And at this very moment, that is ALL that matter's. Your strong and you will make it through this and your children will help you do this, as well as all the love and energy sent from all the people reading your post right now. Your not alone and you have a wonderful future ahead. One day this storm will pass and you will see it, but until then, take it day by day and get the help you need and your children deserve. They need their daddy, they need you.
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f/17 Well recently ive noticed that its painful for me to have sex. not excruciating, but enough to bother me well when my boyfriend puts it in..(TMI Sorry) it only hurts when we get started after we get going i feel no pain whatso ever. Ive been tested for stds once before, and only have had two partners since then and i know it wouldnt be from my boyfriend now but i noticed that its only like on the inner/outer part of my vagina if that makes since, I also feel little bumps but i think thats just normal im not sure though and i dont think its herpes because that comes and goes and this has been going on for a few weeks now. could it be an std? I have absolutely no other symptoms but i know they dont always show symptoms? or could it be something diffrent? or could it just be i need lubrication because im kind of dry when i start to have sex and it causes me to hurt at first?
There could be multiple reasons why you are having problems,such as hormones, but it is important to make an appointment with your OB-GYN asap.Only through an examination and tests will they be able to tell what is wrong and give you the treatment that you need. I wish you the best of luck.
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My parents would not care, and i would be smart about how i did it. No boys around, with close friends that i trust, and no driving!
But so many people know that i am a christian and that is bad way to be an example, not that id tell people. I would feel like i couldnt tell anyone and by hidin g it i would be fake. But in the same sense i wnt to have fun nd stop bieng the good girl always.
There is nothing wrong with drinking so long as you do it responsibly (which includes being the legal age of 21) and in moderation. If you want a glass of wine, then enjoy a glass of wine with dinner or enjoy a beer during the football game. Even Jesus drank wine from time to time.
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im 18/f and he's 19/m
I really like this guy and we have been talking every night for the last month, and met up for the first time.
The other day we got into a huge fight over the silliest thing, and since then things haven't been the same...this isn't our first fight either, but i didn't think he would be able to forgive me for a second time. But he called me the night after completely drunk wanting to sort everything out....he told me that he even cut himself over what i did and i cant believe i hurt the one person i like more then anything so badly :(
anyways we decided to put it behind us, and i realised it might take time for things to go back to the way they were...but now i'm doubting they ever will...he doesn't text me at all anymore, and i miss waking up to a text from him :( anyways the other night things got a bit heated between us...We ended up sending each other 'naughty' photos and we sexted (pretty much texting saying really naughty things etc etc) for the first time ever. he wanted those sorts of photos before we had the fight...but i didn't think or realise that he liked me like that but he did... However he was drunk when we sexted/took photos and i asked him alot of times if he was sure he wanted to do this with me...that he wouldnt regret it when he was sober. so anyways we did it...then he never texted me the next day and thats when i started getting worried, because he promised he would text me. He just told me that he was to busy with his band stuff..
Then last night i get texts from him...but again he was drunk...and he was saying adorable things to me. and he still hasnt texted me like he usually does today either.. and now i feel like he only likes me when he's drunk. i just want things to go back to the way they were :( ive asked my friends and they've all said that 'a drunk mans words are a sober mans thoughts'.
i just dont know what to do, its driving me crazy him not talking to me as much as he used to before the fight...
help :(
Honey, if you go back and read your post, you already have all the answers you need. The man is young, he's playing in a band and drinks way to much. His priorities are on him right now and you are at the bottom of his list. He calls or texts you when he is drunk and has nothing better to do.
If you continue down this path with this guy the only thing you will end up with is a broken heart.
You deserve better and you KNOW you deserve better and this is what will give you the stregnth to kick this guy to the curb and find the guy that not only you deserve but deserves you.
So what do you do? You send him the lyrics "Call Me When Your Sober" by Evanescence and then you go out and find yourself a real man.
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ive been with my boyfriend for half a year and i am completely comfortable w him and i could defiinitely see myself losing it to him. the only problem is that i know hes goin to college and if i do it w him then hes just gona leave forever you kno. he wants to still see me in college but i feel like those things never work out. i know if i lose it, realistically, im not gonna necessarily get married to the person i lose my virginity to (and im ok with that), but i want it to be with someone who truly cares about me and i truly care about. so what do you think.. should i do it even if i know things for our future dont look good for the sake of losing it to someone i have strong feelings for&am comfortable with?
My advice is to wait until you are sure you are ready. You don't want to loose your virginity just for the sake of loosing it. There is alot of responsibility that comes with sex, especially emotional and if you are with a man that dous not share the same love and respect for you as you do for him, you may walk away feeling used and hurt.
Another reason why you want to make sure you have someone who loves and respects you is because the first time hurts physically. If he cares and respects you, he will be more patient,gentle and mindful of your needs, which will only deepen the love and respect for one another.
Once you loose your virginity, you will never get it back.
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its been a long process, i've went through a questioning period before but now i'm pretty certain. i just don't know how to tell my friends that are girls. or my boyfriend, whom i love with all my heart. i've been having sexual fantasies about my friends and i don't want them to think that i'm coming onto them or something. one of my ex friends did this, told me she was bi and then immediately asked me to go out with her. it scarred me and completely ruined the friendship. i've known these girls for years and don't want to fuck it up.
is there any way i can get rid of these urges, or at least tell them without scaring them off?
Because of your confusion and uncertainty, I would suggest not telling your friends until you know for sure. There could be several reasons that you feel an attraction to the same sex that may have nothing to do with sexuality at all, such as feeling closer to females, maybe feeling safer around them, ect.
When it comes to your relationship, if you have a close relationship with your boyfriend you may want to talk to him about it and look into the possibility of an open relationship so you can experience a relationship with a woman. If he is not the open type and you and want to stay in the relationship, you may want to simply keep the fantasies to yourself and put that extra energy into your relationship.
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My husband sent this song to his friend who is a woman I was mad if you received this from someone what would you think? he is 36 I am 31 and she is late 20s early 30's
Sweet disposition
Never too soon
Oh reckless abandon,
Like no one's watching you
A moment, a love
A dream, a laugh
A kiss, a cry
Our rights, our wrongs
A moment, a love
A dream, a laugh
A moment, a love
A dream, a laugh
Just stay there
Cause I'll be comin' over
While our bloods still young
It's so young, it runs
Won't stop til it's over
Won't stop to surrender
Songs of desperation
I played them for you
A moment, a love
A dream, a laugh
A kiss, a cry
our rights, our wrongs
A moment, a love
A dream, a laugh
A moment, a love
A dream, a laugh
A relationship should be built around respect, trust and open communication. When there is a break-down in any of these areas there will be problems. Evaluate your own feelings about the situation and ask yourself why you are feeling this way. Has he been unfaithful in the past? Is he being secretive? If you normally have a good relationship then it is time for you to sit down with him and tell him why you are feeling the way you do and to let him know that it is causing a drift in your marriage. Be open and non-judgemental and allow him to express his feelings without confrontation. Once the communication is back, you will be able to work on finding a resolution to the issue while stregnthening your relationship.
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There is this kid in two of my classes. I haven't thought of him as a boyfriend until everyone started saying we'd look cute together. We talk everyday. I sit next to my best friend in a class and he sits across the room, yet he still manages to find a way into our conversations and she says he looks over at us a lot. I said that he could possibly like her but i've realized, in the class we're in together without my friend, he sits behind this beautiful girl that has a boyfriend, but this boy that I think likes me always asks me for my papers and what we missed when he's been out for a day. When I walk into school in the morning, I feel like he looks at me as I walk to my locker to put my jacket in there. He never seems nervous when we talk, so I guess that is a good thing. He's so cute, he's nice to talk to, I can get along really well with him. The one day after class was over and we had a few minutes before the bell was over, he walked over to my desk to talk, the conversation died down so he went to go talk to a guy and then he walked back, the conversation died down again, he walked away and then he came back again. Do you think he likes me? I'd like him to make the first move, I would never be able to tell him I like him unless I know he likes me. So, what do you think?
Thanks!
Honey, he's already made his first move by trying to talk to you and is testing the waters to see if your feelings for him are the same. The ball is in your court and it's your turn to take this to the next step. This is a good opportunity to meet him somewhere public after school, like at the mall or starbucks or something so you can study together. This will give you the opportunity to break the ice without things feeling so awkward and the freedom to be yourselves without having to worry about what your friends will say. Take this time to talk to him and get to know what things he is interested in and over time, if there is a good connection, the relationship will begin to evolve on it's own.
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I am 15 and he is 18. I met him last summer and he was kind, nice, shy and sweet. After a while, he became my boyfriend, but he lives in America and I live in Greece. He always says that he loves me and that he'll marry me and that no girl is like me, but he has had 4 other girlfriends while we were together, other girls post dirty stuff on his fb wall, he's told me twice that I am embarassing him in front of his friends, and whenever I just have some tears on my eyes and tell him that I'm kind of bothered, he just laughs sarcastically and tells me that he cannot take any girl drama. I love him, but he's not the same person anymore. I can't really say no to him cuz if he leaves me i'll be alone and I just hurt. I'm not a slut, i'm a rebel, i deserve some respect! But I can't even talk to him, he always shouts :'( What should I do? I'm afraid I will leave him eventually...but I'm not ready to be alone again. He recently told me that he doesn't need me, that I just "add to his happiness". What should I do? :'(
Honey, your investing your heart into a relationship that isn't worth saving. When a guy starts treating you like this he is basically telling you that he is ready to move on and so should you.
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