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im stuck in a situation and i have no idea what to do or think..
im 18/f and he's 19/m
I really like this guy and we have been talking every night for the last month, and met up for the first time.
The other day we got into a huge fight over the silliest thing, and since then things haven't been the same...this isn't our first fight either, but i didn't think he would be able to forgive me for a second time. But he called me the night after completely drunk wanting to sort everything out....he told me that he even cut himself over what i did and i cant believe i hurt the one person i like more then anything so badly :(
anyways we decided to put it behind us, and i realised it might take time for things to go back to the way they were...but now i'm doubting they ever will...he doesn't text me at all anymore, and i miss waking up to a text from him :( anyways the other night things got a bit heated between us...We ended up sending each other 'naughty' photos and we sexted (pretty much texting saying really naughty things etc etc) for the first time ever. he wanted those sorts of photos before we had the fight...but i didn't think or realise that he liked me like that but he did... However he was drunk when we sexted/took photos and i asked him alot of times if he was sure he wanted to do this with me...that he wouldnt regret it when he was sober. so anyways we did it...then he never texted me the next day and thats when i started getting worried, because he promised he would text me. He just told me that he was to busy with his band stuff..
Then last night i get texts from him...but again he was drunk...and he was saying adorable things to me. and he still hasnt texted me like he usually does today either.. and now i feel like he only likes me when he's drunk. i just want things to go back to the way they were :( ive asked my friends and they've all said that 'a drunk mans words are a sober mans thoughts'.
i just dont know what to do, its driving me crazy him not talking to me as much as he used to before the fight...
help :(
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Honey, if you go back and read your post, you already have all the answers you need. The man is young, he's playing in a band and drinks way to much. His priorities are on him right now and you are at the bottom of his list. He calls or texts you when he is drunk and has nothing better to do.
If you continue down this path with this guy the only thing you will end up with is a broken heart.
You deserve better and you KNOW you deserve better and this is what will give you the stregnth to kick this guy to the curb and find the guy that not only you deserve but deserves you.
So what do you do? You send him the lyrics "Call Me When Your Sober" by Evanescence and then you go out and find yourself a real man.
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