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if you recieved this email what would you think?


Question Posted Sunday February 20 2011, 12:12 am

My husband sent this song to his friend who is a woman I was mad if you received this from someone what would you think? he is 36 I am 31 and she is late 20s early 30's

Sweet disposition

Never too soon
Oh reckless abandon,
Like no one's watching you
A moment, a love
A dream, a laugh
A kiss, a cry
Our rights, our wrongs
A moment, a love
A dream, a laugh
A moment, a love
A dream, a laugh
Just stay there
Cause I'll be comin' over
While our bloods still young
It's so young, it runs
Won't stop til it's over
Won't stop to surrender
Songs of desperation
I played them for you
A moment, a love
A dream, a laugh
A kiss, a cry
our rights, our wrongs
A moment, a love
A dream, a laugh
A moment, a love
A dream, a laugh


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Additional info, added Sunday February 20 2011, 12:57 pm:
I did ask him about it. He said she is just a friend and he likes the song. I told him that it was inappropriate I am overreacting. He also at the end of the email said I miss you. He works 4000 miles away from home for 6weeks at a time he works with this woman I told him I was not ok with this friendship and he doesnt see anything wrong with it.She has an open relationship with her boyfriend she knows he is married and has kids. He did this when he was drinking he calls he when I am not around when he is drinking. We have been together 10 years. Thanks .

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AskAngel answered Sunday February 20 2011, 10:04 pm:
A relationship should be built around respect, trust and open communication. When there is a break-down in any of these areas there will be problems. Evaluate your own feelings about the situation and ask yourself why you are feeling this way. Has he been unfaithful in the past? Is he being secretive? If you normally have a good relationship then it is time for you to sit down with him and tell him why you are feeling the way you do and to let him know that it is causing a drift in your marriage. Be open and non-judgemental and allow him to express his feelings without confrontation. Once the communication is back, you will be able to work on finding a resolution to the issue while stregnthening your relationship.

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GingerSpice answered Sunday February 20 2011, 12:25 pm:
Hey hun

You should definitley confront him about this. If this was MY husband, he wouldnt've gotten away with it.

BUT talk to him! As we all know in a marriage communication is so very important. And PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN! He needs to know what he can & can't do. And not to degrade men in any sort of way, but its like training a puppy. They need to know how to treat you, how to do things to your liking, and to know what they CAN OR CANNOT GET AWAY WITH!
As his wife, you have the right to know what's going on in any situation. So I advise you to talk to him. This is clearly innapropriate material to be sending to his lady friend. He should have known that it was too. If you need help with any further problems with this please feel free to ask.

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Jodie11 answered Sunday February 20 2011, 5:55 am:
hi,

wow that is a little deep for just a friend. Ask him about it, did he do that in front of you cos that is out of order, if he doesn't answer ask the other woman say your married to him. She might not know that he is married.

if nothing changes then it might be best to be on your own

hope this helps

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