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Right now in my life, I cant trust anyone and it feels as if there are so many conspiracies going on behind my back. Like everyone in the world is against me and its just sooo frustrating. I just dont know what to do. Can anyone help?
I think everyone goes through that at one point or the other. What makes you feel that way? Has a friend betrayed you? Has someone you trusted let you down? Figure out why you feel that way, so you can fix this problem. Honestly, in my opinion, I've stopped trusting anyone except myself. A lot of people have let me down lately. But what can you do? Sit around and wait for things to be better? No. You go out, have fun, do the things you like. Put yourself first. Keep your mind occupied and just don't think that way. *goodluck*
I was talking to the guy i like, and I thought that he liked me, so i started asking him who he liked and i was going to tell him that i liked him if he liked me, but he didnt like me ( i thought he might have been lieing because he thought i didnt like him) so i just made up a person, and said i liked 2 people. He guessed that i liked him but i was like NOOO! cause it would be embarrasing (plus hes my bestfreinds ex). Should i have told him the truth?
(sory this was so confusing)
I think you should've told him the truth! I know it's hard, but if you really like him and want him. You should try to make him know. What if he did like you but when you told him you didn't like him, he changes his mind about liking you?? You never know until you two talk! *goodluck*
How the heck am i supposed to get credit if I don't have any??? In this world we live in, you can't get credit unless you already have some. I have been turned down every time I have applied, and I don't know what to do! ANY SUGGESTIONS please
JLH
Whoa, I really don't know about that, But I thought that since someone doesn't have any credit than that could be good credit...You could try asking your school. Go to student services, I'm sure they could help you out. *goodluck*
I'm 16 years old and I seriously need a job. I worked at Target over the summer and retail is...just definitley not my thing. Are there any jobs you can suggest where I can make money, but don't involve retail? Also, what are some good ways to make LOTS of money?
You could try to work at a fast food place. They're always hiring. They'll give you enough hours because they never have enough people working, so you can take a lot of shifts (my work is like that :( )but honestly, there's not many places you could work at and get a LOT of money because your only 16. Best thing to do stay in school!!! That will lead you to goooood money. *goodluck*
My boyfriend keeps asking me 2 give him a hand job. I tell him maybe later, or make up another excuse. But the truth is I've never given one. My question is how do I give a hand job? And how would I know if he's enjoying it?
First of all, are you sure your ready to do this? Or do you just want to do it because you don't want to disappoint him? Second, you have to be honest, if you want to do it, tell him that it's your first time. He'll understand. Third, I know it's going to be kind of nervous trying something new. Keep in mind that guys will love it no matter what! Their horny creatures...Anyways, Start by making out and stuff, let him get real hard...Then when he's ready and your ready....Just stroke it (hold it firmly), moving up and down...I swear it's not that hard...*goodluck*
I went out with this guy last summer, but he lives in NJ, we still talk about when he was here and how we had so much fun together and he is comming down this summer also, and i told him that i dont think i could hang out with him but i really want to and he was like Why not? and i said because i might end up liking you again, and that he might not like me back and he was like well i wont have a g/f when i get down there and we ARE going to hang out. Does this mean that he will go back out with me again or not? does this mean any thing?
Yeah, this means something! He likes you! That's why he wants to hang out with you. You guys had a lot of fun last summer and he obviously liked it or else he wouldn't want to do it again! *goodluck*
Well hey i've never been scared to get a piercing cause i have pretty many.. but i dont know really anybody who has a tongue piercing and i wanna know does it hurt..how long does it hurt.. if you live in cincinnati wheres a good place to get it done..and i would like to know about how much it will cost..i rate high..and thanks bunches if you can help..~*DEZ*~
I don't have a tongue peircing but I know a lot of people that do. They say getting it done, doesn't hurt (bellyring hurts more!) that much and some of them say it doesn't hurt at all. *goodluck*
Over the weekend me and my friend got in a fight with a permanet marker, she accidently got some on my light pair of jeans and it won't come out. I washed them and put SHOUT stain remover on them twice but it still won't come out. Do any of you have any suggestions? My jeans are really light, so I dont wanna to ruin there color or anything, and if I bleach them, then I'll lose the color in that spot. Please help.
I think it'll eventually come off sooner or later, just by washing them like a thousand times but that can ruin the colour and make them look faded. You can try talking them to the dry cleaners, it's not that expensive. *goodluck*
I've known my boyfriend for a little over a month, and I was just wondering, do you think it's possible to be in love in that short amount of time? Or do you think that it really takes more to be in love?
Honestly, Love is amazing and weird. It can happen slow or fast. Myabe your in love or maybe not, but only you can actually answer that yourself.
recently i had a cast on my leg because i broke a bone in my ankle. now i have a splint on my ankle and i look like a retard. I know people at school will make fun of me. What should i say back to them?
If people are going to make fun of you because you hurt your leg, screw them! Be mature, just ignore people that have nothing better to do with their time than to make fun of that. Or you can come up with jokes about your leg, so everyone including you would laugh.
okay there is this guy i like at school we'll call him erik so anyways erik and i have gotten to be closer friends and i mean we hug and we'll put our arms around each other and walk down the halls like that till we see a teacher or get to close to the office, im not suer if he is flirting or not i think he is but still not sure ya no? if it helps he calls me home grl and things like that and he smells AMAZING! what ever colone he wears smells really good on him! so i still dont know what to do cuz he doesnt have aim so i couldnt talk to him like that plz help!
Talk to him! You want to know how he feels about you right? If your too shy, get one of your friends to talk to him and find out! From what I know, looks like he likes you. *goodluck*
An hour ago I burnt my hand with hot water and it feels really hot and hurts how can I fix it>?
Keep it your hand under very cold water.
My BFF is acting, well, different. she has turned into the punk/rock type. I don't want to control her or anything, but idk. Do you understand?? I was so used to her personality, and know she's so different. We don't sit with each other at lunch anymore. When I talk to her she goes on and on about how much i mean to her. i just miss her. Please help
Well, if your friendship is working out that's very good! You two must be doing something right to keep your relationship. Your friend is changing and your going to have to get used to it. I know change might suck sometimes, but people (especially in their teens) are always changing because their trying to find out who they are right now.
so there is this guy i have went out with 3 times and now we are best friends. i have not liked him for a really long time, but we were at a party the other night and he was all over me! i am pretty sure he doesn't like me, but i like him! what do i do??
Find out! Be brave, go up to him and tell him exactly how you feel. You two need to talk about your feelings for eachother.
is it safe to have sex with my wife when she is pregnant?
Of course it is, so when she goes into labour, it'll actually be easier for her to give birth because her opening will be streched.
Well, My friend and i are both 13 years old and girls. I asked my best friend if she would like to experiment again and she didn't mind. I was wondering could there be a possibility that she likes me or just likes what we did together because when i asked her she said it was no problem, but she also added we shouldn't do it too often , (Nothing "below the belt"). If it is normal does anyone out there know anything else we can experiment with each other above the belt and below. I'm also wondering is it common for me as a African American girl to be experimenting with my Polish American bff? I rate high. Holla back!!
Yeah, it's normal to experiment together. Like, french kiss so you too would know how to kiss later on, but experimenting anything below is just too weird for both girls to be doing, but maybe you like it? Maybe you like girls instead of guys.
Ok see there is this kid in one of my classes that I like and I know he like me because he is always flirting with!! And I want to ask him out but he is 2 of my friends Ex
Only if your friends are over him and fine with it. Then go ahead ask him out!
I'm a 15/f and I haven't been interested in dating until recently this year. I'm starting to want to have a boyfriend really badly. Do you think the fact that I am so inexperienced in the "physical" side of love (ive kissed three people but I've never made out or gone beyond that) that no guys will date me. This is the only thing holding me back from dating. Also any tips on easy ways to say no to getting physical soon or telling guys that I've never made out that wont make me seem like to much of a loser?? Thanks!
Trust me on this. Guy's don't like girls that have been around. They think their cheap and easy...Just by telling any guy that your "inexperienced" it's okay. They'll respect you more! So, start dating, go out, have fun!
ok i have been going out with a girl for quite a while now. we love each other both very much and we know what "love" is...but we have been thinking...about sex. we have already did a couple of things with each other already but other than that we are both still virgins but we are thinking about sex and we are going to go ahead and try it soon possibly even tomorrow or within this week...is this moving too fast...since we know each other and talked it through? and what should i do about this since its our both first time having sex? (we are using protection by the way) thanks for listening
First of all, I kno you two love eachother, but loving eachother doesn't mean you have to have sex, true? Well, unless your 100% ready and sure and she's 100% ready and sure, then go ahead with it! Honestly I can't tell you how you should have sex, but your just get the hang of it once you do it! Just try not to be too hard the first time, because it's going to be painful for her (for every girl's first time)!! So good luck!
my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year. i have no idea wat to get him for the holidays. i dont have too much money but im definatly not going to give him anything cheap. i love him a lot and want to get him something special. thanks!
You should get him one of those silver braclets with his name on it! I don't think their that expensive, around 40 dollars?? *good luck*