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Last Update: August 10, 2004
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hey im 12 and like 5'2 or 5'3.. :not sure: and im 107.. bvut i think i lost a lil weight.. wuts the normal weight for this hieght?
xox CraZyBBie (link)
the normAL WIEGHT IS PROBably AROUND 85 SO YOU are definetly not smALL I am 13 AND IM 5'7 and 124 i AM BIG BUT a lil skinny


Alright. I'm fourteen-years-old and I'm a Freshman, this year, in High School; just to give you an idea of where I am, as far as maturing goes.

No one has ever really spoken to me about health and growing. And I suppose I'll end up learning about this in Sex Ed. but I figured I would get advice, now, anyways.

This afternoon, I started noticing a soreness on the sides and tops of my breasts. I'm not entirely sure what this soreness means or whether or not it's a good thing so that's where I need help.

Is it normal to have sore breasts? Do you get 'growing pains' as you mature, on your chest?

Thank you, in advance, for your help. (link)
it most likely is growing pAINS


OK*
I just met this guy about 2 days ago and we have been talkin together and hangin out with each other alot. I lyk him and I know alot about him. But, he asked me out today and I told him I would think about it. Should I try and get to know him better... or should I say yes?

Thanks,
.:*MagIclyDeLish88*:. (link)
well A Way to get to know him better is hANG OUT WITH HIM MORE SO Say yesAND SEE Wat hAPPENS

SINCERELY asklANE


How can i get a job baby sitting? i already am sertified by the red cross im 12 and i love kids and i need money!! (link)
put flyers up AROUND YOUR NIEGHBORHOOD STating thAT YOU are A SERTIFIED Baby sitter AND YOU LOVE KIDS also put your phone number

sincerely ASKLane


ok i just dyed my hair dark brown and it looks almost black and i was wondering of some cute wys to do my makeup so it doesnt look bad it is a rly big change and i dont kno what to do!! (link)
jst mess it up it wAS PROBably time for A CHange ANYWay

sincerely ASKLane


i am a swimmer, i want to be on the high school team but i am nervous!!! about that i am not going to make state quals.
please help me!!
-ginger (link)
ASK YOURSELF WHY are you nervous this is whAT YOU Want to do why should you be nevous ABOUT IT

SINCERELY asklANE


muh lil sister , is always tellin me what 2 do and i've tryed almost everything to let her no that im older and that im not always gonna listen 2 her but she still finds wys 2 push me around can sum 1 give me advice im out of option? (link)
you ACTUally tAKE CRap from you LITTLE sis wow you let people push AROUND TELL YOUR SIS THat you ARENT GONNa tAKE IT anymore she is younger AND SmALLER THEN YOU Wat cAN SHE DO YOU SHOULD BE BOSSIN HER around

sincerely ASKLane


ive been goin out with this girl for over a month now. i havnt talked to her in like 4 days and everytime i try to she never answers and i send her messages and she dosnt get em
ive evan tried talkin to her but she won't talk back
what should i do?!?!?!?

(i really like her so much)
(link)
just ASK HER WHY SHE ISNT Talkin plAY Hard bALL WITH HER

THE RELationship will never work out if there is no communicATION


SINCEREL asklANE


ok...in my advice column...there were lot of ppl rating me..n da number was 144 n then it went to 133...n now its in 96...how can dat go down like dat?!?!?! hmmmmm =/ (link)
MORE and more people dont like your ADVICE


ok i have a bf and everythang and he sed if he did sumin 4 me i wuld have to kiss him tha next time we see each and i dont wanna kiss him right now enwayz so wut should i do..?? (link)
tell him thAT YOU arent reADY TO KISS HIM IT IS THat eASY DONT DO SOMETIN YOU DONT WannA DO

SINCERLEY asklANE


Say there's someone I want to ask to the prom...how much time before it should I ask him? I don't want to wait too long because he might ask someone else, but I know that if I ask him too early it'll look a bit weird, or as though I'm desperate. I just want some advice on that, thanks! (link)
better get him while he is AVailABLE BECause if you wAIT TO LONG and tAKE THat chANCE Say good bye to your prom dATE YOU WOULD LOOK EVEN STUPIDER WITH OUT a dATE at the prom

sincerely ASKLane


Hey I'd just like to say to everyone that when people are asking a serious question do you have too be so sarcastic and tell them to kill themselfs?? This is a help sight not somthing to be rude about. Is there anyway people who say things like that can be stoped? (link)
yeA DONT RIGHT TO THEM OR TELL THEM TO STOP


okay so there is this guy (grant) who is 16 (and im 15)that i have been talking to for about 3 n a half months and before school got out he told my best friend that he wanted to wait until summer to get with me that way he has more time to spend on me since hes busy w. school and now..its like he doesnt have enough time for me. i like him sOo much and he knows it but it seems like hes even more busy now that school is over. i dont know if i should wait for him or find somebody else but everytime i look at another guy i compare him to grant and there is just no 2nd place. some of my friends tell me that i should give up and my other friends tell me that i should wait but grant is everything that i ever wanted in a guy..HELP! (link)
STay with him if you like him thAT MUCH, ask him if he likes you , just flAT OUT ask him to come too your house or go to the movies , but if he sAYS NO TO BUSY OR SOMETHING ELSE JUST TELL HIM IF YOU DONT Have enought time for me then i AM JUST GONNa give up on you


sincerely ASKLane


i cut myself a lot just to make the pain go away and i told one person and they told me to tell my parent but i dont want to i wanna stop but i cant its just hard i need help can someone tell me wat to do please (link)
PRay to god to help you, but why would you wANT TO CUT YOURSELF YOU are hurting yourself even more physicALLY, I KNOW IT Maybe hARD BUT YOU NEED TO STOP WHEN EVER YOU are ABOUT TO DO IT JUST TELL YOURSLEF NO I WILL ET THROUGH THIS Hard time without phsicALLY HURTING MYSELF


i was hanging out in my back yard today without my shirt on (im a guy), and i got pretty burnt on my chest and stomach and arms. will this turn into a tan after the sun burn heals? (link)
unless it is a huge burn it will


i want to save money so bad, because i want to buy another guitar, and an amp, and after that...i just wanna save, because my friends and i have plans. but i can't save money to save my LIFE. every time i have money, i just HAVE to spend it. and it bugs me. any ideas on how i can save my money? (link)
just ASK YOUR Parents to hol on to it AND TELL THEM TO NOT LET YOU Have it until you think u hAVE Saved up enough


ive liked this guy for almost a year now.. and ive heard he liked me before and stuff.. but he never said anything about it. he was supposed to come over today but he didnt because he hates me now. he told my friend that he doesnt like the way i am, and he hates me. if i have something in my profile or away message that says im mad at someone or something he automatically assumes its about him too when its not! what do you think i should do? he just hurts me so much.. =[ (link)
tALK TO HIM and sAY EVERY`1 GETS Mad sometimes but when ever i get mAD IT IS NEVER about you becAUSE I LIKE YOU
TELL HIM THat

sincerely ASKLane


hey...well i went 2 Manteca Water SLides today with my older sis...my brother-in-law has a nephew..hes 2 years older than me..i like him..well i think hes cute!!..nd he braught a friend with him 2 the waterslides today...his name is David..hes 2 years older than me too..(15)..well aktualie i juss turned 14!!..but anyways we had a great time today! we just kept on laffin..flirting! and i really like him!..nd i hope he lieks me too!..but were going 2 the movies 2marroe..and i just hope he goes!!...my sis...nephew and brother-i-l...got tha point i like him..but i mean...i really want him 2 go 2marroe..i want his number! i wanna make out with him!!..lol..sumone give me advice!! (link)
JSUT FLat out ASK HIM DONT BE SCared to do something thAT YOU Want to do or ASK YOUR SIS TO ask him if he likes you
sinserely ASKLane


Okay..well i was at my Friends house and it was me and Amanda ..amber an ashley...an we were all at amandas ..then amanda feel alseep so my 2 other frineds stole stuff from her and now my Best Friend i thought i had hates me becasue she thinks i stole from her and now she dont trust me at all and alot of my other frineds dont eaithr...so if some if you could please help me out ....thnank you

-signed
Unsure (link)
go up to AMandA and tell her sincerely AND HONESTLY FROM THE HEart thAT YOU DIDNT STEal her stuff tell her the nAMES OF THE GIRLS THat did AND ask those girls thAT DID STEal the stuff if you could go over to there house AND LOOK FOR IT , IF amANDa doesnt belive you then sAY TO HER WHY SHOULD I BE FRIENDS WITH YOU IF YOU DONT EVEN BELIVE ME , BECUase if she believes the people thAT REally did do it AND NOT YOU JUST GIVE UP ON HER THERE IS NO REason to fight your so cALLED FRIENDS


i dont know wut to do..i have this love for this boy that i have never felt befor i kno im only 15 but neone can fall in love no matter the age its ove thats wut happens well this boy i been wit for like a yr now on and off break ups but he always came back he always tells me he loves me and im difrent from his other girls but how do i believe him...he told me the other day that he wanted to be with me but he wanted to fuck other gurls...hes a player i knew that from the beginning but hes changing little by little... and i dont know if i should wait for him or move on... i dont think ill ever move on cause he is my first love and shit and i never felt this way bout anyone...its hard i almost killed myself over him...help me please... (i rate) (link)
never kill yourself over A GUY WHO Says he loves you AND Wants to fuck other girls if he truely loves you ASK HIM TO STOP LOOKING and plAYIN around with other girls if he sAYS OK I WILL ONLY BE WITH YOU THEN KEEP HIM IF HE Says i cANT DO THat then he is definelty not the right person for you

sincerely ASKLane




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