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Hi!!! What's up?? I have blonde hair, blue/green eyes and I am about 5'4.
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I am a fun, exciting person and tells you truth so if you dont wanna hear the truth dont ask!! I dont care if you ask stupid questions or even smart ones so just ask!!! ~~PEACE~~

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okay. i like this guy alot! And my friend asked him if he likes me. He he said "no.....just as a friend". but she says he said it funny (like he was lieing)
And, i dunno 2 move on. or keep flirting. *because when he flirts-i flirt/when i flirt-he flirts.
Do i give up or what? (link)
Hey, Dude I would flirt but thats just me..but dont only flirt with him so he kinda knows that maybe she likes me and maybe she doesnt and then he has to confront you! good luck!! ~~peace~~


13/f - Yesterday I think my mom walked in on me and my BFF watching porn on my computer. Im not positive if she saw EVERYTHING because we clicked out fast, but its been akward between us all morning! I dont know what to do/say or if im just being paranoid and she didnt see. What do i do here?! My friend just went home, but still my mom hasnt said a word about it. i feel SO AWKWARD! HELP ME PLEASE (link)
Hey, maybe you should ask....ex. "Hey mom, are you okay? you seem like your upset or something, did I do anything??" goodluck!! ~~peace~~


How long does it take for a symtom of an STD to show up? I just gave my boyfriend a blow job last night for the first time and now i have a sore in my mouth. Could it be an STD and should i be worried? Thanks so much. (link)
Hey, that sore could be anything, but would go get it checked as soon as possible!!


how do i tell an ex boyfriend who ive been with that i dont think im interested anymore because i like someone else? i dont want to hurt him i like him and stuff but alot of times i do not.. i want to be friends with him still.. love alwaiz stef (link)
your not with him anymore-do what you want!


okay..well my friend is going out with this guy that i like..i thought that i was doing the right thing by telling her this..i know it wasnt the best move..but i also said that i couldnt be bestfriends with someone who i like((this was all in an e-mail))..well a few days later her boyfriend told me online that she showed him the e-mail! i was so mad! i started crying..and i was on the phone with one of my friends and she couldnt believe it either...i cant believe my best friends judgement..we have been in arguments for awhile adn i think that i should draw the line here..what do you think? i really dont wanna be friends with someone who betrayed me like that..i just dont! and she has done things like this before...i really dont want to talk to her again..but our families are very close..i jsut dont know what to do..PLEASE help me!!

..sorry for the length!!
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hey, well first of all. This boy likes your friend not you (not to sound rude) and your friend likes this boy and they cant help that they like each other. When this boy asked out your friend, your friend had to make a choice whether or not to say yes or no and I bet you anything that she thought you would still be her friend because c'mon its just a boy! there not going to last forever but friends do you so you need to now make a choice whether or not your going to let a boy ruin your friendship! I hope I helped! ~~goodbye~~

and if you really dont wanna be friends with her then just be nice to her dont act like she is a total jerk and no one likes her!!


Ok this guy really likes me. He asked me out today. I didnt want to hurt his feelings by sayin no so I said I dont know. And he started crying. I felt soo bad. What should i do?? He's 15/m and im 13/f. Please help. I rate high. (link)
hey, if you dont like him then dont go out with him. I know it might seem mean and you will feel really bad, but would you rather be miserable?! or make up and excuse like you just ended a really bad relationship and you need some time or that you dont really want a boyfriend right now. good luck! ~~goodbye~~


I'm a sophmore in highschool and I love absolutely love my school. The problem is, I don't get perfect grades. My mom wants me to be one of those hard-working, studying all the time kind of students and it's just not me. I do try hard and my grades are good. I'm not failing and I don't even cut any classes. She now wants to transfer me to a private school next year. She's serious about it and I'm worried/scared of leaving the school I've gotten used to for 2 years and starting a new school for my junior year. What can I do to get her to change her mind? (link)
Hey, try and get your grades up. I know its hard and that it will take a lot of work but you can do it or have you teachers talk to your mom and have them tell her that you are a hard working person and that you are trying your hardest. ~~goodbye~~


Hey Can You Add Me To Your Faves?!* Im Trying To Get My Column Around!* :)

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Hey, sure-you can add me while your @ it!!


There's this guy, and he said he was going to ask me to the dinner dance(like prom for 8th graders), but he thought I was too good for him, and I told him that I really wasn't, and that I would love to go with him, and then said that if he didn't want to it was fine, and now I'm confused. Did I say something wrong? and was he just saying that because he knew I wanted to be asked?

-Confused in Cali (link)
Hey, I think that maybe hes having second thoughts. Have you been acting different? have you been flirting with other guys? think of what you have been doing?! ~~goodbye~~


My mom is really mad at me because I yelled and talked back to her. She stormed out of my room this morning while knocking my things down. I just told her that I needed time to get ready to go and I needed her to get out. She then left the house with my brother. Now she is back and she still won't talk to me. I am very hungry and I don't know what to do. There's no food in my house. We were going to go to taco bell but now she's very mad. I am so hungry! Please help. (link)
Hey, how long have you not eaten for? because if its just been a meal then suck it up. If its been like a couple days then you need to tell someone and if you dont want to tell anyone then you need to go eat at a friends house of something. ~~goodbye~~

PS. you can get online but you can eat?! that doesnt make much since?!


13/f
I used to wish my bf would take our relationship more seriously. I wished he weren't so prude. Well, I finally worked up the courage to kiss him one day. But now he's so different. After we kissed he said it wasn't as awkward and now all he wants to do is talk romantic, hold me, kiss me, etc. I miss the times when we were more like friends. I feel like we're going too fast (since we're only 13). I don't know what to do and if I talk to him, he might get mad or something. Got any advice for me please?
MH (link)
hey! I know how you feel! what you need to do is sit him down and talk to him and if that doesnt work, pull away and like start talking and acting like you used to and still kiss him and stuff just not as often! and since you kissed him the first time I think you can get him to lay off too! good luck! ~~goodbye~~


Do you think it's possible to find your soulmate at 12? When I was 12 I got my first bf and we're still together. (I'm 14.) We've been through a lot together and I feel really close to him. But I don't know if that's just because he's the only person I've ever been with, or if my feelings are real. I can't imagine us not being together. He's my best friend. So... Do you thinkit's possible he's my soulmate or am I too young and am being fooled? (link)
Hey, first of all I think that is really sweet that you guys are still together. Ok I think that maybe he could be your soul mate but that is very unusal. People change a lot around the ages of 12-18, so dont get your hopes up if you guys arent together forever! Good luck! ~~goodbye~~


Me and this boy are really serious. We have been talking for like3-4 months.But this other guy asked me to the dance and then we started to talk cuz i kinda said yea since the first boy doesnt go to my school.Then he asked me to come outside and we were walkin around all day.Then he fingered me like 4 times,. But i feel really guilty cuz i love the other boy.What do I do? IS this cheating? Do i tell the other dude. (link)
Hey, I dont mean this to sound rude in any way. But if you loved the first guy you wouldn't even consider this other guy as more than just a friend. You should tell the first one that you did that and your sorry and that you love him and you should tell the second guy that that sould have never happend! ~~goodbye~~


I have been going out with this girl for about a month an da half and now people are telling her that i'm saying things that i never said in my life. Now she thinking about breaking up with me and I love this girl so much I can't live without her. What sould i do to keep her in me life

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lilt (link)
hey! Well what kinda things, it would help if I knew that!! please write back!! thanks!!! ~~goodbye~~



I have these dark purplish circles under my eyes. And my eyelids are almost always red...Majority of the time I get 8 hours of sleep and I am 13 years old. Is there anything I can do to get rid of these hideous circles? (link)
Hi! whats up? 8 hours of sleep is good, but your a growing person and need lots of sleep. Try to sleep during the weekend and use foundation until they go away! ~~goodbye~~


I am 16 and a female. I have gone out with both a girl and a guy but i dont know which way to go. How do you know if its the right path? And how do you meet other girls with the same intersets? (link)
Hi!! whats up?? Uhh....I dont know if you believe in god or not....but....He made us so we like the oppsite sex!!!! I know that you may think you like girls but really its just a phase, trust me I have many friends so I think you should stick with Guys-plus they have 6 packs!! hahaha!! Thanks!! ~~Goodbye~~




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