Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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Age: 17
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okay so i just got out of a 2 year relationship about 5 or 6 months ago. im starting now to actually be over it and am ready to date and what not again. well its just hard because i dont ever like anybody! and i just never know how to act around a guy anymore its weird.. anyways theres this really hot guy at my work and i cant tell if hes into me or not. he always seems like he flirts with me but i cant exactly tell, especially because im 17 and hes 20. i know its not a huge difference or anything, but it seems like it to me? but i never know what to do or say or how to act! like i feel like i always end up saying something dumb and i dont want him to think im not interested.. i just dont know if he is and i dont want to look like a fool. help! (link)
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when you get out of a long term relationship with someone you really enjoyed being around, it'll be kind of hard to go around and think about other guys. trust me, i know.
and about this dude at work. maybe he does like you, maybe he doesnt. just be cool with him for a while. ask him out for coffee or something and just get to talking. try to stay calm and keep your sentences short but sweet. in time, you'll feel more comfortable, but keep him on his toes, but dont be harsh, if that makes sense.
breathe easy, and you'll do fine.
hope it all works out! :)
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oaky, i met this boy a few weeks ago and we would talk and then we started getting a little closer. friday night i went to the bowling alley with a few friends and one of my friends is dating his bestfriend so he was theree and we were talkin and stuff. he calls me babe and told me he was starting to like me. he walked me home that nightt and told me he really did like me, not just starting and thenn he kissed me. thenn i went home..blah blah blahh and then he texted me the next day and said it was alot of fun and he was glad he walked me home. thenn we would just text all weekend and i went to his show last nioght, cause hes in a band and wanted me to go. his band was firstt then he came off stage and went and talked to like every girl besides me..i was like okay wtf. then he came and sat next to me and grabbed my hand and put his arm around me and was cuddling with me for a while.. his ex gf was there too and he was talking to her alot but i guess there good friends..i mean he was holding me while talking to her so idk and then when i left he asked for a kiss so i did..then i went back to my friends house..the one dating his friend..and she said he told her boyfriend that he really liked me and stuff. then i texted him a few hours later and he was getting drunk with his friends and he started saying like i wanna get laid..and siht like that and i was like is that all you want he was like no im sorry its not i just get like this when im drunk..and he says he really likes me, tells his friends he does..idk what to do.. (link)
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theres no question to be answered here. he obviously LIKES YOU. a LOT. and people change when they drink. their hornier, more "out there" side comes out and they say things they do or dont mean. maybe he does want to sleep with you, or maybe that was just the booze. who knows? only him. meanwhile, he was probably talking to all those girls to get the band more well known. its all part of having a band. they have to circulate to get popular. it meant nothing, trust me.
he obviously has a lot of feelings for you already. live in the moment! dont let doubt get in the way of a great thing that could happen.
but get to know him better before you try anything more than cuddling or kissing. :)
but take care and i wish you the best.
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I have this AWESOME friend of mine
Her name is K
and like days later me and my friends and K, we are gonna give each other presents
and my friend K sed she bought one of my friends something online and she didnt buy me anything online
I bought her something online :(
And I knew her first than the other friends. . .
So what do you think
Jealousy or something else?
Thank you for reading :D
And thanks for (if given) your advice
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sometimes when people tell you they havent bought anything yet, it means they might give you something special, or are trying to make a decoy to get your hopes down. so then when they actually DO give you a gift, you'll be all the more surprised and it'll make it all the more special. :)
thats just an opinion. breathe easy. gift or no gift, she's still your friend.
take care!
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This is wierd, but whenever something embarassing happens, I get really red. And to add to it, my friends say, your getting so red right now! and im like stop, but I try to make it funny and laugh at myself. But sometimes, when I even talk to my teacher I get red. I try to stay calm, and reverse my thinking by saying, its okay to myself but no luck. even not thinking about it doesnt work. Help??? i really cant deal anymore. (link)
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theres really no sure fire way to stop your face from flushing when embarrassed or put on the spot.
if you regularly wash your face, you might try putting on a lot of foundation so the redness wont show as much.
other than that, theres really no way to stop it. sorry :\
take care. :)
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I'm bored with myspace and i've been trying to delete my account but i havent recieved an email yet so is there an easier way to delete it? (link)
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you can go to account settings and just click "delete account", but if you're like me, and dont have the same email address anymore, than there is nothing you can do.
but what i did was i deleted all my friends and put a nice little goodbye in my "about me" telling everyone that i wasnt going to be logging on anymore. and then change your password to something really complicated and forgetful, and just never log on again.
and to your friends that are confused as to why you deleted them, be sure your profile is NOT set on private so they can see the goodbye. :) it worked for me.
hope i helped!
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18/m
Ever since right before my girlfriend broke up with me, I've been soooo horny, I don't get it! (Fyi,That's not why we broke up)
I'm a virgin, and I can't get the thought of eating a girl out, or getting head out of my mind! It just sounds so good! Lol
I don't even know if advice will help, but thanks in advance! (link)
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being horny is normal for a teenager. and masterbation is healthy.
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okay so my boyfriend wants a pair of
pumas that are on the endangered species
line, and theyre the pandas. BUT I can only
find them for $170 plus, I just need some help
finding them cheaper .
one more question: is there a line of clothes
that are not popular yet that has the style similar
to the billionaire boys club by pharell Williams
thanks in advance (:
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pumas, as you said, are pretty rare. just like when converse came back into style, they were 65 bucks per pair. and to get them even 10 dollars cheaper, was on EBay and they were used.
pumas, even used, would probably be a little over 150.
but just because hes your beau doesnt mean you have to get him what he wants. :\ even if you would kill to see the look on his face.
just ask around at stores and save up loads of cash. look around on the internet. i dont know.
or! knockoff pumas are always a choice! and a lot cheaper, too. :) but dont let him know that ;)
good luck!
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When you make out, what do you do with both of your tongues and do your tongues stay in the other persons mouth the whole time or do they go in and out a bunch? Like, do you touch tongues, then go back into a regular kiss and just keep repeating this or what? I am so confused. Please let me know, or give me steps and details and everything! Thanks! (link)
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there is no right or wrong way to makeout. some people prefer without tongue because it strikes them as gross. sometimes i do with tongue, mostly without. when i do makeout, my partner and i kiss for a few seconds, open our mouths and break away, and then close our mouths back together and keep that up for a while. i call it a "movie kiss" because thats how everyone kisses in those teen movies and such. -.-''
and so then, every now and again, his tongue will part my lips and we'll just play around with our tongues in my mouth or his mouth or somewhere in-between...or wherever. and then we'll stop and go back to kissing the way we were before.
but its all up to your style, not what other people do. i hated tongue for the longest time and he slipped his into my mouth one freaking time, and so now thats just how i kiss. :) be creative!
take care!
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when he sticks his tonuge in my mouth, i take my tongue and poke his with it. and then we twirl them around eachother and keep poking and just play around. its a little awkward, yes. but once you get used to it, it'll feel as natural as kissing regularly.
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http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=10153737
are these curlers better than the instant heat from con air?? (link)
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even if it is from walmart, that price is waaaay too cheap for a really good curler. i dont know if curlers run around the same prices as straighteners, but my straightener was around 50-60 bucks, and its really good and works well.
so my saying is "the cheaper the lamer".
look for one thats around 20 dollars, and i heard conair works really well.
good luck! :)
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14/f
9th grade
college prep algebra 1
ok so my teacher likes to give us worksheets where we have to work out problems to decod ea joke. i did and i know its right, but i dont get the pun
what does this mean?
joke: "What did orgo say on valentine's day?"
answer" i may not be the best kisser in the world but i will put my lips up against your anytime.
what does that mean?
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if it doesnt make sense to you, you need to ask your teacher or rework it a few times. if its still that answer even after the teacher said it was right, well then maybe its just a really bad joke. algebra jokes usually arent funny anyways. :\
take care!
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I have been a christian off and on since I was 13. I am 22 years old now. When I was younger I have always had some sort of sexual curiosity not knowing where it all started? I am not sure why. I started playing with the idea since I hit my puberty stage. My first time was with my high school sweetheart at 15.
Long story short, I have been very sexual subconsciously and never really had a PROBLEM with controlling my urges. I also started masterbating at a young age. I believe my urges became almost non-existent after I had my son who is now 2. I started to become disgusted with it, and I was also seriously devoting my life to the Lord, puting my past behind me especially now that my new goalk was to be a Godly mother for my son.
My one weakness is my baby daddy who is also my high school sweetheart whom I have known for almost 10 years. Regardless of how disgusted with sex I was with anyone else, I can never refuse or not want to be with him. Although we never married we have always had a deep relationship, we are not together now, but we are still very close. I could honestly say I love him unconditionally and he does also, but marriage is far from our minds because of our past insecurities, God still needs to heal. I know that continuing like this hinders the relationship with God we both yearn for, and I am starting to feel that our love making is becoming more lustful because it is not right in our hearts always.
Another thing is that there is a powerful retreat coming up for the both of us, and I have heard stories of how the enemy will distract us from being empowered by the works of God. My urges has intensified within the last week. Everyday for hours I cant stop thinking about it. I pray, and pray... God is supposed to deliver me from this spirit. I just want to pounce on my baby daddy like an animal. I want to make love for hours! If I had a penis, I would have a boner all day. I know that since I was delivered from my natural sexuality,I had one demon to deal with and now Im dealing with seven. Everything I fought against in the past, I let the enemy manipulate me and now I have an almost impossible battle trying to get into the "purity" place I once was in. I know I need cleansed, I know I am a sinner, I am not perfect. How do you control something like that, I know urges are natural, but how could I refrain even from even masterbating (which is so unsatisfactory) at this point? I dont like how I feel, or what I am struggling with. Is it a psychological issue as well? I dont believe I have had to struggle with something that is so emotionally and physically intense before. And the funny thing, is its not like I want to go hump random guys or even things, its my yearning for my baby daddy. (link)
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honey...
this is called being "horny" and everyone is "horny", no matter what they say. at least you know your not a sex addict because you know you only want to make love to whoever that guy is.
im 15, and a few months ago i had sex for the first time, and now its haunting me and i want him all the time. but we're not together and we havent hung out since the last time we made love.
God wont hate you for being horny. i know he isnt happy that you and dude had a child before marriage, and i know he isnt happy that you lost your virginity before you're married. but you cant just pray for sexual urges to go away. it doesnt work like that.
why dont you start from the basics: what is causing these overdrives? is it movies your watching? is it books your reading? is it music your listening to? what about your guy? is seeing him just arrousing even when you arent doing anything together?
if you want the urges to go away, get rid of whatever is making them come on. if you need some time away from the dude, then spend some time away. if you need to stop listening to certain music or reading certain books or watching certain movies, do that too.
if i were you, id just go with it. id let what needs to happen happen so i can get it out of my system. or why dont you and dude just get married already so you'll feel less bad about having sex? i mean, you've already done it for so long, why the sudden uncertainties?
anyways, im sorry i cant help a little more. im still kind of young and naive so i cant throw any technical terms out there. :\
but yeah, take care and breathe easy. its just sex.
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16/f I'm renee!
Alright well i am sorta "talking" to this guy i really like. Right now, we are just talking as friends and getting to know eachother. Well, we were really starting to click and get closer until my friend told him that i have never kissed a guy before. He still calls me but 3 of my friends have been coming up to me and telling me that he told them that if we ever go out, me not being expirienced would be a BIG problem. He told them he still likes me and he dosen't care about that, but it makes it a little more hard on the relationship if we ever went out. I don't know what to do because i am a junior and i haven't ever done that. I know people might not think it's a big deal, but it is in highschool. If a guy finds that out, they get turned off. It's horrible! I don't know what to do!!! Please don't say it's not a big deal because to me and everyone else in my school it is!!! What should i do? Thanks!! (link)
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im homeschooled and i still think its a big deal. 0.o
anyways, i didnt get my first kiss until i was 14. and even then it was really weird. what most girls do is practice on some of their friends or practice on the back of their hands.
you dont have to practice on a girl. to me, that seems a little weird. you can find a really close guyfriend and ask him if he could practice kissing with you. just say it wont mean anything, you just need help.
but if the guy you like says that you having no experience would be a big deal, thats really stupid. guys who base their relationships on making out and sex are never worth it in the end. and maybe your so-called "friends" should have kept their mouths shut.
but anyways, thats all i can say about that. you can also check out these articles:
http://www.ehow.com/how_4415795_kiss.html
http://www.ehow.com/how_2039144_have-movielike-first-kiss.html
http://www.ehow.com/how_2004375_initiate-first-kiss.html
i hope i helped!
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hey im 14/f and this guy i likes 15/m and were a freshman at our school and homecomeing right around the corner for us. okay well to get to the story.
hes in my 5th hour. i set by his best friend (my best friend lkikes his best friend ha)okay so me and his friend talk all the time oh and his best friends name is andrea and the guy i lieks name is edmond. me and edmond talked for awhile on the computer and he asked for my number so i was pumped that he liked me or something so me adn him text all the time. and we went to a foot ball game together and it was very cold out side so i wore his jacket and then we started to hold hands and we were very close to each other. and we almost kissed!. okay so the week after that we always hangout in the halls and hug and were kinda all over each other but we dont text that much any more. after 5th hour every day he waits for me and holds my things its really cute. and he picks me up all the time. when we hug i get all happy and smiley. so friday right b4 class he takes me iunto the hall way and im thinking yes hes going ot ask me to homecomeing ha what a shocker he doesnt instead he tells me some girl says that hes useing me and that not the case bc we havent done anything but hold hands and hug. so hes like really pissed about this cause we dont even know who this girl is. so we walked in together and i was weraring his jacket again. so today i mean saturday i brought up homecoeming and i told him i was getting my dress hes like awwh tahts cute. whats it look like adn he asked who i was going with and i said no one but i have someone in mind and hes like oh okay. your too cute you know that and then we started flirting . and weve been texting hard core now. and he wants me to go to his house next weekend and get wasted with him!.! ive only been wasted once and i dont remeber that well. we have talked about oral be for and he doesnt want sex. but he wants oral but he says i dont have to if i dont want to but i wanna and i dont know what to do cause ive never done any oral things befor? whats it like?? is it funn? do i swallo his cum or anything? help me! (link)
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look at this website for tips on how to:
http://www.ehow.com/how_1000252_oral-sex-man.html
remember to use protection because STDs can still be spread through oral.
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I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and I didn't enjoy it at all, or the next time, or the next time. Is there something wrong with me? Yeah, the first time we did it, it hurt at first but after the pain went away I still didn't enjoy it. It wasn't pleasurable and it wasn't him I don't think I just didn't enjoy it. And I was kind of anxious to try it again to see if it'd be any better but it wasn't. Does it take time, or am I weird... or what?
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thats not strange. ive only had sex twice and it hurt sooo badly the first time. hurt a little the second time...and we never got to finish, so idk if i would ever get pleasure or not.
usually it takes till about the fifth time until the girl gets anything besides pain out of sex. this one girl i talked to said it hurt her first 15 times.
just breathe easy. and if you're using a condom, that also takes a bit of pleasure out of everything. so yeah.
hope i helped.
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so i have straight hair and it goes down to my chest. usually whenever i try to do something different it never works (ex: crimping or scrunching) i want like lauren conrad waves how do i get them? (link)
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what i sometimes do when i get out of the shower is braid my hair in two really taut braids and go to bed, since i take a shower at night. i sleep on it and then in the morning i have tight curls, waves. (depends on how taut the braid is)
when you take them out, leave half of your hair on each side of your neck. take some curling mousse or something and use a golfball size for each side of hair. rub it in, scrunch it, do whatever. that should work, and if not, then im not sure.
but then again i have really curly hair, i usually just straighten mine in the morning.
i hope i works for you!
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so has anyone heard of not bein able to get your tongue pierced because your cord thing that attaches your tongue to your mouth was too long ( it reached the tip of my tongue)
because thats what the piercer that wqas going to pierce my tongue said.. is this true? (link)
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if a professional said that, its probably true. bad news is, you wont get your tongue pierced. :( (i know how you feel. my dad wont let me pierce my tongue) but the good news is, you'll stay friends with the dental hygentists!
that really sucks, though. maybe a lip piercing? or two?
have fun!
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the guy i honestly love i cant be with =[ because he has a bad drug problem i wanna help him, we dated for 3 years and finnally he had a bad drug tripp and hit me =[ we broke up after that, he tells me he misses me and that he loves me but i cant be with him if hes still on drugs
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tell him if he wants you so badly, he has to go to rehab first. tell him you want nothing to do with him until hes clean. then you'll try again.
hope it all works out!
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16/f
Would tanning help hide my horrible stretchmarks? I have stretch marks on my arms and its really embarrasing =( I use to be really big and I've lost a lot of weight but the stretch marks kicked in ...is there any treatment ? Has anyone ever tried anything and sucessfully removed there stretch marks? (link)
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no, tanning will not help it. most of the time, tanning just makes the scars appear out MORE.
i tried this stuff called "scarzone" on these scars on my legs. and it got rid of them in a few months. you may wanna try preferon, or something like that.
you know the makers of headon and whatever-else-on? well they make preferon for stretch marks and stuff. you can find it at any drugstore.
:) take care!
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is 22,000 dollars a lot? i know its not a million or billion and so on. give me some ideas of what i could get with it other then like clothes and that kinda stuff? thanks. i know strange question. (link)
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uh.
YEAH. unless your a mutilmillionaire, thats a LOT of money for the average person.
you could make a huge house payment with that.
you could buy a boat, or a car or another type of vehicle.
im only 15, so i dont have many more ideas than that. ^.^
have fun with your wad of cash!
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ok. just wondering, but is it dangerous if you take like 10 advil in a day? i didnt take them at the same time, but all within 24 hours, like 4 hours between. Is it still dangerous to do that? Or is it only dangerous if you take them all at once?
And if you dont do anything to help overdosing the day you took all the advil can it still affect you for awhile??
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the bottle should have that kind of info on it. i dunno how advil works, but ibuprofen says that you cant exceed more than 10 pills a day, and that you shouldnt take more than 2 every 4 hours.
i think advil is like ibuprofen, but im not sure. most pills are like that.
hope i helped!
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