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okay so i just got out of a 2 year relationship about 5 or 6 months ago. im starting now to actually be over it and am ready to date and what not again. well its just hard because i dont ever like anybody! and i just never know how to act around a guy anymore its weird.. anyways theres this really hot guy at my work and i cant tell if hes into me or not. he always seems like he flirts with me but i cant exactly tell, especially because im 17 and hes 20. i know its not a huge difference or anything, but it seems like it to me? but i never know what to do or say or how to act! like i feel like i always end up saying something dumb and i dont want him to think im not interested.. i just dont know if he is and i dont want to look like a fool. help!
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when you get out of a long term relationship with someone you really enjoyed being around, it'll be kind of hard to go around and think about other guys. trust me, i know.
and about this dude at work. maybe he does like you, maybe he doesnt. just be cool with him for a while. ask him out for coffee or something and just get to talking. try to stay calm and keep your sentences short but sweet. in time, you'll feel more comfortable, but keep him on his toes, but dont be harsh, if that makes sense.
breathe easy, and you'll do fine.
hope it all works out! :)
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It seems like you really need to figure out if he would ever be interested in dating or not, so first, I would start out by talking with him, like everytime you go to work (flirting too.) Then, if you like him and you think a relationship could possibly work out between you two, you should ask him to hang out with you sometime, you can go ice skating, bowling, the mall, a movie, anywhere. If you are too uncomfortable doingthat even, then you could just have a few of his friend and a few of his friends go too. Or you could throw a party at your house (or get together at your appartment depending on where you live) and invite him. Start out small, and see where you go. :-)
Good Luck! Hope I helped :-) xoxo
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