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Q: I want to do more than just make out with my boyfriend, but we've just been goin to the movies so it's kinda hard to do anythin else when so many people are around. So any ideas on what we could do or what i could say that would turn him on?
go to a really old movie... one that NO ONE WUD GO TO lol or jus go in one of ur basements lol hope i helped! mErRy XmAs!!! love ali feedback is greatly appreciated!

Q: ok so i have had my period for almost three years now and the first two were regular. But i had surgery in the begining of july and i had my period at the end of july. But after that i havent had it, its been 5 months and i know tis sounds crazy but i want it. It sso annoying not noing wen ur gonna get it. Is this normal after having surgery? if it is then y did i get it in july and not after?
you should first talk to you mom.. then ask her to take you to a gyno or a reg. doctor.hope i helped! mErRy XmAs!!! love ali feedback is greatly appreciated!

Q: This guy asked me out like two years ago and I said no but now he and I are sort of friends. And I think he might still like me. So if I hinted around and flirted and stuff do you think he would ask me out again? Or do you think I already missed my only chance?
no u did not.. flirt with him or tell one of your friends to "accidently" slip to him that you like him.. you gotta give him some sort of sign that you like him! hope i helped! mErRy XmAs!!! love ali feedback is greatly appreciated!

Q: i heard that if u stop eating u will acctually gain weight. is that true?

ehh.. both.. it depends on how long you go.. if you go for a day or too.. then yes.. if like more than 4 days then no.. but its not healthy.. if only for a day or two.. your body will sense that it will need hold on to food longer good luck and hope i helped! mErRy XmAs!!! love ali feedback is greatly appreciated!

Q: my boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago and we got back together a couple of ays ago. I love him more than anything and I don't want to mess things up this time. When he broke up with me he didn't really give an explanation why he did it. And I couldn't get him to tell me, he would just say, "It's hard to explain." He had told me he loved me and we were about to do certain "things" but i don't know if he still wants to do those "things" So my question is do you think he still loves me? Also do you think he still wanys to do those "things". And how should I bring the subject up with him? Thanks a ton! Please help...
yes he probly still does.. i broke up with a guy i loved and i told him that it was hard to explain.. but i still want him back.. sumthin was probly going threw his head that was totally wrong.. just don bring it up with him and continute on in your relashionship! good luck and happy holidays! love ali

Q: i want to lose 13 pounds...does anyone have any diet plans with exercise plans that would be helpful...how many pounds is it helpful to lose per week?? i'm a girl by the way and i'm 5'4.
jump roping.. although some people find it "odd" it works.. jump roping at a fast steady pce for 5 minutes is equal to running a mile.. but dont work yourself too hard!! good luck and happy holidays!

Q: I'm a moderately happy person. I'm in love, I have really supportive friends, and I have great artistic outlets for my emotions, but for some reason I keep having these reoccurring thoughts of suicide. Every time I sit by my window I think of diving headfirst into the driveway three stories below. I don't know what to think of it. Is this normal?
yea its totally normal... spend time with people you love.. maybe tell a best friend and she/he can help you feel better. spend a lot of time with the person you love. good luck nd happy holidays

Q: im a 13/f n my bestfriend is 13/m i like him alot and we went to the movies yesterday with 2 other friends a boy and a girl. i was sitting inbetween the girl and my best friend n all during the movie he kept sorta kicking me and rubbing his leg against my leg. i thought it was cute. then he didnt mean to well at least i dont think he meant to, but he moved his hand like in between the seat and he touched my theigh a couple of times. i like him alot but do you think he was making moves on me? well he knows i like him but im sort of clueless right now!! thank you
yes i think he likes you... you should ask him out or keep flirting with him ntil he ask you!! good luck and happy holidays

Q: Okay well here it goes.I have a friend named Jordyn and she is a girl.Well she tells everyone everything that she hears or what you tell her.It sucks cause i really like her but i have to watch what i say around her or what happens cause she isn't also afraid to change things around and make things worse than it really is.Is this really a good friend to hang around or no?Also is this a true friend?Please help me!!
Love always,
XxshortyxX
sure shes an okay person to hang aruopnd with jus not tell ur soul too.. its not a true friends....if ur lookin for a best friend outta her.. give up lol.. or u cuz talk to her n tell her to stop or get sumone else to do it lol *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *happy holidays!* *feedback is appreciated!*

Q: i like this boy in my school i got him a silverchain charm i talk too him he gave his phone number i realy like him wat do i do wit out tell ing i want too know every thing about him please help.
well ask his friends and talk to him online.. itll be easyer without having to talk to his face *hope i helped*

Q: Well ok my brother got a girl friend about 2 monthes ago maybe and sence then he hasnt been giving me any time to spend with me well I am 13 and he is 17 and he use to do every thing with me until his girl friend 15 (I think)started to always go every where with him and sometimes Michael (thats my brothers name)is mean to me now all because of Katie I think (THats michaels girl friends name)Should I tell him how I feel or wait until they brake up or what he is driving me nuts!!!
hmm... tell him how you feel and that you really miss him doing things with you.. set aside a day just for you guys! good luck! *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is appreciated!*

Q: me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month now, But we've dated before for three months, then we broke up. but now we're back together. anyways now he acts different, before he would always be holding my hands or holding me arount the waist,but now he wont even touch me. I've confronted him about it, but he hasnt changed.what do i do? do i confront him again? Please help!! thanx!
confront him of have one of ur friends talk to him *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is appreciated!*

Q: if a guy sees this question he will know wat i mean.

I have a problem. I am a christian kid but im slipping away from the lord because of things i look at. if ya know wat i mean. I cant stop. I try but nothin works. If you can help, please do
ask ur self which is more important...God or "the other stuff" * hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback's appreciated!*

Q: Will a yeast infection go away on its own or what can you do to get rid of it?
cant you put like flour on it? it helps to ease the pain * hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback's appreciated!*

Q: What can you do with a 7 yr old boy when your babysitting him? Thanx in advance!
sit him in front of the TV while ur on the fone lol play a board game *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is appreciated!*

Q: What are good kinds of sraightners? Preferably under $50.00. Thanx in advance!!
a revlon one.. probly found at CVS? *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is appreciated!*

Q: hey .. my school has a social at the end of the year and everyone's already getting dates for it and i'm afraid that no one will ask me and if i ask someone they'll say no. i don't know what to do and i really don't want to go alone .. HELP !!
dont worry about it.. i have a social at the end of the year.. just dont worry bout it till then! only make a date when it gets near there.. cuz u cud cancel and end up hating the guy! i bet like 50% of ur friends are gonna end up switing dates.. just gfo with your frioends or people that dont have dates... *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is appreciated!*

Q: My friend and i are both in theater arts, and she got the role i wanted, and i tried not to be jealous of her, but i am. i know she's really good, and deserves the part, but i get mad at her whenever she brings it up, because shes almost bragging. I just really wanted the part, and now she thinks im mad at her, and i guess i kinda am. wat can i do?
tell her not to talk about it... jus dont let her see that ur mad! blow it off.. that playll be done n over with b4 ya no it!!!!!! *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is appreciated!*

Q: I need a little advice here. The guy I like seems to always be too busy. I try to talk to him as much as i can, but I'm not sure if i get the point across that I like him. I have a suspision that he likes me back, but the one time I asked him if he liked me online, he wouldn't answer because he said we had to talk in person. Is this a good thing? And how do I tell him that I like him? Am i supposed to wait for him to make the first move?
Thanks to you if you answer..
yea its a good thing that he sed that.. jus tell him in person "heyy ______ i think you'e a really great guy.. and i was wondering if ud want to go out with me " lol or do it over the fone so u can hang up if u get denyed but i doubt he will since u sed he likes u good luck!!! *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is appreciated!*

Q: ok exactly 1 year ago from this past saturday was the start to some scary a$$ sh*t..vases flying off walls,rooms being completely rearanged..yes i mean everything moved to a new place,moans & cries coming through the heat vents at night..oh yea scuri..but we got the house blessed and after about a month it stopped..
so we thought..

well like i said exactly 1 yr ago..we're siting in the living room and i hear a scream..i look over n my friend is sitting,pale as a ghost looking up..a shelf that has been on the wall since we moved in is in mid air oh yes i mean FLOATING..was there for about 30 seconds then crashed to the ground..well that night there was banging coming through the vents..then today i came home and my bed is soakin wet ..like not water..but a sticky liquid..enough to fill up half the bathtub..their was literally puddles..and it smelled like death..oh yea and even better my moms room was dry..however u culdnt walk into it and breathe at the same time b/c it smelled so strong like mens cologne

please some1 b serious when you answer this..im so not kidding about one single word i typed..i was just a little freaked out..but now im scared..especially after i saw it floating & the liquid..out nowhere..please any advice or if any1 has a paranormal story to share.. i just need a piece of mind..
tlk to them .. be nice to them.. im i dont realy believe in that sorta stuff but im gonna trust that ur being honest... communicate with them.. or have other people come to ur house so people wont think ur going insane *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is appreciated!*

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