If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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what are you guys opion of christians and other sprital stuff???>?? (link)
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It's good to be a Christian. God exists,but he doesn't always like me. He plays jokes on me sometimes. Not just me,he messes with everybody. He does a pretty good job though. I don't look down or up on a religious person,that's their thing,and I respect that.
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hey uuuu what's the age you all started shaving "down there" i just want to make sure i'm not doing it to soon
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Whenever it starts growing to heavy for your tastes.
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I have been with my current boyfriend for quite a while, and I love him greatly, but I have begun to realize that I still have feelings for an ex that I had a while back. He was probably the first person I truly cared about, but then he ended it. I don't understand why after all of this time I am realising that I'm not really over him, and I don't know what I'm supposed to do about it. I feel guilty having these feelings and at the same time they hurt. Anyone know what I can do? (link)
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If you love your boyfriend greatly,then you wouldn't still like the other guy,would you sweety? Go out on dates with both of them and be honest you're doing this. Why can't you just date them both? I mean it,who says that you have to have only one guy/one girl. At our ages,now is the time to see a whole bunch of people.
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i am 17 and i have been dating my bf for 11 months at 8 months he asked me to marry him i said yes..then we talked about moving in a place i was thrilled..1 week before our 11 months we broke up(not seen eachother in 3 weeks) . he said he wanted to be single.two days later we got back together and that same day talked about our place again? whats wrong with him???who does that! isnt that wierd??advice (link)
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You're 17 years old,this is really too young to be talking about marriage. You've got your whole college life ahead of you. He seems very emotional talking about being together forever and shit. Talk to him,for real,and be like why did you break up with me if you were serious about all this bullshit.
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What is a good line right before u kiss someone. bc im not a brave enough person jsut ot do it i need a line. (link)
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Dude,just do it ok? You know when they want it,they'll look deep in your eyes and shit.
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Ok, well my friend is having this party this coming saturday and shes inviting her cousin. i think he's really fun to be around and stuff but all he wants to do is makeout with girls at the party. i like him, but im not into like just meeting a guy and making out. and since ive never made out with anyone, im scared. i was thinking of just not going to the party so i wouldnt have to worry about him wanting to make out. wat should i do? im 13 and hes 15. (link)
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Go to the party,but you don't have to makeout with this guy. If he asks and you don't want to,simply say no.
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whenever i talk with my friends and stuff and they gossip about "ooh so and so got to this base"... im always kind of the one who is wondering... "what does that mean"... like im not SLOW in that department i just wanna know what each base means (no im not talking about baseball)... im not super young, ive heard just different explanations of the bases and i wanna know THE ULTIMATE BASE LINGO. if you catch my draft ;O)... thanks for whoever gives advice!
-signed, catchmeup (link)
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1st is kissing,2nd is jerking him or fingering,3rd is oral,and a homer is sex.
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can you get an orgasm from a guy fingering you? or just sex? (link)
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Sure.
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when a girl orgasms....does that mean she cums also? (link)
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It's the same thing.
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Hey, i hope someone can help me out. I'm gonna try and make this as short as i can. I'm 17 and me and my boyfriend just recently became sexually active the 17th of July. We had sex about 3 times and used protection all 3 times. The condom did not break and i'm pretty sure about that because we checked. My last period was on the 6th for like 3 days and i normally have a full 7 day period. It was a little weird. I had sex "after" my period and it was my first time. Anyway, today is the 15th and i still haven't started my period. I have had irregular periods before but i'm just really worried. I have taken two pregnancy test in the past two weeks and they both have came out negative. They weren't cheap tests either.. (E.P.T Certaincy) I've been really.. stressed out about this situation. I've lost sleep and i think about it day in and day out. The only time i never really think about it is at work when i'm busy. Could i be just stressin my self out and causing my period to be late? I'm really confused.. some people say that when you first have sex it can cause your period to be 2 or 3 weeks late. Is that true? I would like to hear from someone about this please. Thank you. (link)
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If you've had your period since you've had sex,don't worry. You can actually control your period by stress,so relax,you're not pregnant. Plus the tests said you weren't,so you're not. But is it worth it to have sex with this guy if you're gunna stress out everytime?
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okay ive had discharge for a while now and i styll havin gotn mah period where the hell is it? ... im turn 14 in april! what the fuckin hell! help me out people
thanx bye
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Are you an athlete or really thin? If so,this can delay your period. If not,you're probably just a late period getter. Be thankful,I've heard nothing good about them.
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do guys prefer blondes or brunettes? (link)
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I like brunettes more as far as looks go. But I wouldn't be uninterested in a girl just because of her hair color. That's stupid.
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the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :( (link)
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Two words:Fuck no. What else does he have to say to make it obvious that he's using you? Please have some sense babe.
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We are constantly getting into petty arguments, that escalate until he is angry and I am upset, sometimes to the point of tears. He blames me, saying I go on too much about things, and I blame him because I feel he doesn't listen or respond to anything I say, or he belittles me and my point of view. He says I belittle him too. I don't really know where to begin but to explain what happened today. We were going out to lunch with our 5-year-old daughter and as we were leaving, he suggested a fish and chips restauraunt called "Tugboat". At first, I agreed, but after we got in the car I said "I really don't feel like fish and chips. Can we go somewhere that has other choices?" I don't recall if he even responded. So I suggested three fast-food places that have fish and chips and other choices as well. He said "I don't want to eat fast food, " in this very hostile tone of voice like I was stupid for suggesting it. I went on to explain that there are heathly things he could get there too, like salad, and that the place he wanted to go was fast food and not healthy anyway. He did not acknowlege my valid point and continued to make negative remarks. He said that he didn't want to eat salad. I said ok then, but they have fish and chips, which is what you said you wanted." Then he got more angry and denied that he said he wanted that. I pointed out that the restaurant he wanted to go to only served that and little else. I explained again that I was just trying to be fair and pick a place we would all be happy with. He just told me to shut up and that he wanted to go home. I couldn't figure out what he was so upset about. Maybe I overexplained my point of view, but I was getting no response from him. At one point, he drove to one of the fast-food places I suggested and said in a very nasty tone "Here is the place you wanted to go. Are you happy now?" No, I wasn't, because I didn't like his attitude, and I said "If you don't want to eat here, just tell me where you'd like to go?" He refused to answer, so I angrily got out of the car and started to walk away, telling him he was being a jerk. I ended up getting back in the car and he told me I was a psycho. I said I wouldn't be acting like this if he didn't treat me like my ideas were stupid, and refuse to tell me where he wanted to go. We then went through the drive-thru of another restaurant, three times, and he kept getting out of the line because I was upset and wanted to talk to him about how I felt. Our daughter was really hungry, as was I, and was getting really upset. Finally, we ended up at a nice restaurant and I calmed down enough to go in, and we had a good lunch, but barely talked. I was still upset and angry. All this took about a hour of wasted time driving around. He still never acknowleged that he was wrong to not respond to me when I asked him where he wanted to go. He did apologise for belittling my suggestions, though, and I admitted that I tend to go on about things, but only if I feel that he is not understanding or acknowledging me. I know that I'm partially responsible for these petty arguments. but I don't know how to change this destructive pattern. My husband just wants to "drop it" and it never gets resolved. We argued about this and many other petty things over and over again and I just want it to stop. I love my husband and I know that he loves me, but sometimes it feels like we are enemies at war, and this is not a good example for our daughter. Also, I am 4 months pregnant, and the stress is not good for me or the baby. Help! And please don't suggest divorce. I am determined to do whatever it takes to save our marriage. Please tell me objectively what each of us is doing wrong. Thanks (link)
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No,I don't reccommend divorce here babe,but your man may have some issues at work he's stressed out about. Maybe he wasn't quite ready for your new baby. You have to talk to him about what's going on and he can't just "drop it". He was being an asshole about the food thing and if my daughter and wife were hungry,then goddamn it,they're getting fed. Petty arguments are part of being married for years. You can't get rid of them and they won't go away. If he doesn't ever physically abuse you and you just argue,that's normal. He called you a psycho,which is odd,because he must have been REALLY pissed. If it continues,try a marriage counselor who is much more qualified at giving advice than I am.
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hOw cOme When yOur Besfriends Are SuppOsed tO Be yOUr BestFriend They Turn On yOu..??...And When yOur BestFriends Are pOpular In The ScHoOl..Once One dOnt Like yOu The Rest dOnt???..And Katy..gOod Luck On The Site I Beliven yOu..All My Luck gOes tO yOu Girl (link)
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I'm not a girl,I'm a guy. But anyway,people turn their backs on you for any number of reasons. They must not be your friend in the first place if they're willing to do this though. People are always trying to be cool,so they want to follow the leader. What they don't realize is that this isn't cool,it's being a follower. Followers die,leaders die too,but they get written about.
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i have been friends with this guy for like a year now well since last summer and we stoped talkin after i moved but now that i have moved back we started talkin more now and we r starting to hang out together alot more and i am starting to like him he is one of my first love...(ex boyfriends) friends what should i do should i tell him or keep it on the dL cuz i am scared he will freak out and it will mess up or friend ship but then agian i am scared that if i don't tell him then i will neva have a chance wit him..... plz help me what should i do... (link)
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If you like him,you should never keep that to yourself. You'll always wonder what if. I think its better to never have to wonder than to ruin the friendship. It won't be ruined if the two of you actually are friends anyway. You ever see Spiderman 2,when Doc Ock tells him "You should never keep love a secret." Same deal.
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Ok..i'm a freshman in high school and i never kissed a girl before, but i have the feeling that this is gonna be the year that i get my first kiss. I'm scared that i'll do it wrong or something and i don't know where to put my hands. Any advice? (link)
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Man,take it easy. Listen,you're gunna suck your first time. Don't sweat it. You get better. Put your hands on her hips or run them through her hair. You could run them along her stomach or along her body.
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i had sex like a few months ago...well ive gotten my period since..and its been on a regular schedual but this month it hasnt come...i havent got it!! im freaking out!! it usually comes at the verrrry end of every month n goes into the begining of the new month but this month is hasnt!! =( could i be pregnant since ive already had my period about 2-3 times since ive had sex?? =\ (link)
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No,you're not pregnant.
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When me and my boyfriend first got together he asked me how long i wanted to be a virgin and i said until i was atleast 16.. well we have been together so long and i am ready to go that far with him but we made a promise to wait until i was 16.. long story.. I confronted him and he said i wanna see if we can keep our promise.. i really want to loose my virginity to him.. what should I do? (link)
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Please wait and don't do it. I know you think you should,bt don't. My friend fucked his girlfriend at 15 and to this day,he tells me he wishes he hadn't.
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I have been in a relationship for a long time. I recently discovered that my girlfriend wants to bring another woman into our sex life...what should i do??? I realy care about my girlfriend i wonder if it would ruin what we have??? (link)
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Dude,you should thank God.
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