I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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im super super shy and i cant help it.
it ruins everything. my face gets beat red. and i start like idk stumbling over stupid words. and i just get sick of it.
i get all nervous. adn i never no what to say. can someone please help me to overcome my shyness, im 15 by the way. (link)
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well the only way to get rid of shyness is to get comfortable around the situation if something happens and you start to get that shy feeling stop and think about the situation and then find a way to make it seem funny and amuzing to you that way you wont be shy and if that doesnt work then when you start to get shy stop for a minute breath in and breath out and tell yourself everything is okay and you should be fine hope this helps good luck :)
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ok i cant bottle this up inside anymore i need to let it out!no one understands me so i cant talk to my friends about this because they just wont understand, theyll laugh at me and probibly call me pathetic. i dont blame them because this is just too weird. there this guy at my college/uni iv never spoke to him we always look at eachother but never spoke to one another and i think im seriously inlove with a guy iv never spoken to.its like when i look at him i know who he is and how he is and i just make up this fantasy in my head whether its true or not. he seems like a shy guy not really into going after girls hes always at the libry so i take it hes into his studies first all of this makes me like him more and more but i just dont have the courage to walk up to him and talk to him, i wouldnt even know what to say.usually im a random person and wouldnt mind but this guy makes my heart stop every time i look at him(oh my gosh i sound soo crazy i know) what am i suppose to do? i like him so much that im scared hell reject me or turn out to be gay or have a gf or not like me or think im some crazy girl...i really like him what do i do? i think the longer i hold it the more hell drift away i dont wanna like him and not tell him. what am i ment to say to him if i talk to him?how would i do it?write him a note?i just dont wanna be a random. im going crazyyy (link)
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The only way to go about this is to slowly start talking to him find out something he likes and read up on it and then go up to him and start up a casual convo and then talk about wut he likes and then once you feel more comfortable and you feel he is comfortable talking to you too then ask him if he would like to meet up for coffee or dinner i knoe this isnt as easy as it sounds but this is the only way to get this guy to talk to you and notice you.
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hey could someone find me a legal form like a contract. im going to be managing this band and i need a contract saying that they give me rights to book events make websites stuff like that. thanks (link)
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just go to word processor and write all that down and print it out to make it official and get them to sign it because theres no actual legal form like that thats printable. Good Luck:)
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well my boyfriend broke up with me because his mom said i was too young for him.. but then last night i talked to him and he told me that there is another reason why he doesn't want to date me.. he said that school was around the corner and that he didn't want people to to talk shit about us because he is small and I'm thick....he tells me he loves me but he doesn't want anything to do with me in public .. does he really love me? (link)
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no he doesnt love u ppl who are in love want to be with the person they love all the time hes just using u and he doesnt care so dump him for the loser he is trust me youll be better off without him find someone who truly loves you for who you are inside and out. good luck :)
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i was wondering how much weight could you lose in about 4 weeks if i waqs to start today if you were to do it everyday for 3times (link)
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probably about 20 maybe less because waqs isnt jus going to help you lose weight u have to diet and be able to maintain that diet and your going to have to have more exercises in your routine to get more results good luck:)
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I have had my laptop for a about 7 years now and i have no problems with it..All of a sudden it is just restarting its self while im on the net or just doing work on the thing.. I have it plugged in to the power sorce so i dont use the battery at all.. i have already reformatted it twice so far..
is there any way this can be fixed or is it just better to buy a new laptop
thanks for your help because i really need it (link)
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I had the same problem with my laptop and so i took it to a guy i know who fixes computers turns out it was a virus and it can ruin your computer if you dont get it fixed immediatly so i would take it in to get it fixed or else your gonna have to buy a new computer and there really expensive now.
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My ex and I broke up quite a while ago, but I still have feelings for him. We are both 16, and I know that he's probably just immature and that gemini's have a split personality and are flighty, but is there anything I can do to get him back? We are pretty good friends now and we talk every now and then. He used to like me a lot, and I was the only girl that he's made his official girlfriend in a while.. so I'm kind of hoping that counts for something. Thank you. (link)
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If the guy doesnt want to get back with you then you cant make him but if you still wanna try then tell him how you feel and that you want to be with him and maybe he will get back with you but if not then i suggest you leave him and move on theres alot of guys out there and you cant count on just one guy your whole life so if he doesnt take you back then forget him eventually you will get over him.
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I'm about 10lbs over weight. I went to the gym for 1 hour 5 times a week for three months and never lost a single pound or inch even after I cut out sodas and junk food. Anyone else have this problem? I lost my motivation. (link)
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I had the same problem for about 2-3 months but then i decided to take out all the carbs from my diet and ive lost a lot of weight doing this for a few months should work so basically no junk food or fried foods no soda or sugary foods and drinking skim milk or soy milk with every meal helps and bout 8-9 glasses of water a day try this and i assure u that u will lose your weight.
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Does Anybody Know How You Can Write Your Own Advice Column Online And Get Payed For It.... Like An Actual Career ?? Cus I Want A Career As A Advice Columnist And Am Struggling To Find OUt How To Do It
Please Help (link)
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Well advicenators has a paid account where you answer questions and get paid but if you dont want to then make a website and once thats done tell everyone about it.
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What do you do when your girlfriend of 5 years of relationship cheats on you, on the basis that you have told her that she won't find a guy like me and that she can even go and give it a try and she goes ahead? (link)
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You dump her and make her feel sorry for doing something so cruel.
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i am going to try and make this quick. but i have been given ' Trimethoprim Tablets' by the doctor. i have taken 1 already. but after i took it i read the leaflet. on the leaflet it says not to take if you are pregnant. thing is i dont quite know if i am pregnant because me and my partner was trying for a baby and i haven't yet taken a test. am i safe to take these tablets do you know? the box only has 6 tablets anyways so i only need to take the 6 tablets overall. if anyone can help me it would be appreciated thanks (link)
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I would take the pregnacy test first and then take the tablets just to be on the safe side or call the company that makes the tablets and ask them or go to the doctor.
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i have to take a urine sample tomorrow for a job interview but i'm on my period. is there any way i can hurry up my period flow, like by drinking a lot of water tonight? (link)
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yup just drink lot of water and go to the bathroom constantly you should be fine if that doesnt work then just tell your work ppl you will do it when your period is gone.
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I am 19 years old, about 5'10 and 170 pounds. In a little over a month I am going on vacation with my boyfriend and I want to look really good in my bathing suit. I know that a month is not a lot of time, and I know not to go on a crash diet or anything. I just really need to lose some weight. I have tried before, but I never seem to lose any weight. I just need to lose fat on my stomach..help!!! (link)
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do crunches for a half hour ach day up till the day your going and take like 2-3 minute breaks in between and cut down on the oily and fatty foods and the sugary foods and drinks and try more fruit and veggies and lots and lots of water i lost a lot of weight in the first month.
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I am going on vacation with my boyfriend in couple weeks & i'll be in my bathing suit most of the time. Normally I shave ya know..down there..but i want to be smooth all week...but i dont want to get razor burn..so how can i do that? and please don't say get a wax at a salon. (link)
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nair its meant for legs but its k to use it there and i dont mean the wax strips but the gel type one of the bath scrub one.
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i just need a streaight answer (link)
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no they have sugar on them and sugar can make dogs sick.
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how do you make it fun for a 11yerold boy to clean his room. (link)
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make it a game put numbers on the the pile of mess and on the other side of the number paper put down a number of points he will get for putting it away and do that for everything and then once he gets everything done give him a reward that way each time he will be happy to clean his room then if he still doesnt want to make it more creative.
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hi i have a problem I am not fat, but not skinny either. I weigh 125lbs and 5'3 the problem with this is that i gained 10 pounds in 2 weeks! Lately I have been having these cravings for fatty foods and can't seem to stop them. I run track(that season is over)and cheerlead, but I know just tumbling and lifting people in the air or going up in the air myself on occasions isn't going to help. I am getting to heavy to even fly now! How can i keep these cravings off. (link)
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Your weight really isnt bad but if you really are concerned about it just do some cardio or dance or something that gets you worked up that way you can still eat your fast food and not be big or you could just kill the cravings by filling yourself with fruits and veggies and some water.
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Are there any sunscreens that still allow you to get a tan? I found out I'm at high risk for skin cancer, but I'm so white and I don't want to be. :P (link)
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All sunscreens with SPF 15 will protect you from the suns rays but will still let you get a little tan but by the way if your really interested in getting a tan get the tan in a can its a spray on tan that will last awhile but dont but on too much its hard to take off you could find this at your nearby drug store :)
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Well,the guy that I've been talking about that I've liked for like three,coming up to four years now.
I decided not to tell him,cos we've become pretty good friends and I don't want to ruin it and I know him well enough to know I would rather stay friends with him than lose him altogether. But the problem is,this has been goin on for SO long that I dunno how to get over him?
Any one any tips?
Don't say getting with other guys,cos tried that a few times and just ended with me still liking him and the other guy getting hurt because I still like this guy,so don't want that to happen.
I'm female,16 by the way
Thanks to anyone who helps. (link)
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Well i think you should just ask him to hang out not exactly a date just hanging out and if you and him both have a good time then he will probably ask you out himself but if not then you should just straight up ask him if he likes you or not and dont think so much about it ruining your friendship because if you cant be a couple you really shouldnt be friends because you will feel jelous if he goes out with someone else and you just wont be able to stand having him in your life as just a friend. Good Luck to you :)
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Hi
I plan on taking summer school to raise my average (considering that it is too low right now) so that I do not have to doubt whether I get into university. Anyways, I was wondering, if I were to obtain the required average before summer, would I still have to take the summer school class?
Or could I just not go and have my name taken off the list, because the form stated that 'to secure a spot in the class, we must be present on the first day unless you call in saying you are going to be absent'?
Thank you! (link)
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Well if you reach your average before summer then call the people and get your name taken off the form.
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