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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

advice

im am an 8th grade girl
and i am currently going with a 7th grade guy
we're both 13, (today is his birthday, btw)
and we just started dating again.
-when i say again i mean that we've gone out in november for about a month.
we both like passionatly like eachother
the only semi-problem is is that
i am 5"7
and hes like 5"0 about.
it usually dosnt botehr me, but its just like when i dream about that "first true love" i always think of some one that can hold me in his arms, you know? i really really like this guy tho.
he makes me feel like i've never been hurt before, like i just found out what love is,
and im sure to say, i am pretty experienced and stuff
i just wanna feel like this guy is
a man who stands by my side,
and not a boy who runs and hides,
just please give me some tips to feel better about this,
thanks a lot.
i rate particuarly well.

hey well if you love someone there hieght doesnt matter. the guy doesnt always haev to be taller then teh girl. i really dontknow why people think that but its def. not true. dont listen to waht other people say about this. shake off the haters = ]. cait ♥

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15/m
i am so in love with my girlfriend, i cannot get over how lucky i am to have her, i tell everyone about her, on my myspace i have a pic of her, i love her and tell her that everyday, and i think she is the most beautiful thing to ever walk the plante, but this is where the trouble comes, she thinks she is the ugliest thing ever, she thinks she is fat and just ugly, and she has had a terrible life, all her life her dad and her family have called her fat and ugly, and she is not, and i tell her she is so beautiful everyday, but she cant believe me and she is so insegcure, and it is not just like a usual teenage girl, it is horrible, she has nervous breakdowns over it, i dont know what to do to get her to believe me...and help?

hey your giving your girlfriend all the support you can. you sound like a great sweet and lovng boyfriend. its all up to her now to know that she is not. og course going back home everyday and getting those thigns said to her cant be good. if you guys are old enough i recomend strongly that you move in together. if you are not have her move in with an aunt or soemthing. cait ♥

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are there any guys in this world that dont look at porn?

hey probably some computer geeks. thats about it. porn is normal for guys to look at. cait ♥

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i am a 15/f and last summer i was raped, but the thing was i was high so i cant tell my parents or anything, but i am now clean and everything, but i have really bad flashbacks of that time, like they are so vivid and i can feel it happening and i say stuff outloud like "stop" and sutff....now i told my boyfriend and he was really upset, and i dont know how to get rid of these flashbacks without telling ne one, i mean i have a councelor but i just couldnt tell her, does anyone know what i can do?

hey theres no way you can tell the police or anything because it happen a year ago and theres no way to catch the victum or anything. btu you need to tell someone. you cant just keep your feelings inside like that. you have to tell your councelor eveything you tell them will be safe with them cause thye cant jut tell your parents. cait ♥

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Every since i was old enough to have a crush, i have liked this guy, but he also happens to be my best friend. He knows that i like him and he likes me too and says that im cute, but how do i know what to do. Should I ask him out or is it better that we stay friends?? im soo lost. I dont want to mess up our friendship, and i dont want to hurt myself. Help me please!!! By the way im 13/f

hey well if you know for a fact that he likes you and you totally liek him back then go for it. if you liek someone alot its worht the risk. try http://www.links2love.com for some tips. cait ♥

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does anyone know how to make your pictures look like your glowing..and not using photoshop?

thanks

hey on some cameras there is color options that would do that. your camera might not have it. iff it doesnt have it just make the lighting in your room very bright. cait ♥

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Hey,
Well I wonder what it meant on myspace when people say they'll comment and whore, I understand the comment, duh I'm not stupid but i don't get the whoreing thing.

Thanks

hey when people say i will whore you on myspace that just means that where there is the bulletin on the left side of your page they will put your picture and say something like " ashley she is the sexiest thing ever visit her page "

cait ♥

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I really like this girl at school but she is my best friend. I'm scared that if I tell her and she says yes, I know we'll break up. Everyone knows that if you break up with someone you basically aren't friends anymore. Does anyone know what I should do? HELP ME!!!

hey well 1st of all jstu because yu break up doesnt mean you stil cant be friends. sure that is the case for some people but theres others that are still friends. if you realy liker her i think it is well worth the risk. cait ♥

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sorry it's kinda long but I wanna know...

ok well it's be about 8 months since I've gotten my period and for the first 4 months is was coming aroud the 20th and then it didn't and it came aroud the 13th and then for about 3 more months it was around the 13th well in Januaray is come on the 13th and now it's the 17th and I don't get why it hasn't come and I'm like scared that I'm messed up or not normal considering this is the 2nd time this has happend. Can someone please tell me what's happening if it's normal or not. Thanks, will rate too.

hey your normal unless your sexually active. irregualr periods happen to most girls and it is very unknown for a girl to have a regualr period record. cait ♥

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Ok, I really wanna find a guy between 14 and 15 on Myspace that I can just like talk to and be there just to talk to cause i have plenty of girls on myspace that i talk to but i want a guy too that i can talk to and have a fun time, does anyone know where i can find him?? lol i've tried the search but I can't really find anyone thanks

hey well i dont suggest searching for guys on my space. because it is very well known for males to lie about there age on my space. you might thin that you are finding a 14 year old and rally he could be 40. try searching at your shcool or getting freidsn to introduce you to new guys. cait ♥

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i am 17 years old and i am a women. i hae this guy friend who has tryed to get me to have sex with him. but everytime we wore going to i told him a started my period and i need to get home to change my clothes. but i really want to have sex but i am scared that i will get pregant. since i am not on birth control. so what should i do

hey personally i think 17 is wya to young to get pregnant. but if you think your ready then make sure he uses a condom. also getting the pill would be ag ood idea if you wish to continue to be sexually active. cait ♥

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i am 15, a girl, and i am bi. however, i never know if a girl is a lesbian or not, or bisexual. especially the truley feminin ones. how do i tell with out embaressing my self and having to ask them if they are interested in girls or not. is there any underage gay bars i can go to in la?

hey you could try to play it off liek your not just directly asking that question. you could be like how many guys have you hooked up with. then be like have you ever hooked up wiht a girl if so how many. cait ♥

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What would be something cute to do with your hair for a special occaison?? ( f/13. a little bit longer than my shoulder length brownish red hair. (mostly brown) though. thanks!!)

hey um you could straighten your hair and then put in a strechy headband with your side bangs down. that always looks cute. if you dont have side bangs and have regular bangs just push them to the side or you oculd also take donw two long pieces or jsut one. cait ♥

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There is this boy who I have had a crush on for like 5-6 years. One night I found out he had a 'thing' for me and I was so surprised that well I thought it would last forever but then it faded so distant and now he barely talks to me. He never texts me back, never ims me, never calls me...he completely forgets I'm alive. My friends who knows him as we went to the same schools, tell me to move on and just live life, with or without a guy. I've been trying but every friday wen he's online I feel so sick to my stomach because I have no idea what's wrong with me; do i have a sign on my head, did i hurt him, what did i do?
Last night though he talked to me...just a few words and somehow I think it's because my friend asked him why he's not talking to me. HE just said hi, how are you and how was your day. And wen I asked y he was talking to me he completely ignored my question. He was like a brother to me, he used to help me with homework, we used to talk for hours on the internet and wen he called me I would sneek outside to talk to him. One night he called me 11 with his friend and talked for 40 minutes and it was amazing how I made my grandma think it was my 'girl' friend! It's really botherin me...does ne one (girls or guys) know why he's ignoring me all of a sudden?

hey well maybe he fpund out that you had a thing for him and got a little freaked out. that could have killed your relationship. its all up to you to find otu why he isnt tlaking to you. its not up to your friends. only you can solve your own problems if you want them solved right. well good luck. you simply have to confront him yourself, no if ans or buts. cait ♥

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hey yall i want an screen name thats like emo, goth.... rocker type of screen name....... any words

Any suggestions??

hey here are a few screen names that might help you out = ].

rockerchick16
hawthorneheights [ cant do anymore cause screen names can only be up to 16 letters ]
rockerdude16
rockingchick16
rockingdude16
onecoolrocker16

cait ♥

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well. i just turned 13. Like, 2 days ago. Ive been getting that white stuff in my underware for a while now. I would say like 4 months. I dont have alot of pubic hair. Can you get your period with out having pubic hair? Does it come after you get it ? Or do you have to have it before? Also, am i close to having my period? Im not sure. And im worried i might get it in the middle of school or something. Okay, one last question. If you get it during school, is it definately going to leak through? Or is there a chance it might not. Thanks so much if you can help me !!!

hey umm yes thats a sign of getting your period. the hair doesnt matter. also to prevent the embarassment of a leakage of getting it in school start wearing pantie liners. when you first egt it your flow isnt very heavy, so those will do the trick. even put some extra lienrs in your purse if youy want. i wouldnt start wearing pads till you actually get your period. cait ♥

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well lets see...i love my gf to death and thats how all guys should be. lately we broke up but we said we love eachother so we were still going out unoficially. I was doing everything i can for her i was like too selfless i guess. she told me to try not to luv her because she doesnt want to be hurt so i rip a part of my heart out for her and i do that. just asking how can i change and i guess this sounds weird but be a little more selfish because i cant. she has to be happy or im not thats the catch.

hey well personally i think that if you still truely love each other going out once again offically is worth the risk of gettting hurt. if your not willing to do that then find a happy medium aka compremise. cait ♥

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Hi, I have a boyfriend who I've been with since January 11th, I do like him a lot, of course. But I also like someone else. The problem is I don't want to leave my boyfriend I have now cause he say's he dosn't want to go on without me and he dosn't know what he would do without me cause I'm everything to him and since we've been together he's been happy cause his life is getting better. But I tend to feel he dosn't want to talk to me and or is bored of me. I also know of him looking at other girls naked pictures ( I never took any I'm not the one to do that). But was telling me all about it while he was. And it seems like he enjoyed it. Though the other guy I like I said something about it to him cause I was kinda upset which the other guy likes me also and try's to cheer me up and is always there when I need him. I really don't know what to do anymore. Cause I'm not good at talking to my boyfriend about these deals, cause I'm not used to doing all of this.

hey well thats a hard one. i think that if you like another guy besdies the one you say that you " love " then you dont really love the guy you say you do. it takes more time to love someone then a month. no matter how amazing they are toyou. so my theory is do what your heart tells you. cait ♥

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i am instaling BaaN and Oracle. But due to some
problem BaaN is not installed properly. Now i want to remove the services of BaaN and Oracle those were made during the last installation. so,suggest me how to remove those services and also how to clear these from Registry?

hey um i dont know. i also dont think many people on this site would know. what i would do is call for professional help. cait ♥

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I met this guy 2 years ago while we both we legally separated.I was not the other woman.I just had my divorce finalized but he is still ongoing.A lot of nasty custody and money issues on his side.We both had a separate apartments.We met and fall in love.Everytime my boyfriend faces a problem, he will withdraw and break up with me. He has problem having access to his children and was deppressed for not being able to see them for a period of 5 months strecth.His wife use the kids as pawns.We broke up everytime because of this.He will then come back again when he thinks he has sort out the issues. His wife met me and him while in the restaurant and eversince that, she has given him unlimited access to the kids. He is so overwhelmed with this new arrangement and now he said that he can't do both.Having a relationship and his kids in the picture.He broke up with me again. I know he is confused.This man was married for 15 years since the age of 22. He misses the family life but he don't love the wife anymore.Both had an affair and he left the marriage.I am deeply in love with this man and everytime he comes back, i will never give him a hard time cause i know how much his kids meant to him.I am disappointed with his decisions. He told me that he is going away with the kids and the wife for a holiday which is something he has not done so for the past 3 years.He wants to be close with the kids again. I am so heartbroken right now as i don't know if he will go back to his wife after being separated for 2 and half years. His wife wanted him back badly and she is trying so hard to have him back in his life. I am stuck.I really love this man but i'm torn as well because i really believe of the vows we make in marriage but my guts tell me that he is not going back with her. Too many resentments from the divorce proceedings and multiple affairs from both sides.Please help me.I keep thinking there is hope that he will come back again once he smooth this one out again.I can't quit thinking about this and i really believes i can be happy with this man.

hey well i think that you should just get away from all that. still continue to be friends with but nothing more. its not good for your heart. he is a confused man right now and needs time alone. maybe he will get back with his wife. myabe he wont. only god knows. cait ♥

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