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Ok so one of my best friends liked this guy for a while and he liked her but they just couldnt be together because of her dad. but they still liked eachother but then i started talking to him because she wanted me to get to know him because we figured that eventually we could all hang out cuz they will prolly end up going out but they didnt now she dosnt like him anymore and i do..and i have a bf but things are not going well with my bf right now and i have kinda felt that i like him for a while now but one of my friends told me this week that maybe i just like him because i dont get that kind of attention from my bf and hes not the friendliest person ever but this other guy is really really nice and i still want my friend and him to be together but she told me its just not gonna happen and i know i shouldnt like him i just cant help it. so i guess my question is should i start flirting with him now or just completely stop and keep things normal..break up w/my bf or not to? sorry for this being long!
hey, well your friend is exactly right. your not getting the kind of loving attention that a boyfriend is suppose to be giving you. girls long for that kind of love and attention. maybe you should break it off with your boyfriend if your not happy. it seems like you like that other guy better than your boyfriend and he seems to have a lot of good qualities that you like and that your searching for in a guy. if you do decide to make it over with your boyfriend, make sure that your friend is 100% okay with you liking him and maybe possibly starting a relationship with him. whatever you do, don`t stay with your boyfriend and flirt with the other guy, techinally that would be cheating. and even if you and your boyfriend are rocky right now, no one deserves to be cheated on. also dont go out wiht the other guy like a day after you break up with your boyfriend.
O.K., there's this guy that i used to like, but i don't anymore, so i don't know why it's like this. i can't talk to him, it's really awkward between us and i avoid him, i don't know how to change this, i really don't like him more than a friend, but i do want to talk to him. What do I do?
hey, well it seems like you must have valued his friendship. i get like that with my ex sometimes too. did you guys end on a bad note? if so, clear it up and put aside all differences. just tell him that you did value his friendship and hope that you guys could be good friends again.
everytime i shave i get these little dots on my legs. i hatee themm!!! how do i make them go away??
hey, well it could be a number of different things. do you have naturally dark hair like black or a darker shade of brown? if so it might just be that the hair folicols on your legs are dark, therefore even when you shave you can see little blackish dots. it could be razor burn. to prevent that use shaving cream. i recommend "baby soft" by skintimate. its in a blue bottle and its pretty cheap. also use a venus razor. always put on lotion to prevent dry skin. if you have naturally dry skin you could use "dry skin" by skintimate in a green bottle.
Hello my name is Natalie, I am 15 years old and I have a boyfriend named Don and I am really confused about him right now. He always says he loves me but he doesn't show it. I know most people would say that this is stupid but he hasn't even changed his status on myspace yet it still says single. It means alot to me because when we first went out he was so happy to say that I was his girlfriend but now it's like he just don't care. I try to talk to him but he wouldn't listen and I just have a feeling that he's just using me till he can find the next best thing.Sorry that this is long I have alot to say but what should I do.
Thanks xoxo,
Natalie F
hey, well you say that you`ve tried to talk to him. maybe something`s going on that you cant read. almost anything is possible. maybe its family issues or his homelife. sometimes people get embarassed with there problems and chose not to share them with anyone. just explain to him that you`ve changed your status on myspace and those little things like that really bother you. he should understand if he truly cares about you. maybe he`s just shy? is he a naturally shy person? if so, tell him that you are his own girlfriend and that he should feel comfortable and free with you to come out of his shell. another common thing is that you`ve been going out for a while and the relationship is started to get very serious. maybe hes afraid of commitment or getting to attached and them losing you.
I just had surgery and one of my cuts isn't fully closed on the outside. the inside is, of course. I have a green pus/gunk on the incission. It's near my bellybotton because i had liproscopic (sp) surgery. anyways, when i put an obsorbant on it, (fyi, toliet paper, cottonball, stuff like that) it obsorbs green stuff. i'm not sure if my other 2 incission are infected, and connot use them to detirmine if my one is, because they still have the tape my doc put on them on them. yes, she just taped me up, my mom assumes she just sewed the inner part. Do you think it's infected?
hey, well ooozing always occurs after you have operations. so that part is perfectly normal, but the green oooze is not. schedule an appointment with your doctor and ask her what she thinks.
I'm about to graduate from a trade school next week and there is a teacher who I grew close to. And i'm kind of sad because I don't want to lose contact with him after graduation. It's nothing weird, I have just always gotten along better with adults than people my age...
Anyway, How can I ask him if we can stay in touch and remain friends without it sounding weird I guess, because he is my teacher and also i'm the youngest one in class and I don't want him to see me as just some weird kid.
I'm 19 and he's around his early 30's
hey, well just take the time to thank him for helping you in the past and maybe even grow a little closer to him if possible. just let him know that you came to consider him a good aquantince. write it to him in a note, just incase you get the nerves. i hope all works out well!
everytime it starts to look like its turning spring the snow comes down like mad crazy. so a few days ago it was like 60 degrees or like 65 or something maybe 70 and it was so warm and i was so glad because i always feel so much better in the heat. like about the way i look my attitude everything. and then yesturday like we get 6-12 inches of snow. how depressing. any way i can get thro this? helpp.
hey, the weather is something that you just can`t change no matter how much we want to. just try to embrace what`s best about the rain and snow. example: dancing in the rain or makibg snow angels. sipping hot cocoa by the fire and having movie nights with your friends. things will get better and warmer soon!
so i wanna learn how to do some really cool dance moves for prom cus there is a dance off. if anybody has any link videos to youtube or watever and can explain how they do that move please help me out. I wanna know how to move like shaquira or however you spell it. i like how she can move her body in just certain places thats wat i wanna know how so anybody help me out! please!
hey, well your best bet would be to watch the video of "hips dont lie" by shakira. other songs are good too, but thats the best. just copy the moves to the best of your ability and then add your own spice to them.
I like this guy and he stares at me in classes and talks to me and stuff. But i cant really tell if he likes me.. What do I do to tell if he really likes me?
please help!
hey, well those are hints that he may like you. it could be just that he is a flirt. it depends if hes only like that with you or not. flirt back and see what happens. http://www.links2love.com has flirting tips. the only real way to know for sure if he likes you is if you ask him yourself. dont have someone else find out for you because information can get easily mixed up or changed.
31/m - Sorry for the long story, but I need help.
Many years ago when I was in my early teens I did something very bad. Something society truly frowns upons. But since I was underaged, it was my first offense of any kind, and nobody pressed charges I went to group offenders counseling once a week for 3 years and the offense was striken from my record. My mother and I went together, although with separate counselors, because parents were encouraged to go as well. My father worked. Through this counseling I was able to flourish. I discovered much about why I did the horrible things that I did, and I shared all these discoveries with my mother.
About 8 years ago, my mother died. She was the "glue that held together" our family. Without her nobody knew what went on with any of the other very busy people in my family. After her death, we (my father, my sister, and I) found out many secrets about my mother that she had been keeping for many years. Also, I found out my father and sister knew nothing about the basic facts of my life; my career, my relationship, my phone number, nothing. I know I am to blame too but, naively, I always thought that my mother clued them in.
So, that being said, do you think I should worry about what my father and sister think of me? I'm sure my mother did not tell them about how much I grew from counseling nor the explaination that makes sense of it all. As far as I know, they only know about the horrible offense that I committed with no understanding of why.
But on the other hand, is it at all necessary to talk to my father and sister seeing that I did this over 15 years ago and much, much water has passed under all of our bridges.
What does everyone think?
hey, well in my opinion i think you should schedule a lunch date with the two of them together. make sure you pay even if they offer. during lunch, talk about how much you`ve changed and the reasons for you doing what you did. family should always come first in life and i can only imagine how happy you will be if you reunite with them.
ive been getting sick for about a week now... it was never really full blown, just seemed like i was going to end up sick soon. ive been using airborne, drinking lots of tea and orange juice, and getting lots of sleep. 2 days ago i kind of lost my voice... i don't know how because i wasnt like yelling or anything. and i still sound funny today, its been like this for 2 days now. well today i woke up and i felt the worst i have so far. i still don't feel horrible, but i have lacrosse tryouts tomorrow after school. i already have a disadvantage because i dont have great endurance due to an anemia thing i got going on. i want to make the team more than anything and im so scared that being sick is going to hold me back a lot. is there anything i can do or is it too late and now i just have to wait for the sickness to pass? also, for the past week or so i just had a little bit of a stuffy nose, and a hardly noticable sore throat. now i cant stop blowing my nose and my throat is pretty scratchy. and my voice is still really different sounding
hey, well you should have seen a doctor already. the best thing for you would be to rest all day today and sleep as much as possible. ask your parents to take you to like walgreens and get you cold medicine and cough drops. thats pretty much all you can do. i encourage you to try to make it to school tommorow, so you can still try out. i would still notify the person holding the tryouts that your sick. its not going to do anythign really, but at least they will know that your not playing your best.
What exactly do you mean by scrunching your hair? What does it look like, and how does it work??
hey, scrunched hair is basically a curly/wavy "wet" look. this should help you.
http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art4077.asp
here are some products that i recommend for hair scrunching.
http://www.body.com/images/m/gelee-firm-hold-gel-by-biolage-1024588.jpg
found at any salon type stores [not cvs or walgreens or any stores like that].
http://pics.drugstore.com/prodimg/27146/200.jpg
found at walgreens, cvs, walmart, or brooks.
http://www.pantene.com/en_US/products/regimen/images/packShot_curls.jpg
ahhh,yes. the pantene curl hydration products found at walgreens, cvs, walmart, or brooks. they have shampoo, conditioner, gel, mouse, and anti-frizz cream.
http://www.muimports.com.au/images/Diffuser%20Finger%20Soft%20Styler.jpg
thats a diffuser, incase you didnt know. they are attachments for blowdryers and are usually sold with blowdryers. if you want to get one seperately, try a beauty supply store [ex: sally beauty].
http://sallybeauty.com/
hi im rebecca i am 12 years old and i am going through some changes and im not listing to my mom not doin stuff around the house as offten my mom thinks i need to see my doctor and talk to a council or should i do what i think is best for me??
hey, well always do what you think is best for you. just dont disregard your mother too much. what is making you be rebelious? your friends?your boyfriend? bad influences? pinpoint what it is. then from there i can help you further.
what are some good places to buy handbags? i want a bag similar to this picture in this link except in black or brown is ok too.
http://shopaholicsdaily.com/wp-content/uploads/2006/08/_pleated.jpg
im willing to spend up to $80 on one. any good places with cute bags? (please DO NOT tell me ebay. thanks)
hey, those are pretty much found just about anywhere. try the department stores like filenes, macys, sears, and jc penny.
My ex boyfriend from seventh grade is i think still mad at me. we broke up really badly because someone got on my screen name and was telling him stuff for months. he thinks i was lying to him the whole time. its been 3 years now i hate to say it but everytime i see him in class i just feel all these feelings rush back. we didn't do anything like sex. but i don't think he likes me... he doesn't i.m. me or anything. but i think he's been pranking me lately. what should i do?
hey, well he probably still has sour feelings from before. you should confront him about it. whether its in person, on AIM, or on the phone. tell him that you dont want there to be any hard feelings about the whole thing from the past. also tell him that you would like to become friends with him again. keep talking to him almost daily and if you feel a good connection maybe flirt a little.
I recently went back to school after missing over a week for mono. Im falling really far behind in almost all of my classes, and im really worried. My teachers have been lenient and have given me time for makeup work, but its just not enough. I have to much work and not enough time. Im losing sleep because of the workload and as a result of this, im not getting any better sick wise. I have the flu now and just cant seem to get this work done. I thought about skipping a day of school to catch up on things but I cant miss any more days of school without getting points deducted from my grades for it. How can I manage the workload and still get sleep and not be so stressed out?
hey, alright well being sick and trying to get all of that done doesnt mix. you need to go to each of your teachers and maybe ask if you can stay after for extra help. set aside 2-4 hours a day for makeup work at home. maybe even when your with the teachers for after school help you can ask them to assist you on the homework. if your going to take another day off, i would have a friend go to your locker and get the books you need for that day. also tell them to give you the assignments, so your not that far behind.
To get this out of the way... :D I am 16/f and this might be little bit long but please bear with me here :D
So I have been going out with this guy named Ryan for little over a month (which is my surprise and to everyone else as well because I never had relationship longer than 2 weeks but thats beside the point)
When we were hitting 2nd week into our relationship, he told me he loved me. I didn't say it back because I wasnt sure and he said it was okay and totally understanding so that's cool and out of the way.
But now it seems like I have to chase for him to like me. (well not exactly but I have to try and go out my way to ... well... like is the only word I can think of)
I mean just the other day, he stood me up because he forgot. I know he has terrible memory and whatnot but still that's not a good enough of an excuse right? i mean I understand if I didn't remind him about it but I had reminded about our meet over 5 times.
Also he again forgot to call to discuss when we can meet again after he promised. I know i know guys forget to call but he didn't have to promise about it which would've been lot better off.
So now I am not sure what to do. This lady whom I confide in lot of things (because she's a good listener and had been through all this...she's over 30 by the way but totally cool for her age :D) well she thinks i should end it right now because there's no point into being in a relationship if I have to chase after for it.
My friends thinks im being paranoid and unappreciative.
Which makes me more confused than ever. I can not go into details about this but I have hard time processing and have things thought out or even make a choice so please help
hey, alright well i agree with the girl that you confide in. i personally think that if the guy cant even remember that you were suppose to hangout together and that if you slip his mind that easily, than its not worth it. you deserve someone that will appreciate you and will not forget about you. i know i know, your probably thinking "oh thats what everyone says", but its totally true. he shouldnt have to be reminded to call his own girlfriend or to even remember plans that he had with his own girlfriend. i wouldnt completly end it here. i would talk to him about it first, because to me it seems that you want to make this work. if hes not willing to change, then i would end it. it would be the best for you. it might take some time to get over, but just remember that when your looking for another guy, think about the bad qualities that your last ones had.
In Edward Scissorhands.. Kim is wearing a white dress towards the end. it looks like silkyish, and it looks like a belt on top but it isnt. does anyone know where i can get the exact one or one almost like it?
thanks! :)
hey, are you talking about any of these?
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=tops&product%5Fid=2036017584&showBACK=OK
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Dresses&product%5Fid=2035200627&Page=all
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Dresses&product%5Fid=2035275318&Page=all
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Dresses&product%5Fid=2034529182&Page=all
there are many many types of dresses from forever 21 with belts, or belt type things. if i showed them all to you i would be there all day, so you can take it upon yourself and look around.
http://www.forever21.com/category.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Dresses&Page=all
also you can just get a regular dress and then put a belt on it. there are some cute ones here, once again from forever 21.
http://www.forever21.com/category.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=belts&Page=1
I have extremely curlyhair that is very thick. Kind of similar to debra messing's when she wears it naturally...and i was wondering if side bangs would look good on me. ( i have a round face) ..and i was wondering if they wold just frizz up and look bad or whould i have to straighten them
hey, they would look great on you. its your choice whether to straighten them or not. you can always use a round brush and blowdry them.
can anyone list me some names of Leave-in conditioners and tell me what it does to your hair and if it will damage it at all? Is it better then conditioners you use when you bath because you leave it in?
hey, paul mitchell is the best.